11/13/2008 9:55 PM
Myra wrote:
She's a black female celebrity and she's the breadwinner. Like many other "kept" celebrity husbands, he appears to be devoted to her.
Sadly to say, when she was recently out of town in regard to her career. Hubby was at the strip club living it up!
His thing is cuddling with his favorite stripper while he watches girl/girl action on the stage. He was also making it rain with his wife's money.
After the show, the stage was covered with a pile of hundred dollar bills (in the thousands).
He then left to go upstairs (VIP lounge) with his favorite stripper, on the way up, he ordered bottles of Dom.
He walked in the lounge to find the husband of a female rapper (trio) experiencing a lap dance.
They exchanged greetings and our wayward husband had his favorite girl do a partial strip tease for him. Afterwards, she gave him a lap dance, he then tried to dry hump her on the couch. She playfully stopped him. They left together and went to a nearby hotel.
The tab for the entire evening (totaling in the thousands) was funded by his wife (unbeknownst to her).
Who is the celebrity female and her straying husband? Who is the female rapper (trio) whose husband is also cheating on her? Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:12 AM
pr_phillyfan wrote:
Ding Ding Ding!!Yall are both right. I was like O WOW @ Salt's hubby, but not surprised at Cant du. I so wish that Mary would wake up and get a clue. She is being used and played, again. Po thang Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:45 AM
Opinion wrote:
I agree with Kendu and Salt's husband. There's only one rap female trio that I know about so it's the logical answer. And we just discussed Kendu the other day... Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:32 AM
Detroit's Finest wrote:
I think you are right. I remember Salt's husband staying up late with pepa gambling on one of their sitcom episodes. I can see him doing this. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:51 PM
china_khan wrote:
Pep introduced Cheryl (Salt) to her husband, they knew each other first as friends. I got that tidbit of info from her book "Let's Talk About Pep" Reply to this
11/16/2008 8:42 AM
2sexxy wrote:
famous woman and bread winner is janet jackson...cuz jermain dupree has a favorite stripper reportedly supose to be pregnant and the one of the rap trio is salt of salt and pepper... Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:14 PM
Pookie wrote:
Dang, this definitely sounds like the reason Mary jumped right back on tour. Kendu is truly a H.A.M. if this is him.
11/13/2008 10:34 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Hey Pookie How goes it ? I'll catch you on tomorrow. "SheKnows" is too tired,LOL. Girl, I'm sitting up here drifting in & Out. Let me get my butt out of here, Later!
11/15/2008 11:02 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Thanks MsToson By the way, I love your posts...I see that you're well-rounded, and will drop a bomb or 2 Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:29 AM
BlessedWoman wrote:
Hey SheKnows, Girl those are all of my guesses. Kendu and Kerri are the only kept men that come to my mind right now. And a married female rapper of a trio, not many female rapper trios out there.So I think you are on to something. Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:37 AM
SheKnows wrote:
Hey Blessed Baby!!! I was thinking about the other day, and was gone shoot you an email. How have you been ? But, yes I think we have a winner with at least one of the 2 couples... Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:05 PM
Elevation=Evolution wrote:
Hey Myra! That's ok..we still love ya! You know you have A LOT of ride or die ladies around these here boards we would have waited it out. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:09 PM
SheKnows wrote:
So true...I was just about to lie down until I saw that she had posted it. Girl, we be waiting on Myra's BI's like it's feeding time at the Zoo,LOL!! Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:15 PM
Elevation=Evolution wrote:
Hey SheKnows.....love your genuine sweet posts....but you have not lied...for me it has become an interference!! Like it's first to my fiance', (second to my son) cooking dinner, watching TV, tending to my house....should I continue? I'm for real...it's become an illness...
11/13/2008 10:01 PM
CoCoDeluxe wrote:
Cosign w/Mary & Kendu and Cheryl 'Salt' Wray of SNP fame. I thought someone dropped the tidbit about Mary and her leeching husband on a previous thread. Salt's husband looks a little 'soft' to me. IMO. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:02 PM
Elevation=Evolution wrote:
Wow.....looks like we all honed in on the same people....I couldn't type fast enough....lol!!! Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:03 PM
charlotte-here-I-come wrote:
gotta be one of the husbands from Salt-N-Pepa cuz I don't think anyone in JJ Fad got ever got married. Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:56 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
JJ Fad, 3-5-7 until 3-5-7 became JJ Fad and vice - versa.....Now which one had the girl that ran words as fast as Twista? Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:07 PM
KaraZ wrote:
This is Kendu, Necole Betchie posted the email from one of her readers earlier today.
however, I think Mary knows and that's why she's popping pills. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:07 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
WOW! Co-sign with the guesses Kendu and Mr. Salt. How embarassing. No wonder Mary doesn't stop working. This is 4 cd's worth of sad songs coming right up. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:14 PM
Chi-Town Reader wrote:
And one of those is a double cd combo with extra bonus cuts on the second cd. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:02 AM
Lil e Lunchhead wrote:
and while you're at it, you might as well add Beyonce. Seventy (70) songs is a lot of yodelling. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:08 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Now, I'm sitting at my desk picturing Beyonce' in a swiss miss outfit on the alps saying "yo de lay di hoo"..LOL Reply to this
11/16/2008 1:54 PM
Lil e Lunchhead wrote:
Hey Ms. Toson! Just look at some of the photos from last week's World Music Awards. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:10 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Hey Techno, I really enjoyed talking with you earlier. I love good conversation. We must do that again ♥ You can call me anytime ! Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:16 PM
technogeek wrote:
Same here. You are so full of positive energy, it just flows continuously like Niagra Falls..It was so cool. You are a delight to talk to!
11/13/2008 10:30 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Thank you sweetie and so are you. I love intelligence, good conversation ,and a good sense of humor. I'm about to call it a night...One of my friend's that I grew up with, grandmother's funeral is tomorrow afternoon. She called me earlier, and asked was I coming.I'm like...You know I'll be there ♥ Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:10 PM
Chi-Town Reader wrote:
I can't get the new page!!!!!!!!!! I've been refreshing for the last 15-20 minutes and I see keep getting the old page. Even logged off and came back and nothing. If I have to shut down I may not make it back. I read up top and I think it is either Gabriel Lathan or Sannai Union. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:17 PM
♥ sin7 ♥ wrote: Girl, I'm sleepy too...remember it's an hour later here! I have to be bright eyed and bushy tailed in less than six hours. I'm sooooo not a morning person either! Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:11 PM
♥ sin7 ♥ wrote:
I'll go with either Mary J or Toni Braxton and Salt's husband. He seemed a little too friendly with Pepa when she stayed at their home. Salt also plays Ms Goody-Two shoes kinda hard. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:20 PM
technogeek wrote:
I'm still waiting on the front page. I still get the same page with ditty on it. I hope we don't crash the server...trying to load the front page webmaster is trying to load it at the same time on the server! Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:21 PM
Fashionista wrote:
Damn shame but yeah this sounds just like Mary J and Salts hubby. Mary J need to quit playing, go gourmet hood on him, hire a private detective, get it all on tape, pull those financials (cause i'm sure with his lame azz he's paying somebody's rent somewhere) and put the hammer down. Take notes from Christy Brinkley and crush em. As for Salt's husband, i'm not surprised. He looked bored all the time at the house. Give Pepa 2 packs of 22'inch super premium and some Fendi boots as a down payment, he'll be sleep in the Jersey shore by sunrise. Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:48 PM
NewbagNcoupe wrote:
I never understood why she cut everyone off for him . He never had a real job until her managed her career.Everytime she is being interviewed he looks like he's up to something . He's the sneaky type . The type that be on the phone telling his first BM everything about the marriage . Silly hoes always in silly situations . She marreid the biggest Groupie EVER!!!!GOSHHHHHH Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:15 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
To Fashionista and NewBagNCoup~ Amen! Kendu comes across as what some psych professionals term as suffering from delusional psychosis in which they create a world of granduer based on their previous or pending target's status and build as if is part of his/her own and causing near destruction or destruction of their victims whereas Salt's husband, Galvin, come across almost like Deshawn Snow's husband except he, Galvin, is NOT the check. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:22 PM
Hidoll wrote:
I'm gonna go with Cheryl Salt? husband Gavin is the one in question. I watched The Salt and Pepa Show he seems the type when Sandi Pepa was staying at they're house he,Sandi and two other guys was downstairs playing cards and getting loud. Salt had to come downstairs twice to tell them to cool it not to mention she said to him "You just lose your mind when Sandi's over"
So I'm guessing that because she has found religion and doesn't have that wild side anymore he's plays the loving husband/father around her and the kids but when she's not looking his wild side comes out. Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:54 PM
NewbagNcoupe wrote:
I never seen a better "disciplined reality show watcher" then you . Salts husband did say that .LOLOLOLOLOLOL. I never picked up on that line ... Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:45 AMalycia wrote:
I watched that show too! And did you peep how hard he was staring at that nude painting of Sandy when she came to live with them for a little while? I remember thinking right then that that may end up being a problem, and that he definitely has a wild side--I thought about that when he was, as you mentioned, playing a loud game of cards with Sandy and the guys. I wondered would she be down to sleep with him if she got just tipsy (not drunk) enough to do so. Hmmmm... Reply to this
Yeah he was eye balling that nude panting of her like he wanted to attack it. It was so disrespectful of Sandi to bring that big azz nude painting of herself around Cheryl's family. She had wore out her welcome before she got in the house good with bringing that nude painting, her doggie, leaving and staying longer then she should knowing her daughter had music lessons, then she"forgets" her cellphone, staying up late into the night with Cheryl's husband and those two other guys all loud waking up the house. She'd been out of my house the moment she kept putting that nude painting around where my hubby,kids and church family could see it.
I don't put anything past Pep if she did get "drunk" she's just the type who would get "tipsy or drunk" and make a past or allow a past to be made at her then claim " oh I was drunk" "I must to had too much too drink and I didn't know what I was doing"
I mean Sandy "Pepa" does have some pinned up anger at Salt for just leaving the group so Sandy getting "drunk" and messing with her husband or doing anything else that would make Cheryl upset is something she just might do
Oh Alycia the reason I keep using "" when I say drunk is because I think whenever someone have too much to drink and start saying or doing things and saying things that cause trouble I say that's that persons true feelings/self coming out. And "drunk" is a excuse cause if they say they were "drunk" it erases or don't count what they said or did. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:57 AMalycia wrote:
Hey, Hidoll and fam: I lurk everyday and post when I have more time to so. I get food for thought and laughs everyday reading this site--I love it. It's damn near like a family, really. I agree with everything you said. I didn't think about that part: of her still being salty at Salt for leaving the group those years ago. She probably does still have some pent up anger (even after that retreat with Iyanla Vanzant that they went on). And you're right about saying "drunk"--everybody uses that as the old satnd by when they've done something REAL foul and out there, form a slip of hte tongue to screwing the football team on the strength of being "drunk". That's why I never drank myself to oblivion when I was single and out, because I sisn't want to wake up with my panties laying next to my head in a strange bed and not know what the hell happened. I know that can't be cool (especially when the "drunk" one finds out that there's a video floating around of their drunken moment--I've seen folks go through that, and it's both funny and sad). But you're so right--Pepa know she was ten kinds of wrong pulling the mess she pulled living at Salt's house. At least Salt kept her class about her versus mixing it up in the living room. lol Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:05 PM
Hidoll wrote:
I agree I never allow myself to get so "drunk" till I can't remember what I said or done. I have more control over myself then that. Whenever my friends and I do go out I never drink more then I should I have nurse one drink the whole time while some of my friends are on her second drink. I make sure I drink more water then anything because I be dripped if I end up trying to drive home and cause an accident.
But that Sandy I'm tell you that sister had no respect for Cheryl's home, when they had to meet with a manager she was late and they had to wait on her.
She went off to meet with someone to fix up her house leaving her daughter at Salt's house knowing 1. the little girl had music lessons 2. That Cheryl had bible study Sandy "forgets" her cellphone. That cow didn't forget her cell phone she left it on purpose so she could stay out as long as she could. It was also messed up she left her phone behind because if she was a decent mother/friend she would have called to check on how her daughter is doing and to tell Cheryl it was going to be late.
That would have been the last straw for me because you just don't take advantage of friends like that. So When she got back all her stuff would have been out on my lawn and she would to have had to find a hotel or wherever to stay I don't care , once she's out I don't care where she'd stay. I would have let the little girl stay she don't need to be from one place to another because her mama can't act more like a adult. But Sandy would have had to go
I believe Sandy was doing most of what she was doing because she's is wild and because deep down she was getting back at Cheryl for leaving the group, she's said it many times that it hurt her the way she did it and they never really talked about it, so Sandy still hold a grudge u can believe that Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:16 PM
80'S BABY wrote:
I agree, but I really don't wanna think that Pepa is that dumb to cross Salt like that. I mean, they knew each other before the group ever got started and they both worked at Sears and went to Queensborough together. She gotta know that if she did some slick mess like that, any hopes she ever had of Salt N Pepa getting back together would be OVER! After watching the show, IMO, Salt should have her third eye on her sister. Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:08 AM
Hidoll wrote:
I would hope that Sandi wouldn't step to Cheryl like that either. Friends are forever you can always get another husband if you want
But sometimes the best of friends break up over other things rathr then men. As I said Sandy said she was really hurt when Cheryl just decided to leave or wuit the group. And the way Sandy made it sound the way it feels when a person is abandon by a parent. I can understand her not liking Cheryl just up and decided to leave without warning.
But at least Cheryl didn't leave for another group,go solo or kick Sandi out the group and hired another girl to replace her.
Cheryl said she had to leave because it was making her sick to try to keep being in the group because she felt pressured. So she had to leave to maintain being sane.
She said she gave her life to God, married, had a family ans she love her life now.
Pepa must to not have been as blessed because I know she's said that she'd been in bad relationships with men, for some reason Sandy is attracted to men who treat her wrong and abuse her.
That's another reason I think Sandi have some pinned up anger and maybe even some jealousy towards Cheryl.
Now u say they were friends before they became a group and they worked together? Well that means that they were once tight when you saw one you saw the othr and they might.
Okay now the form a girl group, still they're tight, they start to become famous they both enjoy the fame, because guys and girls are loving them, okay now here comes Spin she part of they're group but she can't be as close as Sandi and Cheryl are because she's too young and she could never have the tight frienship they have because they started out to together from the jump. So they'll let her in but only so far in they keep her at arms length.
Now when things are really starting to roll for Salt N Pepa with guys wanting them,fans loving them, young girls wanting to be them. In order to keep everyone loving and admiring them they have to keep up this image. And theres the pressure, Salt said she would make herself throw up which says that she was trying to keep her weight down.
When that got to be too much she had to let that go. Meanwhile Pepa was still loving it and having too much fun to notice Salt was suffering.
So as much as Cheryl didn't want to hurt Sandi she didn't want to keep hurting herself more so she decided it was time to go or else. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:02 PM
NewbagNcoupe wrote:
They might be creeping on the low!! Why would you bring a nude picture of yourself over your girlfriend house and you know she's married? Some things you just don't do as a girlfriend. I bet my life on it that Pepa had at least one 3-some with Salt's husband and his friends... I said it first rmbr that . Reply to this
11/16/2008 9:05 AMalycia wrote:
Yes, you're right about her being extremely hurt, Hidoll--and Pepa is a Scorpio. I know from dealing with several Scorpios that they can be pretty vindictive when crossed (glad I wasn't the source of their wrath), so if Pepa were to sleep with Galvin just to prove a point and get back at her, I wouldn't exactly be shocked. And DAMN about the 3-way with the friends--my mouth dropped open but...you're right about not putting it past her. That could very well be the case, since she kept mentioning how bad she was wanting a man. Men can sense that and freakiness like a cologne. That saga might run way deeper than we know. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:23 PM
prettyprincess wrote:
I never liked Kendu. I just couldn't believe that "he saved me crap". Wasn't it said that Mary was dealing with him when he was still married to his 1st wife. He knew exactly what to do to get where he fit in with Mary's money. I saw the salt-n-pepa show and salt and her husband seemed like they had a very good relationship. He just didn't seem like the type to go to be tricking off. Fooled the hell out of me. Reply to this
I like the Mary J/Kendu and Salt/Gavin guesses. I've been away for a week while the cable was screwed up! It felt like I was cut off from the world. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:23 PM
litigating/lauryn wrote:
How you gonna be a leech and cheat on me??? in most States you can't get alimony if you adultery is the grounds for divorce... Not very smart Kendu... you may have to get a real job when this gets back to Mary Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:29 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Is the primary residence Jersey? Is that one of those 50/50 states. Damn I hope she can get some Halle/Oprah type solid advice and drop the hammer on this fool. You have to be careful when your man moves all of your friends out of your life. It's usually to isolate you & to remove your support system. Just damn! Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:39 PM
Fashionista wrote:
But the sad part is so many women like that just so need to have a man in their life that when he says your friends gotta go, they cut ties with all of them. I couldn't be bothered wth a man that is envious of my friendships with my girlfriends. A relationship you have with your man (or woman..whateva) and your friends are two different branches on the same tree. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:50 PM
ItIsWhatItIs ~iREP NAIJA~ wrote:
My bff's gf is SOOO jealous of our friendship. Gf really thinks that I'm creeping w/ my best friend. I'm like WTF?! That's so narsty on all levels. No matter how much we try to tell her, she doesn't believe us. Now my bff is going thru it b/c her possesive gf is out of control hitting, cursing, @ her. My bff feels stuck b/c of a "situation" but that's not an excuse to stay in an abusive relationship. I'm tired of the drama. I just say "na u know o" whenever she brings up her gf. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:34 AM
eyeonu2 wrote:
That's bec you have self esteem. And it's not just women, there are some men out there that stay in damaged relationships knowing fully aware that they are ust that damaging relationships, but they stay. And like Itis is saying below- happens in same sex relationships too. Mary's is just a bit painful for me bec she was publically humilated and now publically pimped. I hope she doesn't hurt herself any further with the drugs. Reply to this
How can you leech and cheat,that's cause they think that got it easy, the wife is always gone and doing her thang that gives him free range to go out and play. That's how Eddie Murphy ended up getting caught with that tranny. Nicole was visiting her mom I'm sure she took the kids with her and while the cat was away the rat played and got caught, CAUGHT with a tranny for Eddie at least Salt husband was with real females I GUESS they were real females you never know what or who's giving you a lap dance in those strip clubs. LOL guys thinking the pretty woman up on him, taking his money is all female but she could be a he. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:49 PM
litigating/lauryn wrote:
lol.. yes boys are funny... thinking they know it's a woman when really it's a boy Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:01 PM
Hidoll wrote:
I think men see what they want to see Lit, I really do, I mean we all know there are some trannies who when you look at them they look so much like a woman it's like WOW! but then you have those who look like death warmed over.
But if I can see that she is really a he then why can't a guy who looking out the same person I'm looking at can't see that it's a wolf in sheeps clothing?
Danny Bonadace is another one who was driving around and came up on what he thought was a woman(whatever yeah right) and he picked her up and took her around the corner or where ever and when she and he got to touch each other he said he realize that DAMN this is a man Danny said the guy's know what was bigger then his. So Danny hits the guy he its Danny back and a fight was on.
So men see what they want doesn't matter if he's drunk or sober when he see she/he bottom line is he was attracted. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:08 AM
Lil e Lunchhead wrote:
The only thing they see if the sex! They don't have the balls to say no. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:28 AM
Hidoll wrote:
This might be a mean thing to say but sometimes it serves guys like Eddie and Danny right for ending up with a trannie. Cause he should have been thinking with his head on his shoulder not the other head that causes them to get in trouble.
They call women whores but they can be just as whorish for seeing a pretty wrapping and ready to bed it down and unwrap it. So when that happens maybe it should be a lesson learned. DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:11 PM
ceec wrote:
I think that most men can recognize a tranny whether their drunk or not. Those that get caught up, prefer chicks with dicks because its easier for them to fulfill their homosexual fantasies. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:27 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
So TRUE..so true indeed. I know that (key word) MOST of the men in the south are keene on participating in such fantasies. In Macon, GA, it is Mulberry and Cherry Streets where some of the most high profile executives, doctors, lawyers as far as Savannah, Ga and northern Florida come out to play in drag. That is how a young lady from Atlanta caught HIV when she had had a dental appointment whilst in college. As far as Atlanta, just a Friday night stroll down Peachtree Street will suffice...DARE look down one of the allies on your way to a nightclub/lounge let alone a visit to Jocks and Jills. Reply to this
Speaking of cheating; what is the outlook on Larry King's divorce since his much younger wife was caught cheating {on HIS own damn desk, mind you} with a much younger guy?
You would think that Larry The Lizard would have the sense to have a prenup, but not this dumb @ss, he just really did not see this train coming!
Even with her cheating @ss getting caught, she's looking for a really hefty paycheck! Your insight please, ye great and wise barrister of the PR Nation... Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:16 AM
Fashionista wrote:
Wait...what? How in the hell did I miss this headline as much as I watch the celeb shows? Reply to this
11/14/2008 4:32 AM
SG77 wrote:
should ole larry be upset? don't care how much dude pops those blue pills, it ain't the same. no "much younger" woman finds loose, sagging skin appealing.
she should have taken that to the four seasons. Reply to this
The last I read about her she was in a back bathroom getting some bootleg BOTOX and she was suing. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:47 AM
litigating/lauryn wrote:
Is he in Cali or New York ???? Cali is all about your lawyer... let me just say this prenups are good but a lot of people seem to think a pre-nup is airtight... not true... it's just a contract and like any other contract it can be torn apart (telling you what I know not what I think) ... okay here's how most people come up in a divorce... whenever you live in a community property state... everything you made/bought during the marriage is considered to belong to you both equally (exceptions are usually made for inheritances) .. so if you're out making 6 million (please take notes Mary or call me) and your husband/wife is sitting around doing nothing..... 3 million is still his/hers... and just imagine if this keeps up for 4 or more years..I'm sure this young oman is about to get an all star lawyer and walk away with at least a mil Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:20 AM
BigWin wrote:
Okay; old boy has a studio in L.A., so just guessing here, it may be a Cali divorce.
For those that didn't know, this is why he was off the air during the last week and the night of the election. CNN had to scramble to get enough programming for that time period. Word now is that he actually KNEW the guy! The guy was a coach on one of his kids baseball teams last year and is an actor in his 20's. As for old Skanky, she's a country singer who still hasn't gotten the big break she thought she would get with King's name behind hers. Reports are that feeble old Larry even threatened the young guy, to which he really took seriously after he stopped laughing at the thought of a 70 plus year old man whipping his ass. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:35 PM
prettyprincess wrote:
Chi-town and Sin7......please don't go to work acting a fool tomorrow because you are on the front page LOL. I bet that the both of you have your 8x10's super glossy head shots ready *cracking up*. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:36 PM
Elevation=Evolution wrote:
Ok guys....my bed is calling...look like we have a consensus on the BI answer eh?
Mary J.(on tour in sept/oct 2008) Kendu Cheryl James aka Salt
I watched salt/pepa's reality show salt is all christian now meanwhile the hubby & pepa are playing cards in the middle of the night(LOL!)
P.S. cleaning out my email files dug up some juicy quotes from trannies karen dior & "tempest" on eddie murphy that'll have your heads shaking.Also dug up some Huey Newton/Elaine Brown tidbits.
11/13/2008 10:55 PM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
That no good Myra left my name off the front page on purpose because I talked about her horror of a personal assistant. Did I tell you her assistant had the nerve to email me how to get over rejection brochure. Said it would be real helpful, like she's Dr. Phil.
Myra mentioned BP and left the gorgeous one out. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:46 PM
After Dark Crew wrote:
Every time I see a photo of Kendu, he's sipping a tropical drink near a pool and every time I see Mary, she's signing up for tours to pay the bills. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:13 AM
Lil e Lunchhead wrote:
The one I saw had all the chilren frolicking in the pool lide guppies. Just something about those Santeria eyes. Gives me the creeps. Not about the right thing. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:47 PM
Jesus, be a pre-nup! wrote:
Wow erybody said it before me, it is so obviously Kedull or whatever, and salt or pep's husband. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:48 PM
Hidoll wrote:
It was always something about Mary J. husband that I didn't like about him. He just has that thing about him that says he's the one you have to give a side eye too. So if it's him it wouldn't be a surprise. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:55 PM
Ione wrote:
Good Evening first guess sounds like Mary and Kendu, the other one "could be Salt". Even when a man got a ring on his finger he still can't sit his behind down, and dam behave himeself. Reply to this
11/13/2008 10:55 PM
Teina wrote:
Blind guesses: Kendu or Toni Braxton's husband; for rapper, either a member of TLC or Salt and Pepper Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:20 AM
Lil e Lunchhead wrote:
Don't think it's TLC. One can't keep a man and is shamelessly looking for him in a variety/reality show and the other is selling all her funky clothes sans Febreeze. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:00 AM
Teina wrote:
You're right Lilly. After I guessed, I was thinking that TLC wasn't really a rap trio anyway, but I think one of them did perform raps on occasion or something like that. Anyway, I wonder if T Boz is still married to that Mac Truck guy. T Boz is selling her clothes (and who would want them?)! What's going on with her? Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:41 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Chili is (key word) "claiming" that she is not doing a show looking for her love or a partner for long term relationships sans interview she did. Now as far as T-Boz, she is no longer married to Mac 10 who was abusing her and had made a series of threats on her life and her daughter, Chase's life should she even bother to leave. Anyhoo, she has divorced him and went on about her life although moved from the place last residing during their separation in fear that he would take out his threat. To my understanding, she is still dating Takeo Spikes. I gather for roughly 4 years or so. Speaking of separation, who was Chili fooling when she was out with that very married CNN anchor? She even thought she had Ray Lewis in her corner pocket or as her ace in the hole at the time. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:10 AM
Teina wrote:
Hi Anon, happy Friday to you! I was just wondering if you're the same Anon who commented in the the previous BI thread. I'm not asking you to answer or anything b/c you may want to remain low-key and I really respect that, but I was kind of thinking that I would like to chat with you but it's kind of hard if I'm chatting with Anon, but this Anon is a different Anon than the Anon I'm thinking it is. OK, those are not the most articulate words I've ever written, but I hope you know what I mean. Have a great weekend. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:16 PM
Lil e Lunchhead wrote:
My friend is reading this with me and said,"huh?". I said, you wouldn't understand. LOL It makes sense to me Teina.LOL Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:05 PM
H-Bomb wrote:
I knew Kendu wasn't shit when he gave Mary a Rolls Royce for her birthday paid out of her money. Him and his kids hit the lotto with Mary. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:52 AM
litigating/lauryn wrote:
Girl remember when Emmitt was bragging about Pat giving him that Lambo after he broke the NFL record for rushing yards... I was dating an athlete at the time and he was like babe you gonna go buy me a lambo ... I was like sure.... give me 250 k... I mean is it really a gift if you bought it with my money ???? I don't think so Reply to this
I had to come out of lurk mode for this one...I definetly think this is Kendu (I was thinking he would be caught in a "male" strip club...), and the husband that was makin' it rain is either Salt's husband (forgot his name) or Treach (don't know if they're still married though). I don't remember any other female rappers that are/were married. I was going to say Lauren Hill, but I may be reaching with that one. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:46 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Speaking of Lauren Hill. I was thinking about a lyric she had in a song of hers over a decade ago in which she said something along the lines of "not only do I have the kids but I have the their father" and yet STILL no ring. I understand that her "man" is the son of the great Bob Marley but I see him as no better than Kendu or any other fungi that front as men growing on women. Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:06 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
sin7, saw your message to me in the other thread. I've been working late this week so I can't get online until late in the evenings. Y'all keep it full of laughter without me though. What's new, girl? Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:14 PM
H-Bomb wrote:
I don't think Salt's man has enough of her money to cheat big like Kendu. She can't have that much and Pepa still looking like an out of shape lineman. Loves thugs who beat down like Monica and Lauryn. Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:21 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
Not that I know the answer, but depending on the type of club they were in, Gavin could have gotten into the VIP room without dropping as much cash as Kendu did. Plus doesn't Salt make money speaking and doing things through her church? I think of the two Pepa is the only one looking for ways to make money. Reply to this
11/14/2008 4:25 AM
SG77 wrote:
salt supposedly has investments in real estate. did she not get 10 million out of that lawsuit with her manager? Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:29 PM
80'S BABY wrote:
Well according to their Behind The Music special, Salt and Pepa split $11 million that they got for signing their new record deal (this is back in either 96 or 97) while Spinderella signed a seperate deal for much less. Salt is also responsible for writing/producing some of the groups hits like "Shoop", "Expressions", "Whatta Man",etc. so im sure she's getting some kind of royalties. Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:13 PM
BET BACKSTAGE wrote:
This is Kendu, heard he was bored and he's spending chunks of Mary's money. When he was married, he was on the lookout for a woman in the industry for a come up and he found weak vulnerable Mary. His game was on point, he was her AA sponsor and drug counselor all the while plotting to get at her money, hope he signed a tight prenup.
Myra, can't wait for Ballin 8. Damn, you take us into worlds no one knows about. Before I got in this crazy industry, I was going a chef in the making institute, never knew abou the truoffles demand. Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:18 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
SMH @ Kendu. And women are always the ones classified as gold diggers. Sounds like Kendu pulled something similar to what Pilar (or whatever her name is) did with Deion Sanders. Reply to this
Please tell me the juice on Pilar's game...Pretty please? Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:51 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
If I remember right, PR-Insiders said that she heard that Deion Sanders was turning religious so she studied Bible verses to the point where she could quote them at will. She learned most everything he was into and used that to get close to him so she could catch him.
I compared her to Kendu because looks like Kendu used the fact that Mary was getting clean and sober to get close to her. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:33 AM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
Good memory, Pilar studied the bible like a college exit exam to land Deion. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:54 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Question for you about Pilar Biggars...did she EVER get her modeling agency off the ground? Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:10 PM
NewbagNcoupe wrote:
Wow I never knew that!!!! I thought Deion chased her . Let the truth be told .....You have to give her credit. Girls train all their life to land a baller and can never close the deal . Maybe Ms Sanders should start trainiing classes on the side ... Reply to this
11/15/2008 2:56 PM
CoCoDeluxe wrote:
@NewBagnCoupe: Another poster (forgot who) posted on another thread, that Pilar was Deion's mistress when he was married to his first wife, Carolyn. Don't know how true this is, but if it IS true, she needs to watch out. If a man will cheat WITH you, he'll cheat ON you.
Also, someone had said they were having 'marital problems' a few years ago and divorce talk was being thrown around. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:17 PM
loobie wrote:
I know that he's not a licensed counselor or anything, but it seems pretty unethical for an AA sponsor to get romantically involved with his "sponsee". Unfortunately, if he was that much of a help to spurring her recovery on, she probably did not want it enough for herself. It'll be very difficult to maintain her sobriety for any length of time if she believes, in her heart, that she could not have cleaned up her life without him.
I do believe that you set the tone for a relationship by the way you begin it (how you allow yourself to be treated, whether you were willing to cheat w/him and HELP him to break up his family by giving a better option, etc.) It seems that MJB is already getting retribution for past indescretions and Kendu's due, if you will, is just around the corner. Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:17 PM
Black Playmate wrote:
I knew Eve was sponsored out of the country. Not much coming in but she rolling in a Maserati. Now Kelly R. is trying to get put on out of the country. Stacy Dash is big in this scene in Europe.
Thanks Myra for the Ballin 8 shout out. Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:34 PM
CallMeMrsTibbs wrote:
Wow I was out in left field with this one. I thought of Monique (the comedienne) but I was on point that it was Salt and her husband Gavin.
So sad. These stories are a dime a dozen. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:23 AM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
Monique's man doesn't even like her near him or to touch him in public. Saw them on some show, she went to kiss him he moved backwards and he pays rent at the swinger clubs. He took her once, nobody was checking for her or wanted to sleep with her so he flies solo and is not faithful. Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:43 PM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
Miss Sable will say this, Babyface pays a fortune to keep his secrets hidden that's why they never leak out. When stuff blew up on Eddie and the Mrs.(Johnny) what was the first thing they did??? Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:01 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Keavon was riding that "girl, do you know who I am" wave and don't handle rejection or no to his sexual advances to well. In culmination, probable deadbeat father should a woman dare get pregnant "on him" in belief that pending nuptials or a monthly, hefty check will be on the way. Now, for some reason, people speculated that this was the same woman when in actuality it was two different women/interns/instances at two different times. First incident involved sexual harrassment and harrassing phone calls and threatening job loss if she did not adhere to his advances or sexual demands. The second one which involved babyface aka matureface because he had gotten involved by giving her an ultimatum of job loss or abortion to secure job with orders to severe ties with Keavon. In either case, one would think that smart,saavy businessman and talented protege' would have sense not to leave disparaging remarks on voice mail as it could be used as evidence against them especially in regards to possibility of defamation of character in addition to the aforementioned. In both instances, large payouts. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:00 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Yep, I remember that BI and a couple of us had guessed Monique. But, now we KNOW thanks Gorgeous Reply to this
11/13/2008 11:40 PM
*Chocolate Brown aka Chrissy* wrote:
What's goodie PR?? Thank goodness the weekend is here....and its my birthday weekend too. But before I go to sleep after smoking.....
Myra did her thing with this BI...I loves this BI. Lemme find out this is Kendu.....its about to be on and poppin....hell hath no fury when a woman scorned....karma may bite him in the ass.
Salt, your husband been tricking too? It is what it is....did Spinderella ever get married? kids or anything?
Shoutouts to: JustBNMe, MicahsMum, my favorite e-feline, OKat-hope you feel better girlie, Eye-Deuce, etc...im mad sleepy now, but I'm off to bed....gotta work tomorrow and leave for Baltimore. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:32 AM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
Spin has two kids out here in L.A. and doesn't get child support for the first kid with Kenny dead beat Anderson. There has always been tension between Spin and the other two. Spin invested in a spa on the east coast, think it was called she things, went belly up. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:39 AM
H-Bomb wrote:
Her buddy, Chris, the darker of the two from kid and play invested in a beauty salon and leather shop, both closed down. Heard he's broke as hell and has nothing to do with his son with Shari Headley. No xmas or birthday cards, no phone calls. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:41 AM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
I remember when Salt n Pepa were selling and Salt was riding around in a convertible beamer. Arrogant and rude to fans. Heard that car was taken by the repo man a few months later. They rebounded with some type of deal but I heard all that money is gone to. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:35 PM
RTMFQ wrote:
The clothing boutique Salt (I think it was Salt...I didn't care to know who was who.) had in Atlanta went belly up. It was located in the Lenox Mall area and the clothes were cheap and overpriced and the sales people were rude. They were in the same vicinity as a music store (Towers, I think) and I would go buy music and my friends would go look around her store. It didn't last long. Reply to this
11/15/2008 2:33 AM
flip wrote:
I don't know about what's up with Chris's family situation, but I know that he lives in Durham, NC. He has a website that focuses on helping the youth down here that mostly end up in gangs. He may not have the money that he once had, but I do commend him for the positive work that he does for the community. Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:35 PM
80'S BABY wrote:
Hmmm, according to Spin, she only has one child. She did an interview, and the interviewer asked her about supporting her son's rap career, and she looked all crazy like "I don't have a son, I have a daughter". Never heard of a second child. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:08 AM
celebgossip wrote:
Myra/Paris, Could you please post some info on how to do a background check on people?
Poor Mary. Blinded by love. I hope she signed a prenup. I wouldn't marry again without one. I tried to talk someone I know into getting their future husband to sign a prenup. She looked at me like I was crazy. This dude has been fired from his job for allegedly "messing with kids". He is on unemployment and she is the primary bread winner and is paying for everything for the future nuptials. It's even speculated that she paid for her ring. Her ring looks like my ring had a baby.
Learn from McCain. Have these men/women vetted BEFORE you try to marry them. Or it will be too late. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:18 AM
Art Chic wrote:
Got that right. Poor deluded "and I can't sleep without chu babyee" Mary! Capricorn women can be: blinded by love and : your worse nightmare. MJB is from the hood when this reaches her she's gotta get all potted meat crackers and switchblade on his azz! Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:58 PM
Art Chic wrote:
Hay BB... Caps aren't bubble heads I should know I'm one; what I'm saying is sometimes we're gullible then vindictive as Mary was and will be. Watch. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:12 AM
RTMFQ wrote:
True. People tend to clear out of the way when I am on a "I shall be avenged" rampage. We can be very creative. LOL This should be interesting to watch. It should provide some entertainment. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:31 AM
Lil e Lunchhead wrote:
I have never been able to understand the "I gotta have a man syndrome. I'd rather have a warm bed with a broke down man that can sling ding ding than have a cold bed"? WHAT? Are you serious. I am bedazzled at the folks that are so caught up in the wedding planning than the actual marriage. If folks would put as much effort in finding suitable companionship than they do the wedding plan maybe the divorce rate wouldn't be where it is now. How silly to be still paying for a wedding while making layaway payments on the divorce lawyer. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:31 AM
ms coleman wrote:
I never understood that type of thinking either. Buy an electric blanket and a good book. You'll be warm, entertained, and get to keep your money. Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:17 PM
celebgossip wrote:
I told her to get premarital counseling, too. She didn't want to. Her mom had to make her do it. It seems to be an epidemic with women not wanting to be lonely. I just hate to see these no good men being put on pedestals. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:22 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
It is good that your friend's mom is persistent. Perhaps if you all keep on her, as far as having her best interest at heart, she will eventually see whomever this man is for his true colors or atleast be well prepared in advance should she decide to forward with the nuptials. However, I agree with the poster, above about how women put dead weight on a pedestal but to each woman, a set of learning experiences. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:50 AM
entropy wrote:
anyone else hear something about Cindy "gimme another pill" McCain getting caught with another man? I forget where I saw it, but there were pictures of some non-descript blond kissing a dude. Not sure how you'd identify it as Cindy from the picture, but maybe all that blurry in her head is now showing up in her pictures. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:29 AM
headalettuce wrote:
"waves"..Hi everyone, my guesses for this BI are Mary j, and Salt...Unfortunately. I initially thought of Toni Braxton, and her husband Keri Lewis, but as a Mint Condition fan, I know he has some serious talent as a producer, and that he still works..not as much as his former band members though...Goodnight all!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:30 AM
pr_phillyfan wrote:
Hey Headalettuce!! Waving jumpin up and down. I too am a serious Mint fan. They are still writing, grinding, touring and working hard, doing pretty well. Keri, all I can say is umm umm umm. He is not working and doesn't produce anything. He is not cute anymore, either. I wonder why he stopped being down with the MINT?? He can work!! He was a great musician/ songwriter. He wrote and produced some of their best stuff. Reply to this
11/16/2008 1:36 AM
headalettuce wrote:
I heard that he wasn't to keen on touring, and that he was beginning to forget that ALL members of Mint, Stokley, Rick, Jeff, Odell, and Lawrence, write AND produce as well. At least this is the impression I got from an interview given by Ricky Kinchen. Also, some people say that he thought that a marriage to Toni would give him more exposure as a songwriter/producer. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:33 AM
headalettuce wrote:
Hi everyone!!!! My guesses for this BI are Mary J, and Salt..unfortunately. I initially thought about Toni B and Keri Lewis, but as serious Mint Condition fan, I know he writes and produces..Not as much as his former bandmates though.. goodnight. Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:33 AM
SheKnows wrote:
Good Morning Cousins I just read through the board. I see that some are saying that Gavin couldn't be the answer... Well if not...Will somebody PLEASE tell me what other female rapper from a trio is married ? Help me out somebody...Also, it's been discussed for a minute that Kendu buys Mary gifts with HER money, and that he latched onto Mary for that very purpose.
Toni Braxton is also a BIG contender(Love Toni ♥). However,Insiders have said that Kerri's trifling azz wanted a nanny to watch THEIR kids, and he doesn't even work. In addition, to that he's supposed to be a producer... Will SOMEBODY please tell me what him and Kendu has produced ??? Kendu is also supposed to be a "producer"... These dudes ain't doing nothing but producing debt & bills for their wives. God Bless 'em, because I would come home and clean house!!! First of all, I wouldn't be taking care of him, and all of his mental faculties are in tact, and he's not handicapped...Hmmpp!! Producer my azz,LMAO!!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:45 AM
Dramatical wrote:
I am also a producer, LOL! I produce bills and debt along with the income to pay them. SheKnows, I was raised with partner Parents, meaning my Dad often worked 2 jobs while my Mom was finishing college and taking care of the household. When my Dad came home from working 16 hours, he had a hot dinner ready but after he ate he would tell my Mom, "do your homework and I will wash the dishes and put the kids down" Bottom line both my Parents gave 100% in different ways at different times in their marriage and I was taught that anyone who truly loves you is a help to you not a DEPENDANT. You have to be dependable as well. Why women or men would settle for less is beyond me, Mary and Toni, WAKEUP! Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:51 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Dramatical, Much love to your parents! That's the way it's supposed to be. It's so nice, that your parents were such a good example to you. I was Blessed with the same kind of parents. They were truly a team...I now have a loving husband, who really goes out of his way to make me happy, and he has always been a good provider. I always made sure that his dinner was ready, and whatever else needed to be done...For 3 years, I didn't work or anything...He bought me my first car, and gave me an allowance every 2 weeks. We both agreed that I would stay home, and take care of the kids when they were younger. I didn't trust daycares, and both our parents were still working themselves. Even when we were dating, he wouldn't allow me to want for anything. He spolied me I also make sure that he's happy, and do little things that I know he likes. I'm not saying that everything is peechy-keen...At times we argue, and disagree just like any other couple. No marriage is, you have to work at it Now,he doesn't fight me, disrespect me or anything...I don't play that,and he's not the type to hit a woman...If he were he wouldn't be with me ? Actually, he's a gentelman, and as long as he continues to treat me right,remain faithful, and take care of home...I'll stay with him forever!! I could not have asked for a better husband. He has his stubborn ways and issues, but so do I...It's not right for me to require him to be perfect, when I'm not. In short, we're good for each other. It's a beautiful thing ♥ Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:20 AM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
Don't forget, Faith Evans man is also suppose to be a producer. Their only joint production was that fairy tale book to pay off drug debts and to have some money left over to cop more drugs. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:57 PM
SheKnows wrote:
LMAO @ Gorgeous !! Fairy tale book is right,a nd it's funny that she waited until both Biggie and Tupac were gone to write it D) Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:39 AM
ms coleman wrote:
Good Morning SheKnows, Dramatical, & GS..*waving* . I can't think of anyone else that it could be either. I think the BI has been solved. I think we all kinda knew before it was confirmed by the insiders that Kendu was spending Mary's money. His name wasn't known until he hooked up with Mary and I gave him a hard side eye when I saw what he looked like. He looks sneaky and suspect IMO. I cosign with everyone on the Kendu & Gavin guesses until one/both of them are notted. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:40 PM
chebella wrote:
I just googled Kendu's picture, hell naw, she can do much better than that. She's a beautiful woman. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:13 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Hey Chebella, Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder, because I have NEVER thought she was beautiful ? I would say attractive, she's not gruesomely ugly but not beautiful either,LOL.....However, I respect your opinion. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:40 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Hey MsColeman I was going to tell you to bring the duct tape, as I jot down the addresses of Kendu & Kerri...However, I decided to get both Kendu & Mary...According to "Capo" down below, Mary has been really naughty. So, we'll now need enough for ALL 3 of them. I'm going to page Bullrida, so that she can bring that stun gun...I want this to go smooth as possible. If they're not at home, we can always have Lit to do her thing with the wire-cutters I want them on the island STAT!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:37 AM
Dramatical wrote:
I know everyone is saying Poor Mary but, didn't some insiders drop 2 bombs on Mary:
1st. Kendu was still married when she started seeing him.
2nd. Mary slept with her Sister's husband.
A married man who is "dating"/"pursuing" other women ain't NOTHING but a Dog and if Mary laid down with that mangy mutt, I guess it is time for her to wonder how her DOG got out the fence AGAIN, LOL!
If Mary did sleep with her sisters husband than it is time for that Karma to return to that household and knock Mary right on upside that head.
If Salt's husband is the married Rapper then I do feel for Salt, but a lot of women get all holy after a life of raising hell and think that their religion is going to change everyone around them. It was obvious to me that Salt's husband was not into the church like she was and being unequally yoked means you are easily unyoked. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:18 AM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
Thank you, and didn't K-Ci keep her in the clinic and didn't she have numerous abortions??? Isn't that why she hasn't had kids. Just like Big Kev and Darius, Kendu is a ugly kept man with nothing to offer. Oh, forgot to mention Toni's overweight good for nothing man. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:48 AM
MissKO wrote:
Dramatical and Gorgeous I agree with both of you. There's always two sides to a story, and as much as I love MJB (the entertainer), "she ain't no angel".
You did not just write Big kev....LMAFO too funny! Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:04 AM
Peaches wrote:
Dramatical, you make a very good point. My first reaction really is to go, aww, poor baby, but when look at the total picture, this really may be a case of you reap what you sow. Still a shame...no wonder she's back to popping pills. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:05 AMalycia wrote:
Wow--didn't know about Mary sleeping with her sister's hubby. Did her sister and the husband divorce or are they still together? Are Mary and her sister on speaking terms again? I heard a while back that they weren't, but never got the details--was this the reason why? Also: earlier Gorgeous Sable mentioned Monique--I definitely sense something dark about her, and a slow train wreck waiting to happen with Sydney. They sound ridiculous on her show, and they need to bring Sonny Andre back, but I suspect he won't be back. I swear that show has gradually gotten dumber since he suddenly disappeared (still don't know the story behind that). Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:20 AM
NinaSimoan wrote:
"It was obvious to me that Salt's husband was not into the church like she was and being unequally yoked means you are easily unyoked."
When the bible refers to being unequally yoked, it means that if you are saved before you get married, then you should marry someone on the same spiritual level.
If Salt became saved after she married dude, then she is to remain in that marriage unless her husband chooses to leave. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:33 AM
Dramatical wrote:
I may have to repeat myself: If a man and a woman DO NOT SHARE ANYTHING in common and everything the man or wife enjoys causes the other party to be: Mad, Sad, Lonely or uninterested then they are unequally yoked and will be in an UNHAPPY MARRIAGE. People love to add their interpretation to the bible, bottom line the GOD I serve does not want people who are not really suited for each other to be married. What page, chapter and verse can I find anything in any interpretation of the Bible that says once you get SAVED you must continue to ENDURE foolishness?? Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:03 AM
NinaSimoan wrote:
My point is that Salt probably got saved after she married this guy. Not sure, just my speculation. I wasn't trying to refute your views or turn this into a biblical interpretation war.
I also was offering a general meaning to how the bible defines being unequally yoked. In other words, dont throw the baby out with the bathwater, simply because one got saved during the marriage and the other didn't. Oftentimes the saved spouse eventually brings the unsaved spouse to Christ.
I know that God hates divorce, but I agree in that he wouldn't want anyone to remain in a marriage damaged by infidelity, physical abuse, verbal abuse, etc.
There's only one God, so I'm sure we serve the same one. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:39 AM
Dramatical wrote:
Nina, I respect your religious views but I object to using the bible to enforce staying married when it is apparent that the two were a good match from the get go and that it will end up in a bad way very soon. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:33 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Deion absolutely slays me when he says "don't my wife looks good for having 5 kids? She had 5 kids for me!" Now we know that is an exaggeration considering that the oldest 2 are from his previous marriage. Then he goes on to allude to the fact that his Pilar is surgically enhanced for maintenance (aside from working out...that is). Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:57 AM
smooth_sailin wrote:
1st. Kendu Issacs and MJB 2nd Gavin Wray and Cheryl "SALT" James Wray. Pepa probably told him where to go! Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:58 AM
cynthiaamour wrote:
Did Anyone here read Pepa's book? Its my understanding that she set her up with him. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:37 AM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
Darling, I just read the excerpt where this abusive man she kept going back to beat her ass at Omar Epps house and hit her so hard in the eye, she has cornea damage but she kept going back to him. He was a hood guy and she used to be a celebrity, what's up with that? These stupid women who love thugs pay for it. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:52 AM
cynthiaamour wrote:
Oh Gorgeous one!...THAT was TREACH! That beat down occured at Omar Epps house when Treach was attempting to reconcile with her and she refused. Right before this episode,Treach brutally raped Pepa causing her to have her cervix damaged by her IUD according to the book. .....I guess treach is REALLY HUNG....But it didnt look THAT big because he showed IT in that corny movie Love and a Bullet Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:24 AM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
He must be one hell of a grower because he was in some broke down to the ground porn flick and had nothing. He was trying to get at that 3LW girl, she was underage and hooked up with LeBron for a minute, Treach was old enough to be her daddy. He rolled around NY for years in his pimped out ancient benz from the superfly days. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:06 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
LOL and he did so repetitively when he had his stint as a porn actor. Including the filmed recording studio session with the singer, Pink. Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:49 PM
80'S BABY wrote:
Yep, and I must've been living under a rock, because I had no clue that she dated Gary Sheffield and Derrick Coleman. She also dated Prince Markie D from The Fat Boys. Now she claims that she never messed with Andre Rison; don't know if I believe her. But the mess she allowed Treach to put her through, clawd have mercy. After he raped her, she still allowed him to get in her bed to "cuddle", talking bout he wanted to save the marriage. Then he beats her behind in Omar Epps' house and almost throws her down the stairs. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:01 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
She claims she never messed around with Andre Rison?! awwww whatever! She was kicking it with him right around the time the was with RiCoCo. Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:59 AM
Go Bravo wrote:
Truly, I hope this is not Mary's husband she been sooo happy, I was happy listening to her tell Oprah how happy she is. But what the hell does he do? sure been doing it a long time. that would be horrible as much as he has "managed her career" it would most likely be cheaper to keep him. I am routing for them. Al, ah, kendu may not do much but he is a major step up from cracky she used to go with.These leach men kill me you'd think they were grateful by the way what does Mel B husband do ? Now, he gives me the creeps not sure if it's the water head, the eyes, not sure but for sure he quit his day job pretending to be Harry Belafontes son to marry and tag along with Mel Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:05 AM
B-Awesome wrote:
Hey everyone!!! Thank goodness it's Friday!!! My answer to today's first blind item is Mary and Kendu and the second answer is Salt and Gavin!!! This is unfortunate to hear about Mary and Kendu because she credits him for turning her life around...
Hey Karamelbella...thanks for the article regarding Ward Connerly!!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:30 AM
Jinx wrote:
Congratulations to all the posters mentioned in the upcoming Ballin.
Litigating, sounds like it's about to get interesting with Cartier and Lauryn, can't wait to read it!!!
This sounds like Mary J., Kendu comes between her and fam and now she doesn't have fam to talk to about his cheating and spending her money. I always thought he was a manipulator. Always laying up under her at the studio and at parties, she was so psychologically damaged, he moved right in on it and he has custody of the kids, or Mary would be giving him money to pay child support like Whitney did Bobby until she got fed up. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:35 AM
Jinx wrote:
Good morning, how are you? I read somewhere that Andre Rison was with Pepa the night left eye burned down his home and Pepa called left eye and said he was on his way home. I heard Pepa is really messy, shady and broke. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:44 AM
ms coleman wrote:
I'm doing well this morning. TGIF! I thought I read that on the PR boards. Pepa strikes me as a real ghetto girl to the core. She's dressing and acting like she's still a 20 year old. Get some class...please! Not a good look for a woman in her 40s with almost grown children. I don't expect her to be frumpy but she needs to tone it down. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:58 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Morning ms coleman **waving** I'm thinking we might have to get Pepa & Mariah together for a, "How to dress like a GROWN WOMAN with some type of class and gumption about yourself" lessons. Poor thang Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:54 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Good morning PR! Happy TGIF **waving my TGIF POM-POM'S**Hope everyone is having a blessed start to their day!
@Jinx, hello, **waving** I just wanted to co-sign on what you said regarding Pepa and Andre Rison. I was watching some program that she stated that indeed their where together on the night that LeftEye R.I.P burned down Andre's House. I believe she stated that LeftEye even confronted her, and she told her that nothing happened between them. He was just at one of their S&P shows. IMO Pepa is very damaged goods as well, a little sneaky too. If you get my drift......... Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:01 AM
inyoguts wrote:
You know what bullrida I'm so tired of you and these home made pompoms! You came to my 4th of july celebration waving them pompoms-I still cant get that synthetic string material out the carpet! Them things is shedding like a feral cat. Buy some new ones cheap ass.lol...Hows everything? MIL ok?
Finally a BI I know the answer to Woohooo.lol. Some alleged stripper chick was running around the net telling this story earlier this week. Yes she was saying it was Kendu and Salts hubby. However her account seemed suspect to me. She got to talking about how her friend who is saved (her words) *presumably 1 of the other strippers* was saying that's why I don't date church men they all cheat. Or something to that effect. Ok so Salts hubby is a bad guy for being all up in the strip club when he's supposed to be saved, yet you all up in the VIP giving hand jobs and you yourself are supposed to be saved. People who live in glass houses. I'm just saying.
Aint nothing wrong with skrip clubs, lap dances and what not imo. Aint nothing wrong with a lil dry humping here n there. Shoot I'm almost an expert at that, been doing it since the age of 10. Learned it from my golden retriever Skipper.lol...Anyway I like Mary J. I really wish her well. Hopefully these stripper chicks are lying for some reason. Bitter perhaps. Telling half truths, puttin extras on it,,,Maybe someone wanted to be Kendus side piece and he wouldn't take it further than throwing a few 20's at them. I'm just guessing. Otherwise why put the story out there? If he was making it rain by the thousands, putting him on blast is just gone cut into your income. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:14 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
inyo what's happenin? You know I had to trade in my POM-POM'S, I got these new one's straight from the cheerleader shop at the local 5 and dime, these here are professional baby! MIL is doing better day by day. She's able to hold a conversation, sometimes she just gets a little frustrated, when the words don't come out right. But, each day is better and better, thanks.
Yeah, this BI I think is pretty much closed. breezy posted the link below from the stripper, with the friend whom is saved......yeah, stones falling out all over the place! Before my hubby and I got married, we used to go to the strip clubs together, so I definitely don't frown on it, but, damn! you can't be throwing my lil change around. Heck no, that can't be happening. Show some spect about yourself also, don't do it behind my back, at least ask me if I wanna go too, chump!
Anywho, how's things with you? I've missed Grandma, I saw she was on here the other day, but the man has had me on lock down for the last week or so. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:46 AM
inyoguts wrote:
Before my hubby and I got married, we used to go to the strip clubs together
^^^See lil revelations like this here is the reason why I e-stalk you.lol. I love it. As far as grandma goes we are presently estranged. I'm so upset with her! She sent me a text message 2 Sundays ago talking about come to my house immediately, I have a great career opportunity for you. Now with the economy being like it is, and me being broke like I am, I jumped on it! Walked inside her house to be greeted by a bunch of idiots grinning from ear to ear talking about how excited they were. I'm excited, I'm so excited. Excited about what I kept wondering? Turns out they're all representatives of this new invention that supposedly rids your scalp of psoriasis, inflammation and irritation, and not to mention head chips (dandruff). The presenter started screaming and shouting saying it would change the world of scalps across the nation,,,All I needed to do was write a check for 199.00,,,I was like hold up!!! Is this one of these dang pyramids??? You mean to tell me I missed my Sunday afternoon football for a dag on pyramid scheme???
I'm so mad at grandma right now! She knows I can't afford tivo, and even though I have a vcr to record the games finding a blank vhs tape at the stores nowadays is dang near impossible! They're extinct! Yeah bullie so that's what happened! I'm not talking to grandma2x till she reimburses me for my gas, apologizes for making me miss 2 games on Sunday, and also apologizes for that nasty ass potato salad she was serving at the pyramid meeting! YUCK! I've heard of using a lil bacon grease to spruce the tato salad up, but fish grease??? I had the runs for 3 days there after. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:14 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Yea, well you know you got to keep the spice in the life!
Fish grease in the tater salad, ummm my stomach just dropped. You all need to just kiss and make up, but no more pole dances. We can't have Grandma in traction again Reply to this
Yeah rida I think it was those impromptu pole dances that got grandma acting all loopy. Bumped her head once too many times much? She's good at riding up the pole, but she needs to work on her landings while sliding back down the pole upside down. She'd been hearing how beneficial fish oil is to the human body. However no 1 had the heart to tell her fish oil and fish grease are 2 completely different entities. Boy I tell ya...One things for sure that tater salad cleansed out my colon better than any probiotic ever could.
Whelp rida you n your fam stay strong alright. PR folks yall njoi the weekend I'm out... Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:35 AM
2blessed4stress wrote:
LMAO, inyoguts you and Bullrida have me cracking up so hard my co-workers are peeking into my office wondering what the hell is going on!!Thanks for the morning humor!!
Now where is SouthinDiva?? Anybody heard from her? I hope you are alright sista!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:46 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Hey there 2blessed **waving** inyo's a mess, especially when he hasn't taken his meds I have been asking the same ? regarding SD, I miss her, and hopefully everything is ok. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:01 PM
ms coleman wrote:
I heard from her yesterday. She's doing okay. I'll let her know she's being missed Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:07 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Oh! okay, I was really starting to worry about her. I had asked a couple of times about where she's been. I was getting ready to send out the search team. Good to hear that she's doing okay. Hopefully she can come back soon Reply to this
I can just see your grandmother "come on baby, I got something that's gone make us a lot money!!" LOL!!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:21 PM
Not_Like_Your_Other_Friends wrote:
And the award for almost getting me fired for laughing outloud at my desk go to..**Drumroll**.... INYOGUTS...**applause** Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:29 AM
lavender wrote:
I don't like the way they messed over Spin and I liked SnP so very much.They did her really dirty! Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:49 AM
Hidoll wrote:
Until I watched Salt and Pepa Show I didn't know how they did Spin.
But not really surprised,people tend to get so wrapped up in doing they're own thing they sometimes forget to be grateful and kind to others.
Then you have people like a salt and pepa who eyes and pockets are so opened wide with money and fame it causes them to be greedy,rude and selfish they truly are not gonna stop to worry about how they treat others.
Now that they're older and not performing anymore now they have to deal with what went on in the past and answer a lot of questions.
The upside is Salt grew up and while Pepa still has a wild side that she's not ready to let go of anytime soon. I said it they have the right names Salt is now salt of the earth, Pepa is hot and ready and willing to keep playing, Spin, is spinning around wanting to know why did yall treat me like ya did, why wasn't I just as important? Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:43 PM
lavender wrote:
Hey, HiDoll!Yes, I totally agree with you but "you are going to meet the same people on your way down",so it pays to treat people the way you would like to be treated.Hmmm...I thought everybody knew that basic fact! Reply to this
True that true that,those very people you treat wrong are the ones you may need to help you out of tight spots.
Salt and Pepa and anyone else in the music and show business should know nothing last forever. There are so many former performers,actors, actress, producer, managers, etc who has gone from rich to rags in the blink of an eye. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:02 PM
80'S BABY wrote:
Well, if she's not communicating with her family because of him, then she is truly on a road that will have a dead end. Mary has family here in Georgia (Savannah to be exact) some of which I have met. My BFF is actually friends with Mary's mom first cousin, and they have all hung out together. From my understanding, Mary's grandmother, is very ill and isn't expected to be around much longer. I told my friend, "I wonder if Mary will come see her grandmother before it's too late". After reading some of the stuff on this site, I doubt it, which is sad considering this is her mother's mom. Not some third or fourth cousin or somthing. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:37 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Yeah, I know of Mary's folks in Savannah..They use to practically live in Two Guys. Mary would come down during her "what's the 411" days as did Method Man who has alluded to possibly be suffering from HIV whilst his wife is endeavouring cancer related illness. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:54 PM
CoCoDeluxe wrote:
@MsToson: Method Man may have the House in Virginia (HIV)? Not surprising < according to Stoopidhead (Karrine) he was Papa from her first book and I believe (don't quote me, never read the book) she had more than a few abortions for him. *** And since Karrine has been with ALMOST everyone in Black Hollywood - including DL dudes, this is just devastating. I hope it's not true about Method. Any man that has dealt with Karrine should R-U-N to the nearest clinic ASAP. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:35 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Now, Meth did say possibly so I hope that upon getting his results that he is fine/in good health. In addition, I hope that his wife comes through because she looks to be in a lot of pain of both emotional and physical and I believe that she hasn't gotten pass the fact that Meth had dealings with Karrine but as you said, those who have had dealings with this woman needs to run to the nearest clinic. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:00 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
I "seem" to know everyone, everthing, about everyone...hmmm, well you make it 'seem' as if I have omnipresence... Reply to this
11/16/2008 1:03 PM
Dymegurl wrote:
I've been trying to infer what the "House in Virgina" meant for some time. Thanks for spelling it out. I was afraid to ask because I didn't want to sound asinine. This is my second post. I've been lurking forever. I discovered this site by accident. I read an article in vibe magazine about Karrine Stephanies and I did a google search to see what all of the hype was about. Long story short, I've been here ever since. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:40 AM
Stripper wrote:
I can vouch for this blind item, I work at the club, Kendu is a regular when Mary is out of town. The club is in New York. We make good money off him. Reply to this
Now I just need to be sure that you are not getting paid while "Just Fine" is playing LOL.....I could not help myself! Why can't he be man enough to go to the strip club whenever Mary is in town, that right there makes it plain he is sneaky. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:52 AM
Stripper wrote:
We also make good money after Latifah in the club and out of the club. She rents girls out to be around her when she goes to celebrity things, the mack daddy appearance. Snoop from the wire pays up and so does Missy. Missy has a habit of falling asleep because of the drugs when we give he lap dances. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:01 AM
Peaches wrote:
Wow, Stripper, thanks for confirming what other insiders have said about all these ladies. Latifah is "renting" girls out...wow. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:04 AM
Dramatical wrote:
Does Latifah pefer white over black? Snoop from the Wire still has money? Missy sounds like she is on Heroin if she is nodding off and that is the WORST drug to get off of . Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:19 AM
Stripper wrote:
Latifah likes the white girls more than the black girls, tips yt girls more than us, but just so long if it's a girl is really what only matters. Was in archives and Latifah sounds like the rap girl who rented out the girls in that Kwame Kilpatrick blind item. Miss tore down and all snoop's wire money went into the stripper trade. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:47 AM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
So I guess her significant other doesn't mind this behavior? I thought she was about to get married to this woman, her trainer? Then again, she may be scared to question her, Latifah definitely fit the definition of lesbain woman that beats her women, i forget the name in the book.... Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:25 PM
Stripper wrote:
Latifah is a regular at the hot strip spots up and down the east coast. T-Boz was a regular in the Atlanta spots but she having money problems right now. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:10 AM
cynthiaamour wrote:
He is kind of RECKLESS I would think! NY is Mary's stomping ground..... I guess we can look forward to all hell to breaking lose when she finds out and My life part 2 Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:46 AM
anon2 wrote:
Before you read this, I know for a fight that Keith Sweat beat the hell out of his ex wife. The one on the atl housewive show.
*TMZ.com cameras caught up with "Real Housewives of Atlanta" cast member Kim Zolciak outside of her home recently to discuss the threats left on her voicemail from fellow housewife Lisa Wu Hartwell.
The two ladies got into a heated argument on the set of their recent reunion show. According to TMZ, Lisa has been upset with Kim since she heard Zolciak was talking behind her back about her and her three children – two sons from singer Keith Sweat, one infant son from NFL hubby Ed Hartwell.
In a recent interview with Essence.com, Lisa said of her behavior toward Kim on the reunion show: “When you come after my integrity or my family, then you’re going to see a different person.”
On Kim's voicemail, Lisa can be heard saying: "I am not the one -- you need to call me. I might just be coming to your house."
Lisa Wu Hartwell
Kim, who says she is 30, has consulted a lawyer and is considering taking legal action. A rep from Bravo tells TMZ this situation is a personal matter and they don't get involved in personal matters. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:13 AM
lakergirl32 wrote:
yes, he has custody of their children and will not allow them on the tv show--much to her chagrin. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:24 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
I read somewhere that the two of them (Kim and Lisa) actually fought! So that may be the reason why Kim was contacting her lawyer!! She will probably try to get Lisa blackballed in ATL as well... (If Big Poppa has that much clout!) lol Lisa has some guns on her though so, if that's really true, wonder who won? Reply to this
11/14/2008 5:54 PM
Lady Truth wrote:
I saw that clip and that lawyer looked really suspect, as in: I was given a shower, a suit, sunglasses, hair gel, and was told to meet this chick and read from this paper. I was going to say he looks like a slimy used car salesman but I did not want to insult them. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:55 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
"I know for a fact that Keith Sweat beat the hell out of his ex wife".... and for some reason a slew of women are still trying to hollar at this fool! I tell you some women need to get a clue. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:49 AM
After Dark Crew wrote:
Myra, I'm loving that Dubai black card and the 5 million gift card is awesome. The secret service needs to be arresting Floyd since he loves to make it rain with counterfeit and pays his employees with counterfeit.
He's so loud and garish. Always out to prove himself, really insecure, everyone has to know he's Floyd and carries ten grand at all times and drives Ferrari's and Lambo's.
Chili from TLC must feel stupid because he's still after Kim and has been sleeping with Chili up until last week. Would love to see her expression after she reads the front page. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:54 AM
Cami wrote:
AfterDark - Floyd may have said this more than once, but I heard him say it for myself while he was on the radio in ATL in May. He & Vivica were going to be hosting a party that night. I don't know if he & Chili were sleeping together @ that time. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:19 PM
Trinity wrote:
Appears the answer to this BI 'is in front of us':
BALLER STYLE:
This black celebrity has always felt overlooked, to compensate, he makes outrageous purchases to bring attention to himself and he struts around with swagger and arrogance. Despite his success, he's recognized but he's never among the names of his fellow heavyweights.
When he hits a dry spell, he goes into financial despair. He unloads his expensive toys but when his career jump starts, he purchases newer luxury toys.
People who work for him are not a priority. If it comes down to him purchasing a new Rolls Royce or making payroll, he's purchasing the new RR. He treats staff with disdain and has the attitude that he's better than them.
Instead of treating staff fairly, he'd rather blow money at gentlemen clubs. He's often seen in the company of a rapper who loves strip clubs. These two are main fixtures despite having women at home.
On their latest strip club outing, they threw a combined $100,000 away, making it rain on the strippers. They also paid for lap dances in the private VIP room and ordered up thousands of dollars worth of Dom Perignon.
11/14/2008 5:48 PM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
HAHA....thats definitely on point...also him an vivica hosting an event...he's good friends with 50, but I guess that has nothing to do with his business matters, assuming his gig with viv is business, I think the rapper the BI refers to that hangs with him is 50 As well.... Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:52 PM
Anonymous wrote:
OK, I’m confused, didn’t someone on here say that Floyd promised Kim a Ferrari, than pumped and dumped her, without giving her the vehicle? Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:38 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
Yes, that was what was said. If I remember correct, Floyd saw Reggie & Kim out together. She flirted with Floyd, he ran game on her by mentioning a Ferrari (or some expensive car). She went home with Floyd that night. He hit it and bounced. Then allegedly said she was lousy in bed.
Now he's saying he'll fight Reggie over Kim. I honestly think this is more about something Floyd may have against Reggie than it has to do with Kim. She's just a pawn in the game, if I'm reading between the lines right. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:50 AM
Micahsmum wrote:
Good Morning All, TGIF I feel good about this one I will go with Kendu and Salts Husband. Reply to this
I'm still hype off The Cavs Come from behind MOLLY WOPPING of the Nuggets yesterday! Mo Williams and Delante West and LeBron was getting it in yesterday!
You ready for this snow we suppoda get Sunday? Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:03 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Yea, that was a good game, how do you think our season gonna end? Dare I say it?????Championshi..... Please, don't mention the "S" word to me. I am so in denial, that somehow it's gonna totally miss us one year. That freaking ice storm last year was ridiculous! Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:56 AM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
Hmm I'ma go with Wendy Williams and her nasty husband (he's been known to "stray", remember that "sex tape"),and there really was only one rap trio of females, and only one is married, so unfortunately I'ma go with Salt's husband, sad though, cuz I really respect Salt, and I would've never guessed this about their relationship. SMH Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:00 AM
ms coleman wrote:
Wendy is a friend to the site. There won't be any BIs about her. Happy Friday Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:51 AM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
yeah I forgot wendy is cool with the site, she's read BI's on her site before and talks about how much she loves PR...DUH.... when then I'm officially jumping on the Kendu bandwagon....I personally think MJB can do better...I never found Kendu very attractive... Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:40 AM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
no not yet, all the information I get is from my husband and his sister, I've never met her, but as far as what i can gather, there isnt any new news, it's horrible, like she vanished. I don't believe her bf has been found either, I believe he's on the run? and the police would like to question him so that looks suspicious of course. I just continuously pray for her safety, but thanks for asking. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:51 PM
elevationiskey wrote:
Hey PR! I cosign for the BI - Mary/Kendu, and Salt's husband. Can someone fill me in on Mia?? Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:09 AM
Black Mai Rose wrote:
Hello Good morning. It looks like the BI is solid! lol No "nots." And I dont know of any other female rap trios than Salt, Pepa and Spindy. And men want to call women goldiggers like it can only go one way. Its a shame some men dont have no hustle in their bones and would rather sit at home on their butts and sponge off of successful women. That cant make you feel too manly. SMH. I'll never understand it. Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:44 PM
Black Mai Rose wrote:
@ Teina, Hey lady! ***waving*** Im sorry I didnt reply earlier, I had to go and pick the lil misses up from school. Happy Friday to you to ma! Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:10 AM
Digital Femme wrote:
How can you be a "kept" man or woman and have the nerve to cheat? You are being paid for your companionship and devotion! That's the one simple job you have and you can't even do it correctly? Whoever it is, he needs to be cut from that star's life as if he never existed. Reply to this
After Dark Crew, thanks for that info. I thought that Floyd was dating keyshia cole? He talked all of that mess about kim being the worst lay he's ever had and he's still after her SMH.
Anon2, I had a feeling that keith was abusive toward lisa. In a sister 2 sister article she said that he got custody of the kids because they felt that her job being an up and coming actress was not stable enough for the boys. Kim needs to shut the hell up because it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that big poppa is married and her azz can't sing to save her life so who is she to talk about any damn body. I hope that she's saving some of this money that she's getting from him. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:41 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Morning prettyp **waving my morning TGIF POM-POM'S** hope your day is going great so far! Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:33 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
I head the same thing! When you see her guns(arm muscles) It kinda makes sense!! She's so small, she has to have some kind of self defense skill!!!! And her husband now is WAAY bigger than Keith, but it looks as if she has HIM whipped... Looks like he has an alter ego though...who knows!!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:04 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
...and her husband is FINE. You should have seen him those Rondu calendars. LORD have mercy. She may have him whipped as you say but I feel that to some degree, Lisa may have upgraded. The only thing negative about him that I have heard of thus far is his minor run in with the Atlanta Police Dept for driving offenses including the one where he had accosted an officer for pulling him over. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:22 AM
Stripper wrote:
She was pissed because me and the other girls got our cash quick but she felt Kendu stiffed her, I think he ran out for the night and wasn't no ATM around for him to reup. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:31 AM
Peaches wrote:
So she wouldn't be spilling the dirt if she'd have gotten her money, huh? Oh well, this just confirms everyone's guess. Thanks for the link, Breezy! Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:39 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Well damn! that link basically confirms this BI. I feel bad for Mary, loves her dearly, but, that man looked shady to me from the word GO! I hope she doesn't go back to her old ways, once she figures out what the real deal is, if she doesn't already know. Galvin seemed sneaky to me also, especially on that reality show they did. He was too freaking quiet. Man speak up!
I would be mad as hell, if my hubby was up in the strip club tossin my hard working dollars around all willie nillie and thangs! Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:12 AM
pretty brown nurse wrote:
i am 1000% sure this is mary j's hubby and salt's hubby. I always believed mary's man would take a left. he looked the part.and anytime you marry "a good church man", Look out. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:17 AM
Black Mai Rose wrote:
@ ADC, Is Floyd mentally ill for actually paying his employees with counterfeit money? Did he not think it would trace back to him? Stupid for real. And it figures he would be after Kim. When both of you are bad lays, neither one of you can complain. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:20 AM
After Dark Crew wrote:
I've never been around someone like Floyd before, has to let everyone know 24/7 he is top dog, he has the most money, he has the flashiest cars and he's cheating on Keyshia with Chili, this may cause a wild out in the ATL. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:12 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
But, why oh why would he want to fight anyone for KK? Just for bragging rights? Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:29 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
Floyd walks around at 145lbs and is 5'7". Reggie's WAY bigger than that (6' & 200lbs). Floyd's got boxing skills and would probably get some hits in, but Reggie would whoop that a**; he's way too big for lil' Floyd. Floyd must think that Reggie's a Grade-A punk if he's threatening to whoop his a** over Kim K. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:28 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
This "old news" regarding Floyd and Kim is on the front page, thus the reason it's one of the topics of discussion. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:17 AM
Beautiful_Dreamer wrote:
I am a long time lurker. And I think that this was talked about the other day. IMO it's Kendu and Salt's husband. Yea!!! It feels good to have a comment on the board. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:21 AM
prettyprincess wrote:
LOL @ Black Mai Rose!!! Do you know something that we don't or is it known that him and ray-j have more in common than just banging kim? I'm sure that floyd is not a porno star himself to be talking about someone else. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:18 AM
Black Mai Rose wrote:
Hey Prettyprincess ma! Girl, I heard from a friend of a friend that slept with him and she says he is not so good in bed. He's kinda kinky when it comes to pleasing him because he likes to receive and is really bad in reciprocating...be it a good ride, oral, or 3 mins instead of 2. Guess he feels like his fame speaks for itself and any woman should be thrilled just to have him in the bed. Wrong lil daddy! He would get the cold shoulder for real. If he want to roll over and play dead, I can do the same. I could get right on his level, he want to play! lol Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:23 AM
Micahsmum wrote:
Good Morning All, TGIF I feel good about this one I will go with Kendu and Salts Husband. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:30 AM
brownsugapoet wrote:
I have been a lurker I know for at least a year and I'm truly addicted to this site! You guys have me crying because of all the funny comments! Thanks for the entertainment! Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:43 AM
LUSCIOUS wrote:
Kendu/Mary J. Blige or Nick Cannon/Mariah Carey.
Salt-N-Pepa/If Salt was still married to Treach, I would say him because he was a trip and an abuser-- Not sure if Spin is married or not/Pepa Husband in the church, but that don't mean a thing! (peeping the reality show on VH1)
Plus, I don't see Run/Joseph stepping out on Justine and if so, he need to get rid of his collar! Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:45 AM
VSangel10022 wrote:
This bi definetely sounds like Scary Spice's husband to me. He is so shady looking and gross. Looks like he would live in strip clubs.Don't know why cuz she has a bangin body. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:45 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
Good Morning everyone! My first thought after reading this was Kendu, W.Willams' husband Kevin, and Gavin- Salt's husband. Does anyone know what really happened to her show? I know that the assistant and WW were kinda "close"... is this a case of a woman scorned? Or a threesome gone awfully wrong? Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:49 AM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
WW and Charlemagne have a video up with them together after he was "let go" and they both basically confirm it was due to Budget Cuts, and was definitely not Wendy's choice, and that he will be making geust appearances on her TV show, which she says is a seperate entity from her radio show. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:07 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
I thought the firings were a direct fallout from the settlement! Does anyone know how much WBLS had to pay? If they settled, is that some sort of admission of SOME kind of guilt? It's sad how Charlemagne Was Charlemagne involved some way? He always seemed a lil corny, but Idk... Why fire Trav and Taryn? Would WBLS rather risk losing loyal listeners in order to make conditions so unbearable for her that she would just leave? That seems to be what WBLS is doing... Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:11 AM
OrangeKat wrote:
Hi Friend...i still don't believe that WW is telling the whole story about why Charlemagne and TrevH were fired.Don't hold me to this but WW and Kev bullied BLS into taking on C and the suits never wanted C there in the first place.On the air they talked and made jokes about how mgmt ignored C for almost a year until they found a "creative" way to get rid of him.I liked TrevH and i'm sure that his newlywed wife is less than thrilled that he's unemployed. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:23 AM
Peaches wrote:
Hey my fave cyber kitty! *waving* I hardly ever catch WW b/c I'm either at work or in transit when she's on, but I never could figure out why Charlemagne was brought on. He was okay, but he didn't add anything significant to the show. Usually, sidekicks have an "opposite" persona that the host can play off of, but I didn't see that with WW & C. He wasn't bad, but he didn't make much of a difference when I heard him. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:56 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
@Micahsmumlease DON'T waste your hard earned dollars on MIDNIGHT! I am an avid reader, and this was a "bait and switch"!! There's NO Winter, and this is NOT the back story of Midnight. It is long, drawn out, most of all UNREALISTIC!!!! The basic point of the story is the complex interracial relationship between a Sudanese Muslim male, and a Japanese female. He attempts to marry her at age 14- because they both want to have sex.. I stopped reading (something I, rarely do) tried to resume reading again, but NOT!!! Off to Barnes and Nobles it went! And I was not the only one returning the book! Word to the wise: if you are curious, go to the library! At least it's free!!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:14 AM
Micahsmum wrote:
Thanks so much for the input I will take ur advice because books are expensive I will try and buy Kimberla Roby last book see how that goes. I guess she couldn't come up with the same ghost writer oh well thanks a bunch and have a great weekend Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:57 AM
Digital Femme wrote:
After thinking about this BI for a moment, I have to say that a good therapist seems to be just as important as a good fixer to a celebrity's health and well being. A good fixer can protect one's reputation and bank account, but he or she cannot repair the emotional damage inflicted by a celebrity's poor choices. And seeing a therapist on a regular basis can provide a celebrity with the stability and emotional support that he or she might not be able to get from shady relatives and faithless partners. And because there are so many crackpot "healers" out there, it'd probably be a good idea for a celebrity to go to someone who is licensed and has a Ph.D. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:01 AM
pr_phillyfan wrote:
I totally agree digital femme. This is soo necessary. These women are so lonely and come from such dysfunctional environments, just to have a man come home every day is winning to them. Faith aint no better than Mary, IMO. Her hubby USED to be an A&R at BIV 10 but that was umpteen years ago. WHAT has he done lately?? I guess Mary should write a book, maybe that would be therapy for her. Sadly in MJB's case both her family and Caint du are toxic people. So sad for her. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:05 PM
chebella wrote:
If they all had therapists celeb blogs would be out of business and we'd all have to get back to work. LOL Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:21 AM
imanicu wrote:
mary j and salt should watch the show CHEATERS.i'll bet that would be a barrel of laughs. Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:23 AM
BLACK DIVA wrote:
Does anyone remember a poster saying that when Mary got with Mr. Lucky Kendon't that she paid for his divorce and paid the exwife a hefty settlement? Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:31 AM
honeybo wrote:
Hello everybody, long, long, long time lurker, but I beleive i got this one right; Mary J's husband and Salt's husband Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:03 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
Did anyone hear that KWeezy got arrested in London this morning? He must really have some unresolved anger management issues....It's sad to see him acting like that.... Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:06 AM
OrangeKat wrote:
Hi Panachigans: Without a doubt,this BI is Kendu and Salt's husband,Gavin.I am not surprised....Kendu always struck me as being kinda shady and i have a problem with your hubby also acting as manager...ask WendyW!
11/14/2008 9:09 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Meow OrangeKat, hope everything is everything with you! Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:13 AM
OrangeKat wrote:
Waving my paw...feeling good today and its good to hear about your MIL.You've been on a roll...that pompom thing...lol Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:16 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
**Waving my POM-POM'S for you**, glad to hear your feeling good today! Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:43 AM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Hey OrangeK- glad you are feeling better. Sounds like you are in much better spirits. Have an awesome day! Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:18 AM
Micahsmum wrote:
Good Morning P-Dyse, Will cont to pray for you and your family hope something good will happen for you this weekend Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:36 AM
Africasgem wrote:
Yall are so funny I thought of Mary J. Blige for the female, Kendu for the cheating man and Salt (Female rapper trio) her husband as the other cheating man. Plus I can't think of another rapping trio. Do yall remember when Pepa came to stay with Salt for a few days or whateva until her place was finished being painted/renovated? Well she had that big picture of her naked and her husband kept looking at it?! I was like what the heck are u doing? stop it. Salt didn't say anything to him. He kept taking the cover off and looking at it. Not sure if any of them have been notted but those are who I thought of first. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:43 AM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Zackly, wasn't that the episode where Pepa and Galvin, and the boys was playing cards late into the morning, and Salt came down salty b/c they where making too much noise? Reply to this
Yes I am not feeling sorry for Mary at all. It's bascially a case of "you get what you pay for".
I still would not wish this on my worst enemy though, it's not fair to do this to anyone. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:41 AM
Africasgem wrote:
Its sad to me about Mary its like she keeps attracting these same type of men to her. I wish her the best and someone who will treat her like a queen. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:44 AM
Micahsmum wrote:
Hello Anon By any chance you know why Kim and Lisa aren't getting along? How many episods before we get to the reunion. Last one I seen was NeNe paternity test Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:51 AM
Seeker wrote:
Not Anon but I've been reading that Kim has been saying things about Lisa regarding the fact that she was a drug addict and that's the reason she did not get her kids from Mr. Sweat. Don't know if its true but that's what some blogs are showing. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:05 AM
Micahsmum wrote:
Thanks I appreciate it drug addict huh I couldn't set up the adobe so I couldn't hear it, I thought maybe she couldn't provide for them financially, emotionally unstable or maybe just trifling Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:13 AM
Shoshanna Luc wrote:
Wasn't Lisa the one who ran to tell Kim that Nene was talking about her? Why did she think that Kim would not turn on her as well?
Kim needs to be banned from Real Housewives ATL...she is the token that can not act right. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:55 AM
Micahsmum wrote:
Thanks I appreciate it drug addict huh I couldn't set up the adobe so I couldn't hear it, I thought maybe she couldn't provide for them financially, emotionally unstable I have no clue find it strange she didn't have them. Keith Sweat woman beater huh thats crazy was in love with his voice and I love that new song with him and Keyshia Shame on him Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:47 AM
mean one wrote:
when i watched salt-n-pepa's show...always looked to me like salt's husband would much rather be with a chick like pep.
her hubby was the first to come to mind...although myra...salt-n-pepa (if this is right) are not a trio...spin is the dj...and they said as much...LOL sorry, just had to point that one out. Reply to this
A couple of loyal readers hit me up about this show yesterday. “Brothers to Brutha” premiered on BET Tuesday night. The show follows the career of five biological brothers who formed a singing group mentored by Jermaine Dupri.
Shakir Stewart, who signed the brothers to Def Jam, filmed his scenes in the show while he was still lucid. It’s interesting to note that Brutha attended Stewart’s private Memorial in Atlanta last week while his longtime boss and mentor, L.A. Reid, did not attend.
Apparently, top tier celebrities had to pitch in to help pay Stewart’s funeral expenses because Reid refused to even take calls from the family. There’s a special place in hell reserved for people like Reid who put money and self over a lifetime of dedication and loyalty.
I promised I was going to reveal more details about Shakir Stewart’s untimely death and the turn of events that led up to it. But in order to do that I would have to reveal a certain aspect of his life that is of a sensitive nature and can’t be written without casting Stewart in a negative light.
Out of respect for the family, I will leave that alone.
I’ve heard crazy allegations that Stewart was running from a certain rapper and armed gang bangers. But it’s a rare man who takes his own life because another man is gunning for him.
Men usually take their lives over money, lost pride or lost love — not because they fear another man. According to Stewart’s close friends, he was a man’s man with a strong sense of pride. And he remained that way until the day he died. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:17 PM
GossipGirl wrote:
I'd like to hear more about this story. I know there is more than meets the eye. SO you say that LA Reid wouldn't chip in to pay for the funeral but didn't Shakir have his own money? He was wealthy right... I'm confused as to why other people had to pay for the service. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:51 AM
tryvelgyrl'stwin wrote:
I saw on another site, that's known 4 not being truthful,thatKim and Big Poppa are kaput.She say's he was in the process of a divorce and that he's not black.Also wondering how Michael Knight's collection is going since appearing on Project Runway.I still think he got robbed by giving the title to Mr Thick Neck Jeffery,boy did I hate him and his designs Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:58 PM
ownlimee wrote:
I agree. They used the "too young" excuse too many times on project runway. But I did see Micheal named the best jewelry designer for men last year in Black Enterprise. Reply to this
I need to understand Reggie Bush's fascination with wifing a woman of such ill-repute. I mean if it's a white girl with dark features that he wanted, he couldn't get something better that used goods whored-out ass???? Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:12 AM
mean one wrote:
LMAO!! i think there is a certain lack of self-esteem for this man. Used goods is putting that very nicely. the fact that you would even consider wifing an industry whore makes me wonder where the heck his family is??? where is mom dukes???? if he was my brother we would be having a family intervention!! we are not welcoming bottomfeeding skanks!! Reply to this
I mean right out the gate, he lands the biggest whore of the land!!!
Talk about having your priorities ass-backward. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:07 PM
JUSTBNME wrote:
Its funny, but I met his mom and Step dad when he won the Heisman in 2005. They seemed to very grounded and down to earth(they still worked at the post office)and Reggie seemed to be a bit quiet. At that time he had his girlfiend with him who was cool and down to earth as well...not sure what happened. Maybe the money and the fame went to his head...idk Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:23 AM
NinaSimoan wrote:
My guess is that Reggie has been ovecome by Kim's good looks. As promiscuous as she has been, she's still a very beautfiful woman.
And I wouldn't doubt for one second that she probably caters to his every need which is doing WONDERS for his ego. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:28 AM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
well if so, she must have improved a great deal from that ray-j video, because she was BORING at that time in her life... every man I know that seen it was like all that A** and don't know how to use it...so either she's improved, or he's not sexually experienced to know the difference between good sex and lackluster sex.... Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:40 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
I don't think that Mr. Bush is not sexually experienced to know the difference...but that is just my assessment from considering him as a young man who appears to not be able to "throw it" yet. Reply to this
11/18/2008 10:26 AM
mean one wrote:
I shall beg to differ here!!! Kim is not beautiful with a faceful of her ever-present pancake makeup. She is make-up pretty...NOT beautiful. so i would bet she's not even ok without it...and thats based on the amount she wears. she's not rocking in little lip gloss...its full on face in every pic you see of her. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:14 AM
tryvelgyrl'stwin wrote:
Would this be L.A. Reid that wouldn't help in the expense of Mr.Stewart's death.I thought he was an okay dude Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:08 AM
pr_phillyfan wrote:
I heard he spent 1.3 million on that low self esteemed fat son of his for his sweet 16 on MTV and the original Goldigger, Pebbles Aka sister Perri. Karma comes round midnight becuz she got dug out by ole' Otis the crackhead baseball player with the million dollar bod and the low rent face. His will come soon as well I am sure of it. I hear that troubled man worked very hard for LA Reid. His family, can come up with something, I hope. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:18 AM
pr_phillyfan wrote:
I heard he spent 1.3 million on that low self esteemed fat son of his for his sweet 16 on MTV and the original Goldigger, Pebbles Aka sister Perri. Karma comes round midnight becuz she got dug out by ole' Otis the crackhead baseball player with the million dollar bod and the low rent face. His will come soon as well I am sure of it. I hear that troubled man worked very hard for LA Reid. His family, can come up with something, I hope. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:22 AM
BLACK DIVA wrote:
Bullrida how have you been doin? And thank you for agreeing with me I love me some Mary just like every other women in the world! HELL i thought she was singing about my life when she sung some of her songs!! haha I was like mary you must have one of my girls on speed dial because I swear you are singing about my sitation. Lawchick if you go up top you will see that the bi is mary and salts husbands on the dancers wrote to Nicole B and told her all the details of the two men. Bull whats up with a Cleveland party? Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:10 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Hey BLACK DIVA, I'm good, just got back in from lunch and got that sleepitis thing going on now. I do love me some Mary, I'm like you, she's had to have been on the red phone a few times, writing songs about me for me IDK what's going on with a Cleveland party, it would be fun if this came about though! How's things with you? Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:27 AM
Kay wrote:
Poor Mary. She has very low self esteem, and it may contribute to her bad choices in men. Plus, Mary J mentioned on a show that she can not read, which makes me wonder if she's that knowledgable about her contract dealing. For all we know, money can be slipping under her nose and she may not even know. She seems to have a lot of enablers around her and that's probably why she's always on tour trying to pay the bills. Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:11 AM
Teina wrote:
Wow, Mary can't read? I guess that helps explain why she doesn't write any of her songs (I think I read on here that she doesn't write any of her lyrics.) She better do like Arruh, and have someone write her lyrics/poetry down for her. Or better yet, do like Beyonce, just insist that she receive some writing credits. Reply to this
As for the front page. It seems like when exotic cars and luxury gifts and major dollars are exchanged you are being "pursued" and "dating." But I am sorry, still sounds like being "purchased" and "fruckin" to me. Oh fo sho, if given the choice, who wouldnt rather be a plaything on a yacht in the South of France as opposed to some crappy street corner in Detroit, but at the end of the day, it's all prostitution and I can't help but think you walk away feeling the same way no matter the dollars involved. Okay, not quite the same because you are gettin paid WAY more money. LOL But spiritually I would imagine you are about in the same place. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:45 AM
Africasgem wrote:
@ I luv Michelle Yes I think that was the episode how are you?
@ Mean one I feel you on that one. I've been thinking about other groups since I read your posts. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:03 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
I'm fine Africagem, and you? Just waiting for 5:00, cause it's Friday, and I don't have to work tomorrow, so I can actually get some rest Reply to this
my favorite you're my favorite that whole post in itself is intelligence at its best. you are really teling the truth. Its sad that men and women are both doing things like that just to be used. They think its different because supposedly its not anything sexually but you're getting paid for what reason? Why do you need that to validate who you are? Money is the root. Blinded by the dollar bill which is all a lie of webs the majority of us are caught in. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:11 AM
PhillyGirl wrote:
Shoutout to everyone who made it into Ballin 8!!!!
I think my views on this type of thing have changed over the years. I think that every relationship involves some form of exchange whether implicit or explicit. No one gets absolutely nothing from it (well, maybe Mary and Salt). Example: Naomi and Billionaire boyfriend. Naomi exchanges the experience and privilege of being with one of the greatest supermodels EVER. Boyfriend exchanges experience of being with man who can provide financial security and companionship etc. Sounds like a win-win situation to me. I don't see it as being used because there seems to be a clear understanding of what is going on. These women are going to "date" one way or the other. I would rather see these women getting something out of the situation than end up like Mary, Faith, Vivica, Kim Porter, Lil Kim, Foxy, and everyone else in the BI archives-- damaged goods who will have to scrap the bottom of the barrel for a man due to their reputations. Real men would feel honored to shower a woman of interest with tokens of affection. A woman should have her own but there is nothing wrong with a man showing his admiration for a woman's beauty, intelligence, femininity etc.-- it's no different than being sent flowers from an admirer except these gifts cost a hell of a lot more. What's even more pleasing is that these gifts are no-strings attached! Men should show that they appreciate women with tangible and intangible things JMO Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:59 AM
myfavorite wrote:
I hear ya gurl, but I still think all these women are on the stroll, their price tag is just higher. I mean the objective is still the same, keeping their lights on. These women just live in better neighborhoods and have bigger expenses. However, I am not including the relationship Naomi is currently in because this seems to be a longterm deal. It doesn't appear to be an arrangement, I didnt think those type of arrangements were as lengthy as their relationship appears to be but maybe one of the pros can school me on that. However, I do believe when you are in a relationship, no matter what your man's income level, he should splurge on you within his means. So I am in no way suggesting to you that gifts should not be a part of courtship. And I am aware, especially as you get older, sometimes relationships are moreso pragmatic tradeoffs more than anything. But this isnt what those chicks are doing over in Europe. Those chicks are just slangin it for more dough. If they could get away with doing it here on the low for the same amount of money - and most importantly DISCRETION - so they wouldnt harm their reputations or careers, they would. Because if they were so proud of doing it in the first place they wouldnt be creepin to Europe to do it. I mean to each his or her own, and I am no saint to judge, but let's be real. I mean yeah you have lemon used car dealers and luxury car dealers, but at the end of the day they are all in auto sales. Now having said all that, if given the limited options, OF COURSE I would prefer to be a luxury car dealer and a high end call girl/escort over the other choices, but I would hope I could be honest with myself as to what I was really doing. I hope. LOL Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:38 PM
PhillyGirl wrote:
Okay, I see where you are coming from and you have a valid point. Mariah and Naomi are the only ones who didn't need the money. Mariah wrote darn near every song of hers and she makes bank of of the royalties and I am sure she got a nice divorce settlement from Tommy. Naomi was making like $10,000 ( I won't get of bed for less than $10,000 90's super model) per day modeling and she has always surrounded herself with rich folk. In fact, I don't even think she grew up poor. especially if her mother left to go on tour and left her with a full-time nanny. As for Eve, she was hooking oversees according to some insiders but it seems like she has elevated to where people are just sending her stuff no strings attached. I have to give her credit, not many women go from a hoodrat stripper to being in the circle of wealthy and powerful men. Kelly should have a lot of Destiny's Child money so I find it VERY strange that she is going over to Europe to entertain. I do believe she is hooking but she really has no excuse -- should have invested the pennies she was given. I think in today's society, there is a very fine line between dating and prostituting. Naomi and Mariah dated. Eve and Kelly are prostituting. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:50 PM
PhillyGirl wrote:
Mariah and Naomi should read "were dating" Eve should read was prostituting. Kelly should read "is prostituting" Reply to this
11/17/2008 10:56 AM
2blessed4stress wrote:
Hey Philly(waving) see now, if the BI was about her, before Miriah was "dating" she was "prostituting" and married one of her famous clients. And every time I see her in one of her outfits, all I can say is hmmm. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:56 PM
richbitch wrote:
I couldn't said it better myself. Please pass this around to those who think because you aint out on the track you aint hoeing. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:12 PM
After Dark Crew wrote:
It is an market for appearance fees disguised as dates with rich men with no sex. Eve and Kelly are not in this category, the other two are but Naomi is sidelined because she has the billionaire and Mariah has Nick. Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:39 PM
Black Playmate wrote:
It's so many overseas sex markets, lets see, forced with overseas white slavery, willing like a lot of former blonde playmates do, go over there and be call girls and then you have a niche market with the guys paying the girls to be out in public with them, minus sex. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:20 PM
myfavorite wrote:
Hi BP - Now I have read in Cosmo how the Sultan and Saudi Royals hire playmates and former beauty queens under contract. How they prep the "chosen" ones for sex. Quite interesting to say the least. LOL Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:22 AM
Teina wrote:
I hate when you guys have this conversation b/c I'm always left questioning if I'm a non-prostitute prostitute. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:44 PM
Teina wrote:
Don't laugh at me too hard Eye. They start getting all philosophical about the economies of dating and marriage and I start getting introspective, wondering if I'm dating or "dating." Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:03 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
This is definetely a conversation for cocktails, girl your personality really shows in your posts! Will have to use that phrase in further discussions "economies of dating & marriage"!Still laughing- in the words of Blessed woman...thank you for being you family! Reply to this
I didn't like Jeffrey either I thought Michael was going to win I wanted him to win anyway. Some of Uli's clothes were nice but jeffrey? come on his stuff was not cute. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:00 AM
Africasgem wrote:
No one black has never won not playing the card being real this season Korto was the best and out of the four the other girl won? come on Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:20 AM
atlprincess wrote:
Hey hey hey! How is everyone today? Mary? Humph! You are too old not to know better. You better bash Mr's head in and think about heaven later. -Welcome Stripper! Please feel free to stay and join us at every BI party -I saw Jazzy Pha at Cafe Intermezzo last night. That dude is round. -OT: Was listening to the radio this morning and Neyo is on...he's asked about his "significant other"...Im going to assume that he and Lloyd are an item 1) He kept saying "im not married" but he never denied he was in a relationship 2) his "other" kept being referred to as "they" and you know what that means. -Come on!!!! Neyo--you and Prissy are playing with our emotions. Come out already--it would be kind of neat to me...*shugs* -Congrats to the PR posters who are now celebs and will be featured in Ballin' 8. -Roy Jones: So did he sleep with Kim or not--you guys think he's just being country a** Roy or what? -Khloe? Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:30 PM
inimini wrote:
Hey Atlp, I saw Lloyd aka Prissy recently as I was on my way to pick up my son from school on Atlanta road. I think he lives in one of the townhomes there. He was driving a white Mclaren benz with the top down and had an older man who looked like his father in the passenger seat next to him. We were at a light and he asked me my name and was basically flirting with me. I didn't catch any down low or gay vibe from him. Are we sure Prissy isn't Omarion before he cut his hair off? Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:34 PM
atlprincess wrote:
hey! Yes we are certain that Prissy is Lloyd. Lit confirmed it and dropped that bombshell. *untangling ribbons* Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:10 PM
inimini wrote:
I know I read it too but....but....he was flirting with me....ok....maybe he wanted to know where I got my hair done at or give me tips on how to get my hair as bouncy and shiny as his....lol. Dang, I should've given him my # just to see if we'd become shopping buddies or something....ha....kinda like Nene and Dwight. He's a cutie, such a darn shame that he's....uhmmmm....you know...Prissy. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:28 PM
atlprincess wrote:
lol..Dwight is the new it girl. I hate his hair though. He's funny however. -as for Prissy's Hair...three letters: C-H-I Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:42 AM
Teina wrote:
Wait, are you calling Chicago out as being country? If you are, that would be correct! LOL Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:11 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Hey Teina Baby! You are so killing me this weekend. CHI= brand of hair care products not Chicago is contry- ROFLMBAO!I so heart you! Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:33 PM
Quagmire wrote:
Oh my goodness ATLPrincess - Jazzy Pha looks like a HUGE human M&M. Just round everywhere - face, body. I get out of breath just watching him walk. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:37 PM
inimini wrote:
You can find Fatty Pha almost anywhere in Atlanta, you can's miss his round no neck having self in this city. He's always rolling everywhere....lol. Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:34 AM
Teina wrote:
Hi girly whirly! Wishing you a great weekend! OK, you saw Jazzy AT the Cafe, but please clarify, was he outside the Cafe, or inside, meaning he fit through the door? Are you saying that Roy Jones is another of KKK's suitors? I only want one thing for Christmas and that's a box of fancy smelling salts. And of course, lol @ "-Khloe?" Pretty soon you'll be able to type "-?" and all the PR regulars will know what you mean! Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:34 AM
GentlemanFirst wrote:
Good Afternoon Panache Family, longtime reader but never post. I feel for Mary to see the light. I work in music, young 20s man. I used to deal with her when it was convient for her and she is a really cool lady. When she hooked up with Kendu I was crushed, not out of jealously but because I felt he had a devilish vibe, like he was seasoned not original. On top of that I knew for a fact they didn't have much fun together, being that I was told my age was an issue it seems he is the childish one now. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:46 PM
Peaches wrote:
Hi GentlemanFirst! Can I say that the tone of your post certainly lives up to your moniker. You speak about an ex, but the first thing you say is you feel for her and still call her a really cool lady. And your issue with Kendu isn't that you're not in his position, but rather that he was just off. I like your attitude. Like ATLPrincess said, welcome and come out and play more often. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:35 AM
tryvelgyrl'stwin wrote:
Korte's clothes were nice.I never really thought about it but there hasn't ever been a minner that was Black.But I have to admit the little gay guy that won season before last was hilarious,didn't really watch that season because I was boycotting the Michael thing. Was wondering if anyone heard when Monique was doing a show and she mentioned that she was the saver and her husband was the spender.She was laughing (or playing it off ) when she mentioned this.Saying how Sydney got jealous hen she bought herself an outfit and had to lie about when she bought it.Why would you have to lie when it's money that you made? Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:35 AM
myfavorite wrote:
I guess BET is still only hiring latinas to host its shows. I read somewhere that Angie Martinez is hosting her own show on there now. I like Angie Martinez okay enuf, but damn, what does a sistah have to do to get a gig on that network these days? I mean if the trade off is Angie and Wacksi gets the boot, I'm cool. But both? That's just too much. Shame on BET.
BET execs really do hate African American women. Sad. At a time when the world is embracing America's first black president and first lady, BET is still doin that 80s color struck ish. smdh. Reply to this
11/14/2008 4:17 PM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
Yeah..thats crazy...esp since their CEO is a black woman....smh... I have much respect for the accomplishments of Miss. Debra Lee... but I dont see how she can be okay with this....I guess green is the most important color.... Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:22 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
I gather the same notion. Not to jump off the subject,in addition to Ms. Lee, I am also proud of the accomplishments of the another black woman (her name evades me right now) in the automotive design industry. She is now Director/Head of General Motors. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:35 AMtootiegrl wrote:
Coming out of lurkmode.........as someone formerly from around the way, it was common knowledge that Gavin cheated on Salt from the beginning of the relationship until now........He supposedly had women in their home when she was away. A friend and I were talking on the phone when the reality show was on and we were both more than surprised that they were still together because there is no way Salt could not have heard stories all these years. Guess it's the same way I will be surprised if 10 years from now Kendu & Mary were still together. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:44 AM
GlamarousAmazon wrote:
This is definitely Mary, Kendu, and Salt's husband. I'm just not understanding why men can't control their lustful desires outside of their wives. Just because you're grown and of consenting age doesn't mean you should indulge. Respect your vows. Unless of course Mary is aware of her husband's activities and they have an understanding. Same thing for Salt's husband Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:11 PM
huf wrote:
aw man, I had no clue for the BI, but Salt and Mary J. are two ladies in the industry that I was so happy to hear that they finally found 'the one'. This is disheartening. I feel that neither deserve this, if true.
11/14/2008 12:15 PM
Brook Lynn wrote:
Hello all...coming our of lurkmode for just one minute.
I will join the crew in the BI answers and say Kendu (shame,shame) and Gavin.
A few years ago, my girlfriend and I were at a club in Manhattan and ran into Salt's husband Gavin. My girlfriend knew Gavin for several years when S & P owned a pool hall/club back in the late 80's - early 90's.
We hung with Gavin and his friends in a VIP section in the club drinking champagne, he was having a good time, nothing like what you see on t.v. Towards the end of the night he whispers in my friends ear asking her if she wanted to go to the hotel with him. She politely declined - and we left.
She said Salt was always a bit of an uptight "B" and that Pepa was always the down to earth approachable one. Because Salt is slightly older than her husband my friend felt as if Salt got with him because she could control him, plus he wasn't in the industry and didn't know all of her "dirt", almost like he was a little starstuck. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:21 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Well H-E-L-L-O stranger**waving** I kinda figured that Salt was older than Gavin. She should have known, better IMO. Hope all is well for you! Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:31 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
That's good to hear. Everything is good with me, just watching this clock for the next 2 1/2 hrs. It's been a long week. I am running away from here @ 5. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:19 PM
Shoshanna Luc wrote:
Wasn't it mentioned somewhere that Mary J Blige was a friend to this site?
If this is true than I am going with the Toni Braxton guess. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:30 PM
pr_phillyfan wrote:
HEY! HELLO TO ALL THE NEW PEEPS. I AM MOSTLY A LURKER BUT POST FROM TIME TO TME WHEN I HAVE SOMETHING OF SUBSTANCE TO ADD. WE KEEP IT GROWN AND SEXY AND SOME INSIDERS HAVE SOME REAL LOW LOW. SO IF U GOT IT TOO, BRANG IT!! WE WELCOME U WITH OPEN ARMS AND EARS. LOL I SEE SALT AS A SELF RIGHTEOUS UMM FEMALE TOO. I WAS REALLY SHOCKED AT HER BEHAVIOR ON THE SHOW. I ALWAYS THOUGHT SHE WAS THE COOL ONE. SANDI IS A BIT TOO CHILDISH, BUT SHE SEEMS COOL AND JUST WANTS TO HAVE FUN. SHE MEANS NO HARM BUT NEEDS TO GROW UP IMO. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:33 PM
pr_phillyfan wrote:
I AM NOT SURE IF MJB IS A FRIEND. SHE HAS NOT BEEN NOTTED AND THAT IS THE MAJORITY'S GUESS. PLUS IT ALSO APPEARED ON ANOTHER SITE. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:38 PM
MzSerenity wrote:
Hello everyone I've also been lurking now for a few months and I just want to say that you guys rock! I love this site and its very uplifting to find a site with so many positive people that sticks together. I know that this does not have anything to do with the blind item, but I am sorry because I had to let you guys know that you are awesome. Maybe sometime in the future I might try to help solve on of the blind items but for now I'm back to lurking. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:38 PM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
Toni and MJB, wake up and let a man mutually support you. To the poster up top who said women accepting gifts from European men sounds like prostitution, I think a line in the article read, no strings attached. PR did an article on a black woman I later found out was Vivica who was paid 20 grand to accompany a rich man to dinner so he could close a deal by his star struck business associates with no sex involved. It happens darling. Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:46 PM
After Dark Crew wrote:
Yes GS, I heard of the African woman in NY who books famous women like Vivica for these non sex dates, PR did a story on her.
It's a lot of back end deals, I know Halle gets paid 1 million a year for appearing at the Wal Mart shareholders meeting, an appearance fee, business deal, no sex involved. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:22 PM
chebella wrote:
I sure hope there's no sex involved, Walmart has a lot of shareholders. If that was the case, the share price would go through the roof. Just kidding Halle! LOL! Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:31 PM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
A shareholders meeting, the minutes are available, photographs are taken, it's an "appearance fee." Not all situations involve sex. Celebrities get paid to appear at clubs, Tiger Woods gets pad a million dollar fee to play in certain golf tournaments, is he having sex with the golf sponsors? Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:16 PM
CoCoDeluxe wrote:
Hey PR Fam! TGIF! Can a sista get an application for this sponsorship program? LOL. I personally never thought E-V-E was in the league of Naomi or Stacey Dash, but hey someone is willing to pay, right? Where do I turn my app in? Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:18 PM
CoCoDeluxe wrote:
Hey PR Fam! TGIF! Can a sista get an application for this sponsorship program? LOL. I personally never thought E-V-E was in the league of Naomi or Stacey Dash, but hey someone is willing to pay, right? Where do I turn my app in? Reply to this
11/14/2008 12:52 PM
myfavorite wrote:
Hi Gorgeous - That was me up top who said that. Like I said I am not judging anyone's lifestyle but I believe in calling a spade a spade too. I am sure all of this is on a case by case basis. Vivica's instance was different. And I don't deny that occasionally happens. But I am not buying that all these wealthy men are paying top dollar in every instance just for dinner. LOL But it would be helpful to us sex industry virgins if ya'll in the know clarify who is sexin for dough and those who aren't. Because I know I am not the only one who was lookin sideways at Eve and Kelly R after the recent chatter posted here about their alleged European exploits. Or maybe I was. LOL Maybe I over assumed. If so, sign me up for the arm candy, no strings attached, $20,000 for dinner only circuit. Dayum, I knew I shoulda stayed tryin to rap. LOL Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:28 PM
Quagmire wrote:
GS, I know it's hard for some women to believe these men are shelling money and gifts yet no sex is involved. But they have realize this is a different breed of man. Those guys are loaded and they don't even miss what it takes to buy a Maserati. I think women here are just too used to men who take them to Sonic and expect a night of passion in return. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:41 PM
myfavorite wrote:
Quagmire, I didnt settle for Sonic when I was a teen and would never dare as a professional adult with two degrees. So I am going to excuse your slight, especially when I really meant no ill will to anyone. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:56 PM
After Dark Crew wrote:
Quagmire is right, a different breed of men, PR did an expose on this. You are right myfavorite, some of the encounters include sex but just as many don't. The higher the name status for the woman the less likely she has to put out. In the corporate world, men like to impress with beautiful and famous women on their arm to close a deal by their star struck business partners, the woman is paid off for her presence, end of story. It happens, with a different breed of billionaire men who can have sex with beautiful women at the drop of a dime, they don't pursue as hard for sex as other men. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:06 PM
Gorgeous Sable wrote:
You got that right ADC, I said the same thing, play on their star struck sensibilities. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:03 PM
Quagmire wrote:
Myfavorite, I apologize if I came off as slighting you - I was responding GS's comment about the point of view that sex is automatically a part of the gift-giving. I agree with her that that's just not always the case. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:04 PM
Jinx wrote:
Hey My favorite, Panache will expose you to things that you didn't know existed. Like Fixers, from the ballin 8 teaser, gourmet food so damn exclusive, you have to have an auction to bid on it and now star women who attend business dates to cap a deal without sex. It's true, was shocked when I read about it on here but I talked to the owner, this is very big business. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:10 PM
Paris wrote:
This european "sponsor" underworld with famous (black and white) women and very rich men will be exposed a little further in Ballin 8. The black Lamborghini driving supermodel in the story has this type of arrangement in Rome, Italy. Ballin 8 will take you behind the velvet rope. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:18 PM
TG wrote:
I remember reading a United Kingdom magazine. The Sultan of Brunei's son discussed gifting jewelry to famous people, like Mariah Carey. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:21 PM
After Dark Crew wrote:
Key word like on the front page is "pursuit." If a wealthy man asks to buy a famous chick a yacht, private jet or expensive jewels, doesn't mean she's sleeping with him because he's trying to lavish. Prince Harry has photos of Halle Berry plastered all over his room. Stacy Dash got a taste of a millionaire and is in Europe all the time. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:35 PM
SG77 wrote:
thanks for clarifying these arrangements. i, in no way, believe that eve, naomi or halle are putting out.
when someone is a multi-millionaire or billionaire, six figures for a car or jewelry is nothing. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:35 PM
My Louboutins wrote:
I need to make a stop to Europe for real..LOL!!!! And with no strings attached, who needs this economy when you have European millionaires.
Shout out to Salma Hayek. She obviously got the memo. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:44 PM
TG wrote:
Sorry if my comment sounded as if I was castigating anyone. It was only meant as an example of a wealthy royal giving a person he admires a gift. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:42 PM
Quagmire wrote:
To the men here please, please don't take that as a generalization of all men here. I didn't mean it like that at all. But there are some men who are like that. Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:57 PM
loobie wrote:
Agreed. I was thinking the same thing, but couldn't think of how to put it eloquently. Nicely done.
In the words of ??? "know your worth". Reply to this
11/15/2008 12:03 PM
Teina wrote:
Really LOL @ "I think women here are just too used to men who take them to Sonic and expect a night of passion in return." I get your point. I think it's pretty sad to exchange dinner for sex, but if you're going to do it at least insist that the restaurant be elBulli. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:08 PM
anon2 wrote:
NE NE AND HUSBAND EVICTED FROM HOME: According to court records, a few weeks ago a man by the name of "Greg Leakes" was evicted from the home in Sugarloaf, Georgia.
NeNe's husband is named Greg Leakes and they lived in Sugarloaf, Georgia during the taping of Real Housewives Of Atlanta. Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:15 PM
BLACK DIVA wrote:
ANON I read that also but it just made me go huuum. I would definatly need Myra to say that this was him he was the only man to seem to have a job on the show. Bull is it as beautiful in my city as it is in Pgh? Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:24 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
I just had the opportunity to read the front page, and just wanted to gave a shout-out and congrats to; Peaches, Sinni sin sin, Chi-Town R, Deanna, BP and ADC for making the Ballin 8 series. I aim to be just like you all when I grow up **pulls out the How To Be Mentioned for the not so bright manual**ah, lets see Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:43 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Yes We Can! Just keeping hope alive Have a good weekend, it's almost the end of my day, and I've got Monday off WOO-HOO **shake shake of the POM-POM's of course** Reply to this
The FBI had an opening for an assassin. After all the background checks, interviews and testing were done, there were 3 finalists; two men and a
woman. For the final test, the FBI agents took one of the men to a large metal door and handed him a gun. 'We must know that you will follow your instructions no matter what the circumstances.'
Inside the room you will find your wife sitting in a chair . . . Kill her!!' The man said, 'You can't be serious. I could never shoot my wife.' The agent said, 'Then you're not the right man for this job. Take your wife and go home.'
The second man was given the same instructions. He took the gun and went into the room. All was quiet for about 5 minutes. The man came out with tears in his eyes, 'I tried, but I can't kill my wife.' The agent said, 'You don't have what it takes. Take your wife home.'
Finally, it was the woman's turn. She was given the same instructions, to kill her husband. She took the gun and went into the room. Shots were
heard, one after another. They heard screaming, crashing, banging on the walls. After a few minutes, all was quiet. The door opened slowly and there stood the woman, wiping the sweat from her brow. 'This gun is loaded with blanks' she said. 'I had to beat him to death with the chair.'
11/14/2008 1:54 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Zphi, thanks for that laugh ROFLMAO, but ain't it the truth! Reply to this
11/15/2008 12:23 PM
Teina wrote:
This story reminds me of an AKA who recounted a college experience in which three pledges (I think that's the correct term) were individually taken to the roof of a 3-story building and told to jump off of the building. Two of the pledges braced themselves and jumped off the building to the ground, one suffering a broken arm, the other suffering a broken leg. Well, the third pledge jumped-up once in place (technically jumping "off" the roof), not over the edge of the roof. Reply to this
I've been lurking and wanted to drop in for a minute and say Happy Friday and wish everyone a Blessed & Safe Weekend.
**Waving to Everyone**
Shout outs to: Myra, Georgous Sable, GEPS, Sin7, TAFKA, Malibusteeler, Hidoll, Soul Train, Motown, Lit,Ms Coleman, BOOBOO, Peaches, Nola Bella, Spymaster, Paris & Amber
As for the BI, I always wondered about Kendu, I gave him the benefit of the doubt because Mary gives him alot of credit for getting her life together. I hope Mary and Salt do the Christie Brinkley thing and get rid of them.
Just another reminder that there are men gold diggers too.... Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:59 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Hey TNJ **waving my TGIF POM-POM'S**hope you have a safe and BLESSED weekend also. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:35 PM
Peaches wrote:
Hi, TNJ! I can see MJB crediting Kendu with helping her get her life together b/c I suppose having a special someone in her life was good motivation in her mind to change. But the problem is once she got past "good, I have someone in my life," what else did she get from him? What did he bring to the table besides an extra mouth to feed and child support payments for kids she didn't have the pleasure of creating? I'm glad Mary cleaned her life up, but her "motivation" is now motivating her to go back down that destructive path. Shame... Reply to this
The FBI had an opening for an assassin. After all the background checks, interviews and testing were done, there were 3 finalists; two men and a
woman. For the final test, the FBI agents took one of the men to a large metal door and handed him a gun. 'We must know that you will follow your instructions no matter what the circumstances.'
Inside the room you will find your wife sitting in a chair . . . Kill her!!' The man said, 'You can't be serious. I could never shoot my wife.' The agent said, 'Then you're not the right man for this job. Take your wife and go home.'
The second man was given the same instructions. He took the gun and went into the room. All was quiet for about 5 minutes. The man came out with tears in his eyes, 'I tried, but I can't kill my wife.' The agent said, 'You don't have what it takes. Take your wife home.'
Finally, it was the woman's turn. She was given the same instructions, to kill her husband. She took the gun and went into the room. Shots were
heard, one after another. They heard screaming, crashing, banging on the walls. After a few minutes, all was quiet. The door opened slowly and there stood the woman, wiping the sweat from her brow. 'This gun is loaded with blanks' she said. 'I had to beat him to death with the chair.'
11/15/2008 10:13 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
LOL..sounds to me that the woman had it in for her husband to begin with. Can you imagine the notion that she had a moment of reflection to think of all the things he put her through and had a plausible reason to go beserk? meaning a job offer with the FBI...LOL Reply to this
11/14/2008 1:49 PM
x wrote:
I think Jennifer will be all right career-wise now. She's got Donald Trump, Oprah and Obama in her corner. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:42 PM
x wrote:
Yep, heard he said she can stay at his Trump suites as long as she likes and will help her in any way he can. He's a big fan. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:18 PM
anon2 wrote:
It's good that Sean wants to change the perception of black males but he really shouldn't have put himself in the Obama category. They are both successful black men but Obama has class, Diddy doesn't. Obama has never been rumored to beat women, impregnant different women and be an absentee father and party to you drop at 40 years old. Here is what Diddy said.
Diddy is looking to change the perception of black males:
With the launch of his newest men’s fragrance on the horizon, Sean “Diddy” Combs is utilizing president-elect Barack Obama to promote the scent, in an effort to redefine the perception of African Americans.
The Wall Street Journal reports the rap mogul will appear in a black-and-white ad for the new I am King fragrance. The ad will be featured in magazines and on billboards across the country in December.
Dressed as a black James Bond, Combs wears a white dinner jacket as he is seen on jet skis, in casinos and aboard a yacht on the French Riviera.
Although the ads could come across with being out of touch with the current economy, Combs maintains that the promotion is reflective of what he labeled as an “affordable indulgence.”
“Everything on the market isn’t going to be attached to the bad economy,” he said. With Obama’s historic victory over Republican rival John McCain, Combs believes the time is now for marketers to shift their perception of the urban black male from the stereotypical person with lots of “bling,” to one of successful black men such as himself and Obama. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:30 PM
JUSTBNME wrote:
I wish Piddy (on purpose) would stop with the foolishness.
Hey PR Fam!
Shouts to Nola, Teina, Chi-baby, TG, All of the Chitown Ladies), Pretty, Poet, Chrissy, Nubian and the rest of the crew, and of course Myra,Paris & Spy!
11/14/2008 6:01 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
Nor has Obama openly and voluntarily talked about using body oils, his (delusional) bedroom skills, moisturizing, wanting to settle down, not wanting to settle down, or his desire to live out child-like dreams like being a race car driver, astraunaut, or fireman. Nor has Obama slept with and kept men on payroll like Jim Jones, Shine, or Fonsworth Bentley.
And Obama obtained success with integrity and walking a straight path. He didn't obtain success by not paying his people or stringing people along or slapping women on reality TV or making people walk miles upon miles for one damn slice of cheesecake.
So it's safe to say that Puff-Slobber was oh-so wrong for putting himself and President-Elect Obama in the same sentence.
PS: Didn't Puffy say that his "I Am King" ads were in tribute to the Rat Pack??? But because Obama was elected president, he's now saying it's to change to perception of black males? I'm not buying it, not even for a dollar. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:32 PM
Shoshanna Luc wrote:
@Deanna- I don't think you like Puffy/Diddy/Poofy Combs?
LOL! Yes I remember he claimed he was channeling the rat pack and even had the sinatra song in the background!
11/14/2008 6:56 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
I just wish he could make a move in his life WITHOUT a press conference or a YouTube vlog. That would be lovely. Reply to this
11/15/2008 12:16 AM
secycutie wrote:
Why is Pshitty on Bill Maher? Why did Bill Maher ask him if Obama asked him for a spot in his administration? Obama better not think of asking his baby making, not commital, woman beating azz for a spot in his administration.
Bill Maher asked if we could stop with the bragging and the negative rap music. All Puffy could say was we MAY stop with the negative rap. Whateva! He sucks. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:12 AM
Shoshanna Luc wrote:
I am watching it now and kind of feeling sorry for him because he looks nervous without all the things he hides behind like his SLANG and shades and bling. It's a mess. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:57 PM
bjoyful wrote:
Hi PR Family, I just had to come out of lurk mode on this one. Sean Combs, P-Diddy, Puff Daddy or whatever he calls himself this week should NEVER not only put himself in the category of our esteemed PE Obama but he should NEVER put himself in the category of king. When I heard the name of his new fragrance I nearly gagged. There is one Living King that I know of and His Name is Jesus.......Let the church say AMEN! (smile) Here's wishing everyone a safe, blessed and wonderful weekend. *back to lurking* Reply to this
11/15/2008 5:55 PM
bjoyful wrote:
Hi Teina, I will definitely come out and play a little more often. Hope you are having a wonderfully blessed weekend. Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:49 PM
Tayjon wrote:
I hate to say it but Kendu and Salts husband is the answer to this BI. Sad.... Going back to bed to get rid of this cold!!! Have a great weekend all!!! Reply to this
I am just here catching up as I just skimmed before (thanks thera-flu) but congrats to all in Ballin 8..I cant wait for this one to come out I absolutely HEART the Ballin series!!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 2:59 PM
I ♥ Michelle Obama aka TAFKA Bullrida wrote:
Alright fam, it's the end of my day, I hope everyone has a safe and BLESSED weekend. ttyl Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:06 PM
Sharon wrote:
Too easy...someone gave it away the other night! Mary and Salt.
The other night, someone came in and mentioned they saw Mary's husband all hugged up on this stripper who was giving him a lap dance at a club in Vegas. Isn't this the situation the blind item is referring too? Should the blind item come out first before someone mention the celebrity and situation? lol Just thought it was weird.
love the site...carry on...now back to lurking :o) Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:24 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Hi Sharon, We discuss everything here on PR. So, it's a possibility ? Also, when people are discussing things they have no way of knowing that it's going to be in a BI...We can't control another poster posts about. I'm sure it's pure coincidence. I'm just trying to help you understand how things go on PR... Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:28 PM
Stripper wrote:
He's getting around because the club I work at is in NY and Kendu is a regular. Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:08 PM
Ebony wrote:
Im confuse if Keith Sweat was a abuser then why would he still get custody? Why couldn't Lisa find someone else take custody of the children. Why is Lisa only mention the 2 children only 1 time during the whole season. I would fought for my kids. Family should come first then the career. Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:41 PM
Black Playmate wrote:
She's a horrible mother who doesn't want responsiblity, chasing stardom, I heard Keith puts the smack down, hard. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:52 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
You are not kidding. I know back in 1998, Keith was dating a collegue of mine. They had got into a verbal squabble and when we thought that he was going to walk away, he turned around and hit her in her mouth knocking out her incissors. To avoid having this in the press, he gave her a large amount of money and fronted medical cost/surgery. Reply to this
11/15/2008 5:56 AM
lavender wrote:
If he did all of those horrible things to your friend, you know Lisa's butt got beat on the regular for know reason.Wow,I am wondering how will those two little boys turn out, since dad breaks his foot off in any random woman's @$$...he's a freaking psycho!These guys are monsters with severe emotional problems. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:02 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
At this time, I was so caught up in the safety and fact that my collegue was one of those types to try to change a man because she tolerated much abuse from this man prior to her teeth being handed to her for a wake up call that I did not think about the possibility of this man even being married at the time. However, as I had said in an earlier post, there are still women trying to hollar at this fool til this day and some of them know what he is about via the circuit. Leave it to some women to have that "I can change a man" attitude. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:00 PM
SheKnows wrote:
What ?...His nanny-goat,singing azz...Hmmpp!! If I were Lisa or the other woman, he would have some new lyrics to sing about...Trust me he would have all new material to sing, if he put his hands on me... Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:12 PM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
Really? WTH? She comes across so straight laced!!! It's alleged that she was abusing drugs, so maybe that was the issue? She does have an "air" to her that's hard to place, I get a conniving vibe off her- Like she works hard, but she seems as is she has hella skeletons in her closet! I get a bisexual vibe off her, idk like she's an undercover freak! Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:30 PM
My Momma Said! wrote:
Happy Friday to all! I am going to jump on the BI band wagon too! God Bless!
ps. congrats! To all that was in Ballin 8! Myra thats one of the reasons I started reading PR! I have learned soooooo much from this site and from everybody's input! again thanks for the sight! Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:37 PM
Black Playmate wrote:
Boris is so fine on the front page. Him and Elan made a striking couple, he was her last bf before she got married and she was his last gf before he married Nicole. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:46 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Yes Boris is SOOO Fine..Me oh my ♥ Elan and Boris were probably like the Black Ken & Barbie. Two good-looking people!! I like to see charming & good-looking couples...It balances out,LOL. Reply to this
11/14/2008 3:49 PM
Monroe wrote:
LITIGATING.....Where you at baby? GS said your fixer training with M&J wouldn't last long today!!! Where you at baby? For your birthday, I got a bad ass Italian suit, ain't I fine!!! Reply to this
11/14/2008 4:09 PM
Lobbyist wrote:
Usually speak on politics but it's time for my favorite female singer MJB to cut her losses, get rid of that dead weight. He will lead you to the poor house. Another K-Ci wrapped in a better package. Reply to this
11/14/2008 6:05 PM
Deanna ♪♫ wrote:
Agreed. Mary needs to follow that old cliche, the one that goes "I can do bad all by myself". Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:08 PM
anon2 wrote:
PART 1: TONI BRAXTON'S FORMER MGR TALKS ILL ABOUT HER TRIFE HUSBAND KERRY: With regard to Kerry Lewis, Toni Braxton's husband of the past six years, with whom she has two sons, Barry Hankerson said that he had told his friend Toni that, from what he saw as Keri's personality, and what he knew of Toni's, he really liked the two of them together as a couple. Braxton's biggest concern just prior to accepting Lewis' proposal in marriage was the fact that he didn't have a job. "His contract had dropped with Mint Condition. He didn't have a job and I said, 'you know what, I'll offer him a job to work at the label ... That's how much I cared about her; and cared about her making it; and having a husband that had a job. I said to her, '...do a press release when you announce your wedding that he works for Blackground in A&R. Do whatever you need to do so I can help you keep your face out there the best way you can." Hankerson admits that he doesn't know if Braxton ever put out such a release; but did, however, know that if she wanted to, she could have. Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:12 PM
anon2 wrote:
PART II: Toni's mgr goes on to say that Kerry interfered with her career and made all the decisions about her career and it became difficult to deal with her because of Kerry. "I really honestly believe they love each other and I think they are together in a way that it's them against the world. I don't think Toni will ever blame Keri for the demise of her record career. I don't think she'll do that. I think Toni and Keri are really people that need to be together. That's why I wish that she would have never put him in her career as choosing records because she would never even [have] had to think about it. But I don't think she'll ever blame ... I don't think you should ever blame your mate. I think he did the best he could do."
I would have never chosen Keri to work with her in any capacity creatively; he would never have been my choice. No one else has made him a choice. You know he worked with Mint Condition. They no longer have a record deal. So he's not a guy that you would choose to go to work with in the studio. He may be the kind of guy you choose to work with in some administrative capacity; keep track of the bills or something; but not to be creative. He doesn't have it like that." Reply to this
11/16/2008 3:48 AM
headalettuce wrote:
MInt condition has their own label Caged Bird records. This way they can record rock/jazz/soul...anything their minds permit, and Keri Lewis left the group to produce independently, thinking he caught a big "fish" with Toni Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:15 PM
anon2 wrote:
PART III: Hankerson states he and Braxton's relationship began to sour during her last record with Blackground, the "Libra" album. "...we had a very, very difficult time working with her because the first record she turned in to us was majorly done by her and her husband -- about 7 or 8 songs. We turned it in to Universal and they ... told us they wouldn't even put it out. We sent it to our international partners and they called her themselves and said they '...couldn't put that record out.' They heard no records on it. So we had a hard time. Her husband was very desperately trying to be on the record and do a lot of work on the record... That was the only time Toni and I started to have any problems in the relationship."
"I think she blamed me because there was really no one else to blame. When you look at the albums ... Toni had made a decision in her life to include her husband in the production of her music. And if you read the back of her latest album, he was very involved. He was ... involved in the three prior albums until the "Libra" album that she did with us. Keri is a nice guy; a very nice guy; but not a record guy." Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:35 PM
CoCoDeluxe wrote:
OFF TOPIC: Does anyone know anything more regarding the suicide of the Paula Abdul fan?
**scoots closer to insiders and listens real hard**
My co-worker was hinting at me that maybe the woman was more than just an obsessed fan, like their was a friendship/relationship there. I dunno. I've never heard rumors of PA being bi/gay. Just curious. Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:32 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Now, I don't know about Paula Abdul being gay but I do know that she gave Corey a run for his money when it came to his landing a career in the music industry. Yes, she was parading him around as if he was the latest in couture fashion along Rodeo drive. Yes, she was giving him an allowance. Yes, she was having him lodging in one of her homes as a cutty buddy for a singing career. Yes, she knew the rules about having personal relationships with contestants but she wanted to see if she could push the envelop by passing herself off as his "mentor" (for the sake of having a personal relationship with him) until it was brought to her attention as an ultimatum in which she saved face by having his past brought to light to spare her career/image and further tarnish his. Although her career/image was in check, it cost her another fiance'....STRAIGHT UP! Reply to this
11/14/2008 7:43 PM
chebella wrote:
Ruh-Roh Dame is broke _______________________________
A bank wants his Tribeca condos, the city is seizing his SUV and his lawyer dropped him for not paying his legal bills.
It's not easy being Damon Dash, has-been hip-hop mogul.
The co-founder of Roc-A-Fella Records and Rocawear - who in 2005 sold his share in the clothing empire to Jay-Z for $20 million - is under assault in Manhattan Supreme Court from lawyers, lenders and landlords fed up with not getting paid.
The fall has been a dizzying one for Dash, who has gone from owning Keds, a vodka company and 1,300 pairs of shoes to dodging bills and accusing a former accountant of ripping him off for millions of dollars.
"I've worked with musicians, artists and entertainers that in the eyes of the media are very wealthy," said lawyer Jason Gabbard, who represented a fashion firm that settled a suit against Dash and his wife over $148,505 in unpaid fees. "But to borrow a phrase from my Kentucky homeland, they haven't got a pot to p--- in - they're broke."
A Manhattan judge this week ordered the city to seize Dash's Chevrolet Tahoe, since he wasn't making the $714.99 monthly payment on the leased SUV.
That October suit came on the heels of one in August, when Eastern Savings Bank foreclosed on the $7.3 million mortgage for two trendy Tribeca condos where the monthly $78,504.26 bill went unpaid for months.
Dash faces an outstanding $2.1 million tab with the New York State Department of Taxation and Finance, a $4,500 bill from the state for not paying workers' comp and a suit that says he stiffed the law firm that handled his child-custody case.
Dash even got dumped by another firm representing him in a $3.5 million suit against accountant-to-the-stars Barry Klarberg, who is accused of bungling his tax returns, costing him millions.
"The suit is meritorious and we wish him well with it," said Harry Lipman of Rottenberg Lipman Rich.
Dash's descent into an MC Hammer-like financial abyss is a far cry from 2006, when he boasted about his butler and chef in New York magazine and said he was worth "about $50 million."
Dash, 37, did not respond to interview requests. Spokeswoman Amanda Silverman said in e-mails Dash "won all of his lawsuits."
The record proves otherwise.
Court records show Dash settled two suits accusing him of not paying rent on two Manhattan offices, as well as suits charging he owed big bucks to fashion designer Charlotte Ronson, the fashion firm Showroom Seven and a security company that guards celebs.
"Quite simply, he got behind on his payments and it was necessary to go after him legally," said Mike Zimet, whose Bronx security firm sued Dash in 2005 over an $86,547 tab. "If you do the work, you want to get paid for it." Reply to this
11/14/2008 8:12 PM
i1da wrote:
Well ... it looks like Hilary Clinton is finally going to become Secretary of State. I commend Obama for putting together an all star cabinet all working for his vision. I think that Obama should also consider putting McCain to work in some way. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:43 AM
Lobbyist wrote:
If HRC gets the spot, this is how politics is played on the hill. Politics are a dirty business not to be taken personally. Hope you were joking about McCain. HRC and Mc are not in the same category and Mc is a Republican. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:16 AM
Trinity wrote:
morning friend. Obama is a very smart man. He's already recruited most of the Clinton's financial team not to mention Vernon...why would he not give her an appointment....not dirty politics smart politics Reply to this
11/16/2008 5:27 PM
LovelyMonAmi wrote:
I respectly disagree, HRC is a good strategic move, but in my humble opinion, not to be trusted. She was a sore loser and never really rallied behind Obama once she lost.
If giving her the post keeps her off of the 2012 ticket from running against Obama, I agree that making HRC the Secretary of State is a smart move.
But, I believe she woud be a potentially loose cannon as SOS who would go off message and try to do her own thing, as is she were really president. HRC was running things or trying to when Bill was president. As Obama's Secretary of State, she would try and run things then as well. Reply to this
11/15/2008 6:29 PM
i1da wrote:
No, I was not joking. I had made that suggestion to my husband right after the election. I think that it would do something, getting everyone that opposed him to align and work with him, in as high a profile as possible. That will do two things; first, it will solidify the independent and centralists who would like balance, and governing from the middle. Second, it will make it more difficult for the Republicans to oppose him in 2012. Based on polls Democrates and Independents think that Obama will handle all of the issues facing the President Elect well, the only voter block that does not think the Obama will handle the presidential issues well are Republicans, specifically extreme right wing Palin types. If PE Obama keeps those numbers it will make it very difficult for the Republicans to challenge him. Reply to this
11/15/2008 6:39 PM
i1da wrote:
Isn't this what the government did to The Black Panthers and other similar organizations? Divide and conquer. PE Obama needs to divide the Repub party. Actually, the Repub party is already divided; all he has to do is capitalize on it. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:19 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
I had time to surf the net today and since I was curious about poss Sec of Defense choices from PE Obama, I read a few articles. Some of the articles are saying Republican Chuck Hagel, who is a friend of Joe Biden,is one of the leading choices. There's also talks about Colin Powell, not sure if he's interested. But, one of the stories is saying go across party lines not to divide and conquer but to be a uniter. Lot of theories out there so we may have to wait a bit longer on this one.
Good chatting with you! catch you later. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:03 PM
i1da wrote:
Yes, but by uniting you also conquer. If I have two opponents who are allies and I am able to make one of my opponents my ally we have united and found common ground, but also my remaining opponent is much weaker ... or divided. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:21 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
I see where you're at with your thought, I just saw it as two realizing the things they wanted to accomplish could better be done through unification especially since there is a shift in power. You get what you need done regardless of party affliation becomes a win-win for me. Do you have any thoughts re: Sec of Defense selections? Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:46 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Now adding the Clinton staff is a good move. However, McCain would not be one. Besides, McCain is assisting, the South's, Saxby Chambliss for his run for the senate office which means that he is all for what Bush was pushing all the while and would be totally against what Obama is for. Now, McCain had talked with Obama about reconciling political differences recently for a position with the staff but I gather that was a no go with Obama because of the aforementioned move that he has done to team with Chambliss moreso than Martin who is pro-Obama. Reply to this
11/14/2008 9:37 PMhunchie wrote:
Good evening! I hope everyone had a good week. Female celebrity and her cheating husband: Mary J Blige and Kendu Female rapper: ???? Reply to this
11/14/2008 10:49 PM
secycutie wrote:
No sympathy for Dame after he was dissing Kevin Lyles on that rap documentary I saw. You reap what you sow. Reply to this
11/14/2008 11:25 PM
NicoleGermain wrote:
Hello All!!! I've been busy w/a new job. So now I'm runnin' the biz and working with at-risk youth...I love it. I'm going to side with the majority.....But, what if Mary doesn't have a problem with it?????? I also agree with everyone on the latter. Salt's husband has always looked like he lives a double life. His aura speaks volumes... Anywhoo, please be easy and try not to get any on ya!!!Peace. Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:21 AM
prettyfaceAKA wrote:
Whatttt...Dame Dash is broke...I heard there were problems...but not broke...Well get ready world for one helluva tell all book...he bout to put all Jigga's business on blast...so that he can recoup his paper...he bout to tell some shyt that will make Supahead look like a fool...that's what people do nowadays...they get on some tell all shyt when they money is funny...Jigga betta cut that ole boy a loan fast...keep his mouth shut...and what's this shyt bout NeNe Leakes being evicted...Whatttttttttttt ? and renting the house for the show...I hate fake ballin...I hate that shyt worse than Jesus hate sin...when muhfukkas sit up and brag about shyt they got, they don't have it...because true ballers to the game will never let you know what they got for fear you'll ask them for some...real talk... Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:42 AM
Ms.P-Dyse wrote:
"for fear you'll ask them for some...real talk..."... true ....or fear that you'll try to rob them for it... I don't have a lot, but I have more then a lot of people I know...even with a family...but I don't flaunt it because you put yourself at risk, I give to those in need... but that's about it...but yeah Jay betta watch out...and if he dont help Dame, Bey betta is she dont want to be embarrased.... Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:39 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
you and the above poster are so rigth. People,including family, upon either knowing or believing that you have accumulated some degree of success/wealth will try to ride you if you let them...and you know that since Beyonce' is with Jay, she will be obligated to stand in if he doesn't to save face. Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:05 PM
Teina wrote:
I can see it now, Damom Dash's Truth on JayZ, Aaliyah, (maybe even throw soon to be ex-wife Rachel under the bus as well, why not?) etc. I think it would be a tacky, last resort financial decision for Dash, but has the potential to make a very interesting (and lucrative) tell-all! I wouldn't be surprised if Dash were paid handsomely not to write such a book. But would he be paid enough to address his current financial situation? Who knows? Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:40 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
I am with you;however, I really don't believe that for the most people will be inerested in his financial demise/turmoil as they would be interested in what he knows about certain celebrities especially the ones you mentioned. Tacky yes, lucrative, you bet. To keep him quiet about it...priceless. Reply to this
11/16/2008 2:14 AM
Fashionista wrote:
Dame is gonna keep his mouth shut if he has any sense. I remember when he was moving out of the Rocafella offices..this fool took the sinks and doorknobs from the office. What kind of tragic ig'nant ish is that? Mad because he had no choice but to sell to Jay. He was blowing all the company money on personal items/projects, signing low level "talent" to the label ( I know people will disagree, but the Pink Panther Dipset Crew was straight garbage to me), and the good talent he signed he didn't know what the hell to do with them (Kanye). He was loud, unprofessional and boorish. He's been having money issues for a looooong while. All that flossing he was doing for the past few years was on other peoples $$ including Rachel's. At least he was resourceful enough to marry a smart woman with a career, though he cheats on her like crazy and every time you see them together he looks like he wants to be anywhere else. Reply to this
11/16/2008 1:55 PM
cutemama007 wrote:
ill co-sign... its really sad when you have to fake and put on the show for people you dont even know. i know people in my own circle like this and its sickening. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:41 AM
After Dark Crew wrote:
Damon Dash got a home foreclosed in Europe that didn't receive much ink over here. Start the clocks ticking, Rachel won't be staying around too much longer because I know she wasn't just staying around for the sex since Dame is impotent most of the time and he goes in uncontrolled rages, he likes beating women with his fists and objects.
This is so true, the illusion of wealth and the fronting and flossing in the hip hop industry is crazy: I've worked with musicians, artists and entertainers that in the eyes of the media are very wealthy," said lawyer Jason Gabbard, who represented a fashion firm that settled a suit against Dash and his wife over $148,505 in unpaid fees. "But to borrow a phrase from my Kentucky homeland, they haven't got a pot to p--- in - they're broke." Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:35 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Rachel will be gone for long. Any word on what went on with him in regards to his son, Dash Jr.? Wonder how the mother is taking all this..assuming that she did not get incarcerated. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:09 AM
After Dark Crew wrote:
Dame used to pistol whip the mother of Dash, Jr. but he got custody which was amazing. He was taking boogie, the boy's nickname to clubs and the boy did a show and tell in front of his classmates with a bag of marijuana he stole from his dad's stash. Kidada set Aalyiah up with Dash before she died. Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:04 PM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
Wel J or B better start paying up b/c word on the street is that J has the "gift", by virtue of his rel w/LJ. It's rumored that Bey has it also... Now, that is only some of the disturbing facts that may be uncovered... What about the child that Free denies is his, and the child that is his splitting image? That story disappeared QUICK, wonder how much will Dame charge to Keep quiet? Did J really try to take AAliyah from Dame? Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:32 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Now if J has the "gift" that keeps on giving by way of Larry then I wouldn't doubt if Beyonce' has it. I didn't know that Free actually had the child and as far as his son with the West Indian/Carribean woman, I thought that was interesting how that was no longer discussed. I must admit that the child does resemble him although an attractive version. Now, it appeared via cuddle/canoodling photos that Aaliyah had something going on with Jay prior to getting involved with Dame. I found it interesting that Kedada even introduced the two as AfterDark had pointed considering Dame's volatile behaviour. I mean, pistol whipping your eldest child's mother?! I wouldn't doubt that he was somewhat abusive towards Aaliyah during their courtship as Mr. Kelly was in his "she got that vibe" days. My cousin, who was a neighbor of his prior to the money really starting pouring in from the public announcement era said that, and I do believe a poster commented on it once before as far as confirmation, that Mr. Kelly use to yell/curse at Aaliyah over things that were just simply human to err. I gather that she was a victim of abuse. Maybe she was literally telling on Dame in a song that she had out called "I refuse" as well as another song in which she had a lyric that went something along the lines of "when you twist back my arm, that was the straw that broke the back". Just saying. Perhaps, I'm reading too much into it but it does makes me go hmmmm. Your thoughts.. Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:46 PM
Ms.Toson wrote:
The other song to the lyrics that I stated, was to "Never No More"..just came to me. Reply to this
11/15/2008 2:53 PM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
I Remember at one point people calling in WW"s show to say that J was up at the hospital, that Free had jus given birth to a boy and that it was J's... Then a story came out that it was TyTy's baby and not Free.. I do believe that J and Aaliyah were involved, and I hear from very credible sources that Bey is J's "beard".. Why would J get upset at LJ for appearing in Fanny's video? IDK, but I think a lot of #$#^% is about to hit the fan.... Reply to this
11/16/2008 9:40 AMalycia wrote:
I remember Free getting really big and pregnant looking, and it was denied. Then all of a sudden she was thin. I thought that she didn't have the baby--I suspected a late term abortion. And that when Beyonce came on BET she was very cold to Free backstage. So she did have the baby? ANd were the rumors about Jay and Rhianna true? So much dirt... Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:12 PM
Teina wrote:
I was thinking the same exact thing about Rachel, she'll be gone sooner rather than later, unless she sticks around to gather more details for her own future tell-all. SMH I'm writing a tell-all too, The Prostitute that Wasn't. Reply to this
11/15/2008 4:18 PM
work4shoes wrote:
Rachel and Dame recently signed a 4 billion joint deal with Jones NY. Where they'd be profiting by at least 25%. I guess they weren't profiting. I think Rachel is talented and though I don't care too for her personal style some of her pieces are adorable yet overpriced.Not to mention its sold in all the high end department stores and the NY socialites and "regular girls" Love it!! Rachel is nice and Dame has a good understanding of the fashion business its a pitty they're going through this. SMH!
Wasn't Dame part owner of the Club Dirty Disco?? That too closed down earlier this year!!! + Reply to this
11/15/2008 5:27 PM
Teina wrote:
Was it a $4B deal???? Scratch that, the working title of my future tell-all is The Designer Who Wasn't. Reply to this
11/15/2008 6:26 PM
work4shoes wrote:
I apologized for the above mis info. Jones NY is worth about 4 billion. A deal was signed sometime this year btwn Rachel and Jones where Jones would get 50% of the profit leaving Rachel, Dame and there other investors/partners to split the remaining 50. Reply to this
11/16/2008 5:12 PM
Lil e Lunchhead wrote:
Thought I remembered an article about this and Jones of NY stated that was very far from the truth; regarding the $4bill with Lame Dame. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:45 AM
Trinity wrote:
OT: watching the news this morning. I knew the current administration was lacking on the intellect but man - I really believe they have no ideal the impact of the big 3 going under. They must think that this will just effect Detroit...will someone please tap Bush & let him know what effect this would have on the world, oh snap I forgot he don't have anybody around to let him know....whew! January can't come any faster Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:54 AM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Morning cousin!Very mixed emotions re:this very situation. One of my parents retired from 1 of the big 3. I know in the past there haven't been many incentives for them to do better/more with fuel reduction or alternative fuel usage but they have got to do something more to be more competitive and they have to build better products. This is a mess girlfriend, a real mess. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:06 AM
Trinity wrote:
hey eye, morning - this situation amazes me. I can understand everyday people not understanding the gravity of this like mr clueless writer in San Fran who wrote that article "Detroit must Die" but when the most powerful man on earth does not have a clue....smh Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:25 AM
eyeonu2 wrote:
I think 1 of 2 things...1) either someone will pull his coattails or 2) He's on his way out and will leave the biggest messes for PE Obama to resolve. A lot of people from service and suppliers & sales are tied to those 3 employers. Very serious implications and huge impacts! Reply to this
11/15/2008 1:35 PM
Teina wrote:
Eye, I totally agree with you. I'm torn about whether the auto industry should be saved b/c in the end it's always The Average Taxpayer who pays. However, on the flip side, you either pay now, or you pay later. So if the industry isn't saved, there still will be ruinous consequences for lots of folk working in the industry and a trickle down to impact many non-industry innocents. It's a mess, but when will the dominoes effect end? Who are they going to bail out next, rap moguls gone wrong? I didn't think so. It's not a secret, the auto industry has been on a very fast downward spiral for at least the past 20 years while the auto industry execs made out like fat cats, and still do. Who gets huge bonuses for continued sales declines, poor quality, and lack of creativity and competitive spirit? Sadly, too many. Sometimes you just have to watch the train wreck and deal with the aftermath. Maybe some dire "consequences" around here will cause other industries to get it together to avoid faiure. A no-more-bailouts stance might be sobering and effective. I don't know, it's a tough call. Reply to this
WASHINGTON (Nov. 14) - Threats against a new president historically spike right after an election, but from Maine to Idaho law enforcement officials are seeing more against Barack Obama than ever before. The Secret Service would not comment or provide the number of cases they are investigating. But since the Nov. 4 election, law enforcement officials have seen more potentially threatening writings, Internet postings and other activity directed at Obama than has been seen with any past president-elect, said officials aware of the situation who spoke on condition of anonymity because the issue of a president's security is so sensitive. Protecting the Next President
Pablo Martinez Monsivais, AP7 photos Authorities have seen more potentially threatening writings, Internet postings and other activity against Barack Obama than any other previous president-elect, officials aware of the situation said. Here, Obama is accompanied by Secret Service agents as he heads to his vehicle in Chicago, Nov. 7. (Note: Please disable your pop-up blocker) Also See: Racist Reactions | Code Names Revealed Earlier this week, the Secret Service looked into the case of a sign posted on a tree in Vay, Idaho, with Obama's name and the offer of a "free public hanging." In North Carolina, civil rights officials complained of threatening racist graffiti targeting Obama found in a tunnel near the North Carolina State University campus. And in a Maine convenience store, an Associated Press reporter saw a sign inviting customers to join a betting pool on when Obama might fall victim to an assassin. The sign solicited $1 entries into "The Osama Obama Shotgun Pool," saying the money would go to the person picking the date closest to when Obama was attacked. "Let's hope we have a winner," said the sign, since taken down. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:30 AM
Ms.Toson wrote:
Now that is outright sickening. I don't know which is the worst...a hate hate crime in the works or one with executed. Recent report that a young African man was attacked by a small group of caucasians who were purportedly screaming "Obama" during the assault in New York. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:27 AM
ItIsWhatItIs ~iREP NAIJA~ wrote:
Good morning Eye, ADC, Trinity, Sekci, Lobbyist, and the rest of the PR fam! Reply to this
I'm bothered with the fact that these are kids (white kids) shooting at the Obama cardboard with BB guns. I don't consider this to be child's play and obvious this goes to show what their parents are saying in their household. Even more disturbing are the poster comments egging them on. I have already flagged the video as a complaint to youtube as a display of hate and violence. This video can be very influential to kids and adults a like who may only need a visual to make them feel more encouraged to make an act like this a reality.
Please go over there to report this video and have it pulled off of youtube. Reply to this
This video is one of many on youtube, but I found this one was discussed heavily on white sepremacist forums. This trend has now become a typical mob mentality, in which people who maybe unlikely to act out in such manner are carrying out or encouraging these acts. It just seems like this post election time is beginning to bring out the ugly side of whites in America. Even the ones considering themselves the most liberal and racially concious of the bunch. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:41 AM
Sharon wrote:
Since there is a spike in threats and hate against Prez Elect Obama, then I feel it is our opportunity and responsibility to our new elected and to our nation to keep our eyes and ears open and report any kind of threat to him and his family. It's our duty to do so and put the activity out there that this is happening and we should target it. Put a shame on the people who are doing this. So far I haven't encountered anyone here in Chicago who is against Obama (this is Obama's headquarter) but best believe I will report to officials in a heart beat if I hear any kind of threat against him and his family. Reply to this
11/15/2008 12:22 PM
ZphiB1920 wrote:
LOS ANGELES – The Los Angeles city attorney has charged Don Cornelius, former host of "Soul Train," in connection with two domestic incidents involving his wife last month.
Cornelius was charged with spousal battery, assault with a deadly weapon and dissuading a witness from making a police report, all misdemeanors, city attorney spokesman Frank Mateljan said Friday.
The married 72-year-old producer was taken to jail last month after police were called to his Hollywood Hills home following a report of domestic dispute.
Cornelius was released on $50,000 bail. He could face up to one year in prison for each of the five misdemeanor charges. Reply to this
11/15/2008 12:36 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Good Afternoon PR Family Paging Nubian, MindSupreme, & Lit...I need you guys brainpower. I'm doing a brain teaser...It's a real douzy ...I just did my fisrt Suduko yesterday. It took me about 3 hours to figure that thing out!!! I have tried and tried...I'm truly stumped??? Reply to this
11/15/2008 3:07 PM
ItIsWhatItIs ~iREP NAIJA~ wrote:
Hey SheKnows! Don't feel bad. You should see my book with all the holes from erasing too much. Reply to this
11/15/2008 3:33 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Hey Itis I love a challenge, sometimes. I'm a game & movie fanatic. I see it's quiet in here. I just got back from having dinner in Indiana with my hubby. So, I came in and logged on to see if anyone was on...Well,it seems like everyone is off. So, I'll check back in later. I gotta find something to get in to. Later! Reply to this
11/15/2008 2:01 PM
Renee wrote:
Hi! I am a long time lurker and reading this board is a guilty pleasure.
In regards Obama, I truely think that some of these conservative talk shows need to be reported. I live in Pittsburgh, Allegheny county, Western Pennsylvania the area that Obama said "they cling to there bibles and guns". You would not believe some of the trash that comes through our airwaves. Reply to this
11/15/2008 3:02 PM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
Pimpin,pimpin,PAMPAN!!!! I was hoping this was not true, but after his alleged behavior at the BET awards, it might have been an indication that he may be on something!! At BET someone called the "union" on him-and he allegedly claimed his family (or something to that effect) called the "FEDS"on him or the "FEDS" are watching him!... IDK I hope all turns well, because he IS funny... Reply to this
11/15/2008 3:06 PM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
Good Evening everyone!!! All the regulars, and the newbies!!!(such as me!) Reply to this
11/15/2008 3:26 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Honestly, I never really cared for "his" brand of humor and cooning anyways DL is another one that I could run over mulitiple times Chris Rock is funny, no doubt. However, his choice of material is questionable too I really wish that some of our Black men would stop embracing this pimp culture. What's mind-boggling to me, is that some of them that are the most compliant...have daughters??? It's time to let all of that negativity and buffoonery go...I'm sick of undeserved fame...It bothers me when people who are promoting self-hatred,degradation of Black woman, and glorify ignorance are give a platform. Reply to this
If you remember I have said on here many times that a black man being a pimp is just like the white slave owners masters was back in the slavery days. And it sickens me because to have women out there working is like the slaves out there in the fields working. And they would think nothing of beating or killing those women as they put it get out of line or try to leave "escape"
Pimps calling they're women "B*i*t*c*h is like the slaves being called a gal,boy or the n-word. She calling him "daddy" is like when slaves had to say master
I will never understand how and why the black men who do embrace or glorify this pimp culture either. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:11 PM
Trinity wrote:
errrythang ok SheKnows? I think I got bail money but we may need to posse up if you keep talking bout running people over....lol Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:35 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Hey Trinity Yeah Girl everything is alright,LOL... That's a joke that my family has been saying for years about dummies. When people do stupid stuff, we say "we should run them over, and back up and do it again".
Trinity, I seen my boy friend Marvin Sapp in Ebony magazine, with his family. He has a beautiful house, and I finally got to see his wife. They seem really happy and compliment each other...It's a beautiful thing♥ Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:16 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Oh okay Trinity I didn't know what you were talking about. But, so far I haven't heard anything negative about him. I was hoping you had, because I know you're from Detroit too. Well, that's a good thing maybe he's one of the good ones. Reply to this
11/15/2008 3:08 PM
CoCoDeluxe wrote:
OFF TOPIC: Katt Williams checked into a mental hospital? Didn't I say a few threads ago something was OFF about him? I think he has MORE than just the 'little man syndrome' jumping off.
**scoots real close to insiders and listens real hard** Reply to this
11/15/2008 3:41 PM
Kay wrote:
Maybe he decided to check in a mental hospital to avoid catching a case. Didn't Lindsey Lohan and Nicole Richie check into rehab to avoid being charged with drug possession? Katt Williams know what he's doing. Reply to this
11/15/2008 5:54 PM
mama_of_one wrote:
She Knows: I usually lurk but I agree with about DL Hughley's brand of humor. Have you caught his new show on CNN? Well as a blackperson who has been given a chance to reach out to a massive audience, he has done nothing but contnue perpetrating foolishness and this is more painful in light of PE Obamas win. Man, I watched the firt show and almost kungfu-chopped my usually delightful TV set! Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:00 PM
Trinity wrote:
there you go.....LMAO...'a proud coon'...I peeped that bout dude awhile ago...there is another one, worst than him - use to be on BET comic - can't think of his name....lol Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:34 PM
Quagmire wrote:
I cannot stand him. I saw the commercial for the show when he has Dr. Drew on and the doctor says the word cantankerous. DL responds by saying he only has a GED and doesn't know what that means. You almost expected him to say, "oh massa you knows ise not smart, youse gone hafta use small words."
11/15/2008 10:25 PM
SheKnows wrote:
All money isn't good money. I don't care what a network is paying, you should have some standards. They are paying him to be a buffoon, and someone mentioned that there's nothing but white writers for the show...Now, what does that tell you? Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:00 PM
Teina wrote:
lol @ proud coon; I just had a vision of DL looking like a medium-sized racoon attempting to cross a country road in traffic, varmint head held high and proud, staring the oncoming cars down defiantly and haughtily like, I dare you to run me over. Roadkill. Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:07 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Hello mama of 1 No, I haven't watched it and probably won't. My hubby can't stand DL... I was through with him when he made fun of the Rutgers's women's bsaket ball team, after Don Imus made those racist & derogatory comments...Makes me wonder is DL on the DL Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:20 PM
SheKnows wrote:
I'm so sorry for the typos...Lately, I have been mispelling words left & right. I have got to slow down Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:13 PM
80'S BABY wrote:
OFF TOPIC: Maybe it's just me, but I think that Busta Rhymes is slowly creeping his way out the closet. First he's in a video with Freeky Zeekey, acting like they lovers or something, now he's on video kissing Q-Tip on stage. Now for someone who is supposed to be homophobic, he seems to be really comfortable in the company of another man, and doesn't mind showing affection, even when the cameras are rolling. Either this is the way he is with his male friends or he's using these videos to let us know that he's knocking on that closet door and wants to come out. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:18 PM
GFS aka Piscean Princess wrote:
Checking in and singing, "I'm single again back on the prowl...." That's right my perfect boyfriend failed to tell me that he had gotten someone else pregnant. She was pregnant before we met. He claims that he didn't find out about it until a month after we met but he didn't tell me because he was scared that he was going to lose me. Bull $hit. One of his waitress told me while she was taking my order. The Ghetto in me was about to clown but I just kept calm. Thank God for PR..the stress reliever. Back to singing....I'm single again.... Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:31 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Single ladies clap your hands...I'm living the single, single,single ...life. Love that song.
Keep your head up, sorry that you had to find out in the manner that you did, seems so callous to just give someones girlfriend that kind of info while taking their order. Lying by ommission is no less painful than lying by commission.Hope he does right by the child. Reply to this
I couldn't believe it when she told me. I had a friend with me and she had to kick me so that I wouldn't act a fool. When I talked to him about it he didn't see what he had done wrong. Blank Stare. This is a grown a$$ man that felt like him not telling me was ok. Huh??? So, I guess I was suppose to find out when she decides to take him to court for child support. Um No. Although the girl was wrong for telling me I left her a very generous tip. Reply to this
Eyeonu2-yes, her job is in jeopardy. The lady is set to deliever any day now. My ex (sounds funny) told me that he will get a DNA test but he is pretty sure the child is his. Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:53 PM
Angie B wrote:
Hi Priscean Princess. Sometimes things are revealed to us at an inopportune time but imagine how long it may have took the boyfriend to finally tell you. Personally, my father got my mother and another woman pregnant at the same time. He married the other woman but never told her about the other woman or baby. Fast forward 15 years later. My father takes me to his home to finally meet his family, wife, and my half-siblings. He never even had the guts to forewarn his wife. BAM! He introduces his long lost daughter who is 1 month older than the daughter he has with his wife. The look on the wife's face! I will never forget that look. I felt so sorry for her. She was in shock and looked like she was about to cry.
I guess that I'm trying to say that at least you found out. God Bless...... Reply to this
11/15/2008 7:59 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Oh my goodness- that had to be rough for you at 15 to be present for that! Hopefully you were able to have a peaceful relationship with your siblings. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:08 PM
Angie B wrote:
Oddly, I felt more sorry for the wife. I will tell you however - that one experience really stayed with me. I dealt with relationships and judged men (maybe sometimes unfairly) based on the sins of the father. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:11 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
It's true that some life experiences will shape us more so than others. I can imagine that you do use that and it probably has steered you toward a lower tolerance for BS. You sound like you were able to deal with it so good for you Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:22 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Ditto dear ditto!Sometimes a cyber ear works wonder. Thanks for sharing your story! GFS really needed to hear that one...Bet there are other lurkers who can relate as well. We ALL have stories to tell. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:06 PM
GFS aka Piscean Princess wrote:
Wow..thanks for sharing. I couldn't imagine how I would have felt. Are they still together?
I was glad that the waitress told me. She knew that I was his girlfriend and I think she asked to be my waitress. I'm sure that she was very happy with her tip. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:13 PM
Angie B wrote:
As far as I know, they were still together. I lost contact with that side of the family about a year after that. I guess my presence (or existence) may have been a strain on the marriage, LOL. Reply to this
As someone else pointed out, everyone has a story to tell and I feel for you. I hate deceit and I always ask someone to just not lie to me. He should have told you the whole situation because who knows, you may have understood? Having to find out from someone else is the worst and I would not wish that kind of heartache on anyone.
"This too shall pass..."
I always found music, a good cry and my friends as good healing, hopefully you have all that at your disposal. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:02 PM
atlprincess wrote:
Teina? No no no..lol I meant Chi as in the greatest flat iron ever made. I know Prissy uses one..lol -GFS: Now put your hands up! Glad that you kept your dignity. He is not deserving of you anyways. There is a guy out there that will respect you. -First time watching the show on BET...those guys can really sing. I pray they dont get "caught up."...lol. Shakir was such a great mentor from what I saw on the show and Ive even heard from people who worked with him (before Def Jam) that he's a good guy...wonder what happened? He wasn't intimidating at all like Puff --all the extra sh*t Puff does is for HIM and for a show. Not to make a group better. I mean Danity Kane? I wasn't impressed AT ALL. Day 26...the jury is still out on that one. It just appears Puff is not into his artists anymore. He needs to hand it over to someone that gives a da*n. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:43 PM
GFS aka Piscean Princess wrote:
Thanks, I know that I'm doing the right thing but its really hard. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:52 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Then that's probably a good sign. Usually hardest to do the right thing! Are you still looking for new employment? Reply to this
11/16/2008 3:48 PM
GFS aka Piscean Princess wrote:
Yes, I am still looking. I know what I want to do and I refuse to settle for a position that isn't going to help me reach my goal. I want to eventually get a Ph D; so, I hope that I can find a position that cuts down on my travel. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:45 PM
atlprincess wrote:
trust me-i know break ups are hard-especially when it's something so abrupt like this.it's best that you decided to walk away from it now than contemplate it and 3 years later you are in the same situation. Reply to this
11/16/2008 8:46 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
My fellow Piscean, we are very INTUITIVE, and sensitive- sometimes we have these "feelings" and due to their potential outcome, we may ignore them- then BAM! I was in a 2 yr relationship, we had a minor (in my mind) argument, and "stopped" speaking. 2 wks later, he moved a chic into his crib!(unbeknownst to me) Now, my Piscean intuition told me something was wrong, but I ignored it for 6 months..He HAD to be dating her while he was dating me, thus I was thinking it (the problem) was me (and I do hold some share of blame), but he was involved mentally with her and checked out on me... long story short- I finally started to realize, went to his crib thinking I did something wrong- to try to work it out.. and BAM he's laid up sleep with this chick bucked necked! And it was raining that day! Like Alicia Keys says "Yes, I was burned, but I call it a Lesson Learned!" It's a year later, and I still have flashbacks that bring lil revelations and I'm like wth was I thinking? The good news is after we parted, I graduated with honors from a very good university, I'm about to take my LSAT. At 29, things are FINALLY looking up for me. I could've done better earlier, BUT I IGNORED the intuition... But I know the feeling! Thank God you had someone to tell you, and you are TOO GOOD.... Reply to this
11/16/2008 8:58 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
@GFS:My fellow Piscean, we are very INTUITIVE, and sensitive- sometimes we have these "feelings" and due to their potential outcome, we may ignore them- then BAM! I was in a 2 yr relationship, we had a minor (in my mind) argument, and "stopped" speaking. 2 wks later, he moved a chic into his crib!(unbeknownst to me) Now, my Piscean intuition told me something was wrong, but I ignored it for 6 months..He HAD to be dating her while he was dating me, thus I was thinking it (the problem) was me (and I do hold some share of blame), but he was involved mentally with her and checked out on me... long story short- I finally started to realize, went to his crib thinking I did something wrong- to try to work it out.. and BAM he's laid up sleep with this chick bucked necked! And it was raining that day! Like Alicia Keys says "Yes, I was burned, but I call it a Lesson Learned!" It's a year later, and I still have flashbacks that bring lil revelations and I'm like wth was I thinking? The good news is after we parted, I graduated with honors from a very good university, I'm about to take my LSAT. At 29, things are FINALLY looking up for me. I could've done better earlier, BUT I IGNORED the intuition... But I know the feeling! Thank God you had someone to tell you, and you are TOO GOOD.... Reply to this
11/16/2008 3:56 PM
GFS aka Piscean Princess wrote:
You are so right! I kept having a dream that I was pregnant with a boy. Everytime I woke up I would be confused as hell because we hadn't slept together. Needless to say, I was extra careful when we were together. One day I asked him if he wanted a boy and he quickly said "NO, end of discussion." Red flags immediately went off. What man doesn't want a son? Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:20 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
O/T Nebraska law re: leaving any aged child at a hospital- aka legalized abanondment. Folks have left children as old as 18 years old. Being a parent isn't easy but what does this say for society and the willingness to put in the extra work needed to rear children. One lady drove from Indiana and dropped her 8 year old son off at a Nebraska hosipatl because she didn't trust the Indiana child welfare system. Guess where he was returned to? Sad state of the world- really trying times.
I thank God my parents never abandoned me. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:31 PM
Angie B wrote:
Agreed. However, being a mother to a 16 year old hormonal son, I can't lie. The thought did cross my mind. I KID, I KID!!! LOL! Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:35 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
I have a handful plus away at school. I have been through the terrible twos and the trysome teens and thought I would be jailed- LOL but I had some praying parents who thankfully retired at the right time and we able to be oh so helpful so that I could maintain employment AND sanity! It's still a challenge we just have a few states seperating us-LOL Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:46 PM
Angie B wrote:
I hear you. I have another son at Lincoln Univ in PA. Went through some of the same teen stuff. Stayed on his butt HARD. Never dropped his tail off at the hospital but plenty of times, felt the urge. Prayer, perseverance and tears will get you through the challenge. Hell, nobody said it would be easy.
And I will also mention that the eldest son always thanks me for doing all those things he never understood then but appreciates now. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:51 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
Everynow and then I see a glimpse of seeing something I said or did paying off. Having just one is a different challenge and makes me think how many times people said have another because only children will drive you up a wall. Oh well we'll never know now Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:55 PM
i1da wrote:
Any parent who would do this needs to take a hard look in the mirror at the role they played in bringing that child to where they would not want the child ny longer. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:26 PM
Teina wrote:
Ok AtlP, I thought you were talking about these peculiar hairstyles I've seen on Chicago men where they grow long hair and keep it in ponytails or braids, and then wear it down on "special" occasions like weddings or out stepping. Well, Chicago is still country. Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:41 PM
atlprincess wrote:
haha...girl thats everywhere. you know its down here ...lol... *whispers..heard our boy is really sad about Shakir's death** Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:47 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
whispering too...hey APrincess. Who? Pshiddy? What good book are you reading these days? Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:30 PM
atlprincess wrote:
hey..I just cracked the book open..it's called "A Hope In the Unseen"...it chronicles a young man's journey from the rough streets of DC to his freshman year at college at Brown..... Reply to this
11/15/2008 8:53 PM
Teina wrote:
You're right,its down there too but that is the south! I'm 1 of those people who happen to like my south in the south, you know. Lol OK, they are in the same industry, but if he's that upset is it bc they are with the same label or were they like really good friends or something? I know you're on it girl! Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:15 PM
atlprincess wrote:
Teina...it's some things in the south that Im glad some people DONT see. Just today I saw this girl with finger waves in the front and a flip in the back--like my sister says "party in the front-business in the back" SMH. -hey eye! Yes Jeezy- Shakir was responsible for getting him that solo deal with Def Jam...you know before Def Jam.. he was signed w/ Bad Boy South (Boys In The Hood)--recorded one album and left. He had a plan anyways--he wasn't going to be a part of that group for long....glad the jumped the ship cause Diddy would have had him shelved...now Teina I was just at my friend's condo the other day--before we pulled up to the valet, Im looking all around for the Lambo....lol...guess Mr. Jenkins is not in town right now..lol Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:24 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
I do literally laugh out loud when you guys clown "her" about Jeezy. I hadn't heard that rumor til I read it here. I just hope he said no thanks I'll pass Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:34 PM
atlprincess wrote:
eye: I am TRULY hoping it's just a rumor. when it was told to me I just laughed--but you know when you laugh and then get that serious look like "did he?"..im REALLY hoping not but I keep wondering why she wont answer in the midst of her rants...lol..all of my friends think Im nuts but I like that guy Jeezy. Not the normal stature, occupation, ect that I prefer in a man but *shrugs*..something about his swag...they crack up when they get in my car and I have his music blasting..lol Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:11 PM
Teina wrote:
Hey eye, I thought atlp was referring to jeezy, I may be wrong, so I'll let her answer. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:23 PM
ItIsWhatItIs ~iREP NAIJA~ wrote:
GFS, hugs from a Leo to a Pisces. You deserve so much better famz. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:31 PM
Teina wrote:
Girly, i just spit out my coffee @ what your sis said! I'm on the darn floor. She's on point describing some of these busy hairstyles. If your sis isn't already commenting here, you should invite her to. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:38 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
I didn't know people still rocked fingerwaves- really.I am humbled by that disclosure. Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:41 PM
atlprincess wrote:
YES me too. Im baffled when I see people walking around with finger waves and french rolls. WTF? Reply to this
11/15/2008 9:48 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
I work with a sister that refuses to release the roll/bun. I am just confuddled but she's comfortable with the low maintenance involved. And she is in upper management and only early 40's. CANT.LET.IT.GO. I can't imagine being a hairdresser adnd having to produce these styles. I'd be afraid that my clientbase would be damaged-LOL Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:21 PM
SheKnows wrote:
LMAO!!! Girl, I saw a chick recently who looed to be about my age with a Gerri Curl I don't see how they do it...My hair HAS to be fierce Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:28 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
You are kidding me,a curl?She probably thought her hair was fierce!I didn't understand then and I damn sure wouldn't understand now. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:45 PM
SheKnows wrote:
I kid you not,LOL...It was in a bushy Gerri curl. Now, I can see an older person...When I go down south, a lot of older people still wear curls, and I've seen a few of them here. I never had a curl,LOL. All my siblings had one except me. I hated them,LOL...I must have my hair, lashes, and nails done to perfection. I don't get the lashes all the time, because my own lashes are real long. People often ask me are they mine ? Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:53 PM
SheKnows wrote:
When I get my nails done...I just get a regular set of tips with a nice light color; lilac, frosty gold, or fuschia. I don't get any nail art. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:00 PM
Teina wrote:
Eye & atlp, don't you guys get me started on these hairstyles. What about these folks wearing these way-to-much-hair straw curl wigs/weaves? Looking like a chia pet @ the head.
11/15/2008 10:14 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
I politely call them squirels. I have a relative who never gets it quite right. I just say she has a squirel on her head. Pray for me. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:01 PM
CAPO wrote:
This is Mary all day, every day. Mary is reaping what she sows. She was having sex with Carl Thomas when they did a tour and she knew he was married for years, she was also with Nas, Diddy and her Cuban brother-in-law, the guy married to her sister, that's why they don't speak anymore.
OT:
Allen Iverson has 3 kids with his wife and five with women (5) outside of his marriage. His wife looks the other way. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:16 PM
eyeonu2 wrote:
wow- 5 outside of the marriage, suppose he's not fond of contraceptives. Sad as hell. Reply to this
11/16/2008 8:59 AM
lavender wrote:
She should be ashamed of herself for sleeping with those married guys and her sister's husband at that?Hmmmm... wow,that's down right disgraceful!! I don't care if she was abused a million times that still don't give her the right to act a fool with her own sister's spouse.IMO, she is reaping what she has sown. Man, that is so messed up and Kendu is fixing to make a come up off of Mary's stupidity, insecurity or whatever you call it.SMH Reply to this
11/16/2008 3:45 PM
80'S BABY wrote:
I remember she tried to swear up and down that she wasn't sleeping with Carl Thomas. Now im starting to wonder if the rumors were true that she was once pregnant by D'Angelo. Also, you can add Treach, Charles Oakley, Case, the producer Malik Pendelton and possibly Method Man and Jay-Z to that list. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:15 PM
Teina wrote:
Wow AI, real nice. You guys were joking that he goes to the ghetto mall bc he likes hood girls, but I think he goes there bc after child support payments that's all he can afford. Somebody send his a wife a memo that she's missing out on the money and the honey. Reply to this
11/15/2008 10:30 PM
Teina wrote:
*praying* (this is for you to AI, but I know god helps those who help themselves, so wrap it up dude) Reply to this
11/15/2008 11:31 PM
SheKnows wrote:
Well I'm sleepy, so I'm out. Good night Trinity & Teina Looks like we're the only ones still here. I'll "see" you all tomorrow God willing. Later cousins Reply to this
11/16/2008 8:43 AM
prettyprincess wrote:
Good morning everyone . I hope that you all enjoyed weekend.
GFS, girl believe me when I tell you that this was a blessing in disguise for you. When me and my ex broke up earlier this year I felt that he was cheating on me and I was right and I also found out that some girl that he was so-called dating before me was pregnant as well. I was very hurt when found out and it took a while for me to get over it but I refuse to be with anyone that does not respect me ane he showed that. He as well as acting like dumb ass and that it was not a big deal and I can't have that and I bounced. Since we have mutual friends I ran into him about 2 months ago and he looks like s***. He's not happy and now he's about to be a father and he's realized that the grass is not always greener on the other side. He's not my problem anymore. You don't need the drama and you deserve better. Someone good will come along and treat you the way that you are supposed to be treated .
11/16/2008 9:15 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
Good morning guys! I agree.. (see my post above) Although we don't need the stress or the heartache it still HURTS to get over... Why does it seem as if "the grass is greener on the other side syndrome" is so common nowadays? He (my ex) has attempted several times to initiate dialogue through email, txt, calling from pvt numbers, attempting to have mutual friends contact me with info on him thinking I would call, sending flowers, etc. but HE did me a FAVOR! Now that he's with her all the way, he is trying to get me, to help him OUT of the situation HE made! He claims he left his 80% for a 20% ! Whatever that is... But again, I will just say it was" a lesson learned", and I'm still kinda traumatized. I still LOVE men, however I'm so cautious, I probably push away "good" guys... Reply to this
11/16/2008 9:24 AM
Beatrix Potta7 wrote:
Can someone explain the Tyler Perry 80%/20% logic to me? I was in the midst of a bad breakup, and I chose NOT to watch Why did I get Married? A mutual friend relayed this logic to me as she was attempting to "cop"a plea for my ex. Now I know I'm not sexually prude, but there were just some things I was NOT willing to do (at least with him/for him). But if anyone can explain the logic of that 80%-20% rationale it would greatly be appreciated!!! Thanks in advance!!! Reply to this
11/16/2008 9:12 AM
tryvelgyrl'stwin wrote:
GFS,I think to some degree we have all been in similiar circumstances.It's best to walk away.I was in a relationship few years ago with someone (the second time around with this idiot)and found out he was seeing someone else also.I found out by happenstance when she called my house.This went on for quite awhile with her saying how he talked against me and so forth.When I approached him with the situation he said he was with her for money(she's a widow)and other stupid sh**.I knew I had enough when she called talking her usual stuff(saying she was trying to be my friend,how his family never liked me so on and so forth) and I called another RUTHLESS ex of mine.I laid the story out to him and he said I;ll call you back if you still want me to handle it at that time I will.I did some mean praying after that call.When he did call back I told him to forget about it,it wasn't worth it.My cousin and her husband ran into them at the casino and said she looked like Pitiful Pearl,I wished they had called me so I could see for myself.Years later when I saw him he looked like hot hell,I think they have broken up.He was trying to plead his case saying that it was all a misunderstanding and that his family(mostly his mom (the so called psychic)never said those things.His grandmother(whom I actually adore and truly miss) kept smiling at me. I wondered what in the hell did I every see in him.So the tears do dry up.I think at that time I played the hell out of Chante Moore's post breakup CD and Janet Jacksonwith Carly Simon song.My younger cousin is also going through a bad breakup,but the difference is she alienated herself from friends.When she gets a man she dumps everybody for him.She was making wedding plans after the second date(did I fell to mention he's a friend of the family recently divorced and a notorious liar)So now that it's over she considering doing a travel assignment in search for a man Reply to this
11/16/2008 9:33 AM
Shoshanna Luc wrote:
BTW- I NEVER knew Wanda Sykes was gay. I swear I have zero "gaydar". I know her earlier stand up made mention of a husband?
I watch the "L" word and I know lesbians have issues too but why do they seem so much happier without a man? I am jealous. Reply to this
11/16/2008 10:44 AM
Trinity wrote:
boo boo, if you didn't know Wanda was gay your gaydar is not zero - it's minus 10....LOL! Reply to this
11/16/2008 10:54 AM
Shoshanna Luc wrote:
I know I know...sad. I like her more now that I know she has always been honest, I just never listened. Reply to this
11/16/2008 11:06 AM
Trinity wrote:
now you know i had to mess with you on that one....
go lions! I know we can do it - 0 & 16 Reply to this
11/16/2008 11:49 AM
Trinity wrote:
The lions messing up right now - we're winning....lol...they going to blow that o & 16 man Reply to this
11/16/2008 4:04 PM
Hidoll wrote:
Wanda Sykes is funny as hell. When her show Wanda At Large was on and in a couple episodes she had a boyfriend it looked weird because it was like she was trying hard to pull of being a girly.
She's on a new show now and she was kissing a guy and I swear it just didn't come off like it was real she's just a little too tom boyish. But she's is funny as hell to me Reply to this
11/16/2008 11:58 AM
ItIsWhatItIs ~iREP NAIJA~ wrote:
Shoshanna, Imma get you some Energizer batteries for your gaydar for Xmas. Reply to this
11/16/2008 11:55 AM
Facepainter wrote:
I will be in Holland for Xmas and then Istanbul for the first 2 weeks of Jan. But I return no later than the 15th. Reply to this
11/16/2008 2:21 PM
SG77 wrote:
is there anyone here who has been on a tom joyner fantastic voyage OR knows someone who has? would you mind giving me any insight? i'm interested in the overall atmosphere and the general age groups present.
just researching vacation ideas for the upcoming year. Reply to this
With both CNN and MSNBC running specials on Jonestown I was curious to see what you thought of the specials.If you happened to catch one or both of them. Reply to this
11/16/2008 4:41 PM
mama_of_one wrote:
@Karamelba i saw the the Jonestown special on CNN with Soledad O'Brien it was pretty good. it is a firsthand tale as told by eight survivors of the tragedy. It's really gripping and makes you you look at some preachers out there very closely. Reply to this
Where is it?
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Myra? Are you teasing us? LOL!!!
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Wooohooo. New BI is up!
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She's a black female celebrity and she's the breadwinner. Like many other "kept" celebrity husbands, he appears to be devoted to her.
Sadly to say, when she was recently out of town in regard to her career. Hubby was at the strip club living it up!
His thing is cuddling with his favorite stripper while he watches girl/girl action on the stage. He was also making it rain with his wife's money.
After the show, the stage was covered with a pile of hundred dollar bills (in the thousands).
He then left to go upstairs (VIP lounge) with his favorite stripper, on the way up, he ordered bottles of Dom.
He walked in the lounge to find the husband of a female rapper (trio) experiencing a lap dance.
They exchanged greetings and our wayward husband had his favorite girl do a partial strip tease for him. Afterwards, she gave him a lap dance, he then tried to dry hump her on the couch. She playfully stopped him. They left together and went to a nearby hotel.
The tab for the entire evening (totaling in the thousands) was funded by his wife (unbeknownst to her).
Who is the celebrity female and her straying husband? Who is the female rapper (trio) whose husband is also cheating on her?
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Yes,Ok.Mary J for the famous woman.And Salt's husband
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Kelolo, you read my mind. Those are my guesses too.
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Ding Ding Ding!!Yall are both right. I was like O WOW @ Salt's hubby, but not surprised at Cant du. I so wish that Mary would wake up and get a clue. She is being used and played, again. Po thang
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lol @ Cant du
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Cant du...so true...lol
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I agree with Kendu and Salt's husband. There's only one rap female trio that I know about so it's the logical answer. And we just discussed Kendu the other day...
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I think you are right. I remember Salt's husband staying up late with pepa gambling on one of their sitcom episodes. I can see him doing this.
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Pep introduced Cheryl (Salt) to her husband, they knew each other first as friends. I got that tidbit of info from her book "Let's Talk About Pep"
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famous woman and bread winner is janet jackson...cuz jermain dupree has a favorite stripper reportedly supose to be pregnant and the one of the rap trio is salt of salt and pepper...
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Dang, this definitely sounds like the reason Mary jumped right back on tour. Kendu is truly a H.A.M. if this is him.
Gavin, Salt's husband, has to be the other one.
Hey, Sheknows, if you're still on!
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Hey Pookie
Hey Pretty
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Glad you did well on your exams...keep up the good work
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Thanks MsToson
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HI PR Family!!
I have a question off topic....
Is there anything going between Kelis & Dania Ramirez??
I just saw a pic of them arm in arm and I think I heard that Kelis and she might be an item.
Whats the word on that?
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HI PR Family!!
I have a question off topic....
Is there anything going between Kelis & Dania Ramirez??
I just saw a pic of them arm in arm and I think I heard that Kelis and she might be an item.
Whats the word on that?
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Kendu & Salt of Salt-n-Pepa?
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Damn,beat me to it by a mere damn minute!lol
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I said Kelolo's in the house!!! How are ya Lady?
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I'm good,luv!How are you 2nite?
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Sorry for the delay, got started late and having tech problems.
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Hey Myra
My guesses are Salt for the married rapper. I can't think of any other married female rapper.
The celebrity could be either Mary & Kendu...OR Toni Braxton & Kerri
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Indeed,Toni also fits, She
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Hey SheKnows,
Girl those are all of my guesses. Kendu and Kerri are the only kept men that come to my mind right now. And a married female rapper of a trio, not many female rapper trios out there.So I think you are on to something.
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Hey Blessed Baby!!!
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Hey Myra! That's ok..we still love ya! You know you have A LOT of ride or die ladies around these here boards we would have waited it out.
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So true...I was just about to lie down until I saw that she had posted it. Girl, we be waiting on Myra's BI's like it's feeding time at the Zoo,LOL!!
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Hey SheKnows.....love your genuine sweet posts....but you have not lied...for me it has become an interference!! Like it's first to my fiance', (second to my son) cooking dinner, watching TV, tending to my house....should I continue? I'm for real...it's become an illness...
*reaching for my PR pipe*
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Wow, i think i got this one... Mary J. Blige and Kendu....*happy dance*
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Will co sign on Salt..
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Kendu? Boris?
Salt's Husband?
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First guess is MJB and Kendu. PPl still dry hump? Which female rapper is married?
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lol @ people still dry hump!!!
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I'm just saying. These are not hs kids here. SMDH.
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Cosign w/Mary & Kendu and Cheryl 'Salt' Wray of SNP fame. I thought someone dropped the tidbit about Mary and her leeching husband on a previous thread.
Salt's husband looks a little 'soft' to me. IMO.
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Wow.....looks like we all honed in on the same people....I couldn't type fast enough....lol!!!
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gotta be one of the husbands from Salt-N-Pepa cuz I don't think anyone in JJ Fad got ever got married.
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I used to love me some JJ Fad, until somebody jacked me for my cassette tape!
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Damn, they got you too. The Reagan years brought crime & poverty.
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Hey Grace...NO that's funny! lmao!
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JJ Fad, 3-5-7 until 3-5-7 became JJ Fad and vice - versa...
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This is Kendu, Necole Betchie posted the email from one of her readers earlier today.
however, I think Mary knows and that's why she's popping pills.
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WOW! Co-sign with the guesses Kendu and Mr. Salt. How embarassing. No wonder Mary doesn't stop working.
This is 4 cd's worth of sad songs coming right up.
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And one of those is a double cd combo with extra bonus cuts on the second cd.
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I AM DONE WITH YOU! LOL
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and while you're at it, you might as well add Beyonce. Seventy (70) songs is a lot of yodelling.
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yodelling...LOL. U showed out!
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Now, I'm sitting at my desk picturing Beyonce' in a swiss miss outfit on the alps saying "yo de lay di hoo"..LOL
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Hey Ms. Toson! Just look at some of the photos from last week's World Music Awards.
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LOL!
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wow
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Ditto - Kendu and Salt's husband
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Hey Techno, I really enjoyed talking with you earlier. I love good conversation. We must do that again ♥ You can call me anytime !
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Same here. You are so full of positive energy, it just flows continuously like Niagra Falls..It was so cool. You are a delight to talk to!
Ditto on the call anytime!
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Thank you sweetie and so are you. I love intelligence, good conversation ,and a good sense of humor. I'm about to call it a night...One of my friend's that I grew up with, grandmother's funeral is tomorrow afternoon. She called me earlier, and asked was I coming.I'm like...You know I'll be there ♥
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Toni B or Mary
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I can't get the new page!!!!!!!!!! I've been refreshing for the last 15-20 minutes and I see keep getting the old page. Even logged off and came back and nothing. If I have to shut down I may not make it back. I read up top and I think it is either Gabriel Lathan or Sannai Union.
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Unt uh...I KNOW you're sleepy...cutting up and whining at the same time. SMH
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Nuh unnh!
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Girl, I'm sleepy too...remember it's an hour later here! I have to be bright eyed and bushy tailed in less than six hours.
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LMAO! @ Gabriel Lathan or Sannai Union.
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That's my go to answer.
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*hand Chi a drink* Girl it is up.....
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Just read it!!!!
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I'll go with either Mary J or Toni Braxton and Salt's husband. He seemed a little too friendly with Pepa when she stayed at their home. Salt also plays Ms Goody-Two shoes kinda hard.
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I'm still waiting on the front page. I still get the same page with ditty on it. I hope we don't crash the server...trying to load the front page webmaster is trying to load it at the same time on the server!
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Damn shame but yeah this sounds just like Mary J and Salts hubby. Mary J need to quit playing, go gourmet hood on him, hire a private detective, get it all on tape, pull those financials (cause i'm sure with his lame azz he's paying somebody's rent somewhere) and put the hammer down. Take notes from Christy Brinkley and crush em. As for Salt's husband, i'm not surprised. He looked bored all the time at the house. Give Pepa 2 packs of 22'inch super premium and some Fendi boots as a down payment, he'll be sleep in the Jersey shore by sunrise.
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I never understood why she cut everyone off for him . He never had a real job until her managed her career.Everytime she is being interviewed he looks like he's up to something . He's the sneaky type . The type that be on the phone telling his first BM everything about the marriage . Silly hoes always in silly situations . She marreid the biggest Groupie EVER!!!!GOSHHHHHH
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To Fashionista and NewBagNCoup~
Amen!
Kendu comes across as what some psych professionals term as suffering from delusional psychosis in which they create a world of granduer based on their previous or pending target's status and build as if is part of his/her own and causing near destruction or destruction of their victims whereas Salt's husband, Galvin, come across almost like Deshawn Snow's husband except he, Galvin, is NOT the check.
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I'm gonna go with Cheryl Salt? husband Gavin is the one in question. I watched The Salt and Pepa Show he seems the type when Sandi Pepa was staying at they're house he,Sandi and two other guys was downstairs playing cards and getting loud. Salt had to come downstairs twice to tell them to cool it not to mention she said to him "You just lose your mind when Sandi's over"
So I'm guessing that because she has found religion and doesn't have that wild side anymore he's plays the loving husband/father around her and the kids but when she's not looking his wild side comes out.
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I never seen a better "disciplined reality show watcher" then you . Salts husband did say that .LOLOLOLOLOLOL. I never picked up on that line ...
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I watched that show too! And did you peep how hard he was staring at that nude painting of Sandy when she came to live with them for a little while? I remember thinking right then that that may end up being a problem, and that he definitely has a wild side--I thought about that when he was, as you mentioned, playing a loud game of cards with Sandy and the guys. I wondered would she be down to sleep with him if she got just tipsy (not drunk) enough to do so. Hmmmm...
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Hey Alycia, longtime how you doing?
Yeah he was eye balling that nude panting of her like he wanted to attack it. It was so disrespectful of Sandi to bring that big azz nude painting of herself around Cheryl's family. She had wore out her welcome before she got in the house good with bringing that nude painting, her doggie, leaving and staying longer then she should knowing her daughter had music lessons, then she"forgets" her cellphone, staying up late into the night with Cheryl's husband and those two other guys all loud waking up the house. She'd been out of my house the moment she kept putting that nude painting around where my hubby,kids and church family could see it.
I don't put anything past Pep if she did get "drunk" she's just the type who would get "tipsy or drunk" and make a past or allow a past to be made at her then claim " oh I was drunk" "I must to had too much too drink and I didn't know what I was doing"
I mean Sandy "Pepa" does have some pinned up anger at Salt for just leaving the group so Sandy getting "drunk" and messing with her husband or doing anything else that would make Cheryl upset is something she just might do
Oh Alycia the reason I keep using "" when I say drunk is because I think whenever someone have too much to drink and start saying or doing things and saying things that cause trouble I say that's that persons true feelings/self coming out. And "drunk" is a excuse cause if they say they were "drunk" it erases or don't count what they said or did.
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Hey, Hidoll and fam:
I lurk everyday and post when I have more time to so. I get food for thought and laughs everyday reading this site--I love it. It's damn near like a family, really.
I agree with everything you said. I didn't think about that part: of her still being salty at Salt for leaving the group those years ago. She probably does still have some pent up anger (even after that retreat with Iyanla Vanzant that they went on). And you're right about saying "drunk"--everybody uses that as the old satnd by when they've done something REAL foul and out there, form a slip of hte tongue to screwing the football team on the strength of being "drunk". That's why I never drank myself to oblivion when I was single and out, because I sisn't want to wake up with my panties laying next to my head in a strange bed and not know what the hell happened. I know that can't be cool (especially when the "drunk" one finds out that there's a video floating around of their drunken moment--I've seen folks go through that, and it's both funny and sad).
But you're so right--Pepa know she was ten kinds of wrong pulling the mess she pulled living at Salt's house. At least Salt kept her class about her versus mixing it up in the living room. lol
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I agree I never allow myself to get so "drunk" till I can't remember what I said or done. I have more control over myself then that. Whenever my friends and I do go out I never drink more then I should I have nurse one drink the whole time while some of my friends are on her second drink. I make sure I drink more water then anything because I be dripped if I end up trying to drive home and cause an accident.
But that Sandy I'm tell you that sister had no respect for Cheryl's home, when they had to meet with a manager she was late and they had to wait on her.
She went off to meet with someone to fix up her house leaving her daughter at Salt's house knowing 1. the little girl had music lessons 2. That Cheryl had bible study Sandy "forgets" her cellphone. That cow didn't forget her cell phone she left it on purpose so she could stay out as long as she could. It was also messed up she left her phone behind because if she was a decent mother/friend she would have called to check on how her daughter is doing and to tell Cheryl it was going to be late.
That would have been the last straw for me because you just don't take advantage of friends like that. So When she got back all her stuff would have been out on my lawn and she would to have had to find a hotel or wherever to stay I don't care , once she's out I don't care where she'd stay. I would have let the little girl stay she don't need to be from one place to another because her mama can't act more like a adult. But Sandy would have had to go
I believe Sandy was doing most of what she was doing because she's is wild and because deep down she was getting back at Cheryl for leaving the group, she's said it many times that it hurt her the way she did it and they never really talked about it, so Sandy still hold a grudge u can believe that
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I agree, but I really don't wanna think that Pepa is that dumb to cross Salt like that. I mean, they knew each other before the group ever got started and they both worked at Sears and went to Queensborough together. She gotta know that if she did some slick mess like that, any hopes she ever had of Salt N Pepa getting back together would be OVER! After watching the show, IMO, Salt should have her third eye on her sister.
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I would hope that Sandi wouldn't step to Cheryl like that either. Friends are forever you can always get another husband if you want
But sometimes the best of friends break up over other things rathr then men. As I said Sandy said she was really hurt when Cheryl just decided to leave or wuit the group. And the way Sandy made it sound the way it feels when a person is abandon by a parent. I can understand her not liking Cheryl just up and decided to leave without warning.
But at least Cheryl didn't leave for another group,go solo or kick Sandi out the group and hired another girl to replace her.
Cheryl said she had to leave because it was making her sick to try to keep being in the group because she felt pressured. So she had to leave to maintain being sane.
She said she gave her life to God, married, had a family ans she love her life now.
Pepa must to not have been as blessed because I know she's said that she'd been in bad relationships with men, for some reason Sandy is attracted to men who treat her wrong and abuse her.
That's another reason I think Sandi have some pinned up anger and maybe even some jealousy towards Cheryl.
Now u say they were friends before they became a group and they worked together? Well that means that they were once tight when you saw one you saw the othr and they might.
Okay now the form a girl group, still they're tight, they start to become famous they both enjoy the fame, because guys and girls are loving them, okay now here comes Spin she part of they're group but she can't be as close as Sandi and Cheryl are because she's too young and she could never have the tight frienship they have because they started out to together from the jump. So they'll let her in but only so far in they keep her at arms length.
Now when things are really starting to roll for Salt N Pepa with guys wanting them,fans loving them, young girls wanting to be them. In order to keep everyone loving and admiring them they have to keep up this image. And theres the pressure, Salt said she would make herself throw up which says that she was trying to keep her weight down.
When that got to be too much she had to let that go. Meanwhile Pepa was still loving it and having too much fun to notice Salt was suffering.
So as much as Cheryl didn't want to hurt Sandi she didn't want to keep hurting herself more so she decided it was time to go or else.
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They might be creeping on the low!! Why would you bring a nude picture of yourself over your girlfriend house and you know she's married? Some things you just don't do as a girlfriend. I bet my life on it that Pepa had at least one 3-some with Salt's husband and his friends... I said it first rmbr that .
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Yes, you're right about her being extremely hurt, Hidoll--and Pepa is a Scorpio. I know from dealing with several Scorpios that they can be pretty vindictive when crossed (glad I wasn't the source of their wrath), so if Pepa were to sleep with Galvin just to prove a point and get back at her, I wouldn't exactly be shocked. And DAMN about the 3-way with the friends--my mouth dropped open but...you're right about not putting it past her. That could very well be the case, since she kept mentioning how bad she was wanting a man. Men can sense that and freakiness like a cologne. That saga might run way deeper than we know.
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I never liked Kendu. I just couldn't believe that "he saved me crap". Wasn't it said that Mary was dealing with him when he was still married to his 1st wife. He knew exactly what to do to get where he fit in with Mary's money. I saw the salt-n-pepa show and salt and her husband seemed like they had a very good relationship. He just didn't seem like the type to go to be tricking off. Fooled the hell out of me.
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Hello PR Fam!
I like the Mary J/Kendu and Salt/Gavin guesses. I've been away for a week while the cable was screwed up! It felt like I was cut off from the world.
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How you gonna be a leech and cheat on me??? in most States you can't get alimony if you adultery is the grounds for divorce... Not very smart Kendu... you may have to get a real job when this gets back to Mary
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Is the primary residence Jersey? Is that one of those 50/50 states. Damn I hope she can get some Halle/Oprah type solid advice and drop the hammer on this fool. You have to be careful when your man moves all of your friends out of your life. It's usually to isolate you & to remove your support system. Just damn!
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But the sad part is so many women like that just so need to have a man in their life that when he says your friends gotta go, they cut ties with all of them. I couldn't be bothered wth a man that is envious of my friendships with my girlfriends. A relationship you have with your man (or woman..whateva) and your friends are two different branches on the same tree.
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My bff's gf is SOOO jealous of our friendship. Gf really thinks that I'm creeping w/ my best friend. I'm like WTF?! That's so narsty on all levels. No matter how much we try to tell her, she doesn't believe us. Now my bff is going thru it b/c her possesive gf is out of control hitting, cursing, @ her. My bff feels stuck b/c of a "situation" but that's not an excuse to stay in an abusive relationship. I'm tired of the drama. I just say "na u know o" whenever she brings up her gf.
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That's bec you have self esteem. And it's not just women, there are some men out there that stay in damaged relationships knowing fully aware that they are ust that damaging relationships, but they stay. And like Itis is saying below- happens in same sex relationships too. Mary's is just a bit painful for me bec she was publically humilated and now publically pimped. I hope she doesn't hurt herself any further with the drugs.
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I know that's the truth Lit
How can you leech and cheat,that's cause they think that got it easy, the wife is always gone and doing her thang that gives him free range to go out and play. That's how Eddie Murphy ended up getting caught with that tranny. Nicole was visiting her mom I'm sure she took the kids with her and while the cat was away the rat played and got caught, CAUGHT with a tranny for Eddie at least Salt husband was with real females I GUESS they were real females you never know what or who's giving you a lap dance in those strip clubs. LOL guys thinking the pretty woman up on him, taking his money is all female but she could be a he.
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lol.. yes boys are funny... thinking they know it's a woman when really it's a boy
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I think men see what they want to see Lit, I really do, I mean we all know there are some trannies who when you look at them they look so much like a woman it's like WOW! but then you have those who look like death warmed over.
But if I can see that she is really a he then why can't a guy who looking out the same person I'm looking at can't see that it's a wolf in sheeps clothing?
Danny Bonadace is another one who was driving around and came up on what he thought was a woman(whatever yeah right) and he picked her up and took her around the corner or where ever and when she and he got to touch each other he said he realize that DAMN this is a man Danny said the guy's know what was bigger then his. So Danny hits the guy he its Danny back and a fight was on.
So men see what they want doesn't matter if he's drunk or sober when he see she/he bottom line is he was attracted.
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The only thing they see if the sex! They don't have the balls to say no.
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This might be a mean thing to say but sometimes it serves guys like Eddie and Danny right for ending up with a trannie. Cause he should have been thinking with his head on his shoulder not the other head that causes them to get in trouble.
They call women whores but they can be just as whorish for seeing a pretty wrapping and ready to bed it down and unwrap it. So when that happens maybe it should be a lesson learned. DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER
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I think that most men can recognize a tranny whether their drunk or not. Those that get caught up, prefer chicks with dicks because its easier for them to fulfill their homosexual fantasies.
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So TRUE..so true indeed. I know that (key word) MOST of the men in the south are keene on participating in such fantasies. In Macon, GA, it is Mulberry and Cherry Streets where some of the most high profile executives, doctors, lawyers as far as Savannah, Ga and northern Florida come out to play in drag. That is how a young lady from Atlanta caught HIV when she had had a dental appointment whilst in college.
As far as Atlanta, just a Friday night stroll down Peachtree Street will suffice...DARE look down one of the allies on your way to a nightclub/lounge let alone a visit to Jocks and Jills.
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Hey Lit!!!!!
Speaking of cheating; what is the outlook on Larry King's divorce since his much younger wife was caught cheating {on HIS own damn desk, mind you} with a much younger guy?
You would think that Larry The Lizard would have the sense to have a prenup, but not this dumb @ss, he just really did not see this train coming!
Even with her cheating @ss getting caught, she's looking for a really hefty paycheck!
Your insight please, ye great and wise barrister of the PR Nation...
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Wait...what? How in the hell did I miss this headline as much as I watch the celeb shows?
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should ole larry be upset? don't care how much dude pops those blue pills, it ain't the same. no "much younger" woman finds loose, sagging skin appealing.
she should have taken that to the four seasons.
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lol @ she should have taken that to the four seasons
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What?? Really?
The last I read about her she was in a back bathroom getting some bootleg BOTOX and she was suing.
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Is he in Cali or New York ???? Cali is all about your lawyer... let me just say this prenups are good but a lot of people seem to think a pre-nup is airtight... not true... it's just a contract and like any other contract it can be torn apart (telling you what I know not what I think) ... okay here's how most people come up in a divorce... whenever you live in a community property state... everything you made/bought during the marriage is considered to belong to you both equally (exceptions are usually made for inheritances) .. so if you're out making 6 million (please take notes Mary or call me) and your husband/wife is sitting around doing nothing..... 3 million is still his/hers... and just imagine if this keeps up for 4 or more years..I'm sure this young oman is about to get an all star lawyer and walk away with at least a mil
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Okay; old boy has a studio in L.A., so just guessing here, it may be a Cali divorce.
For those that didn't know, this is why he was off the air during the last week and the night of the election. CNN had to scramble to get enough programming for that time period.
Word now is that he actually KNEW the guy! The guy was a coach on one of his kids baseball teams last year and is an actor in his 20's.
As for old Skanky, she's a country singer who still hasn't gotten the big break she thought she would get with King's name behind hers.
Reports are that feeble old Larry even threatened the young guy, to which he really took seriously after he stopped laughing at the thought of a 70 plus year old man whipping his ass.
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Kendu and Salt
Now that I got my Crack on the Screen I can lay it down. Goodnight.
Thanks Myra
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I got my fix.
Thanks,Myra.
Anyway, I finally know the answer. I saw a letter that a stripper wrote to a blogger & in the letter she says:
Mary J. Blige
Salt's husband of Salt & Pepa & Spinderella.
BI solved!!!
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Soror in the house.
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Chi-town and Sin7......please don't go to work acting a fool tomorrow because you are on the front page LOL. I bet that the both of you have your 8x10's super glossy head shots ready *cracking up*.
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Ok guys....my bed is calling...look like we have a consensus on the BI answer eh?
Goon night EVERYONE!!!
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Ok, time to get off.
I am officially Ms. Super Sleuth!!!
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Should have read "good" tired as ever....night night all.
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Going with the flow...
Mary J.(on tour in sept/oct 2008)
Kendu
Cheryl James aka Salt
I watched salt/pepa's reality show salt is all christian now meanwhile the hubby & pepa are playing cards in the middle of the night(LOL!)
P.S. cleaning out my email files dug up some juicy quotes from trannies karen dior & "tempest" on eddie murphy that'll have your heads shaking.Also dug up some Huey Newton/Elaine Brown tidbits.
I'll put it out later.
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Hey SheKnows
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Aww man! I got the Salt part. Couldn't figure out the other part. Well im off to bed. Goodnite yall
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Miss Myra, where is my name among the posters mentioned in the Ballin 8 teaser???
Poor Mary, being pimped royally.
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love you're in a scene with me... before Lauryn has me knocked off
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That no good Myra left my name off the front page on purpose because I talked about her horror of a personal assistant. Did I tell you her assistant had the nerve to email me how to get over rejection brochure. Said it would be real helpful, like she's Dr. Phil.
Myra mentioned BP and left the gorgeous one out.
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Simmer down GS, I have a feeling Myra's going to expand your role.
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LMAO!!!!!!
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Every time I see a photo of Kendu, he's sipping a tropical drink near a pool and every time I see Mary, she's signing up for tours to pay the bills.
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The one I saw had all the chilren frolicking in the pool lide guppies. Just something about those Santeria eyes. Gives me the creeps. Not about the right thing.
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Wow erybody said it before me, it is so obviously Kedull or whatever, and salt or pep's husband.
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It was always something about Mary J. husband that I didn't like about him. He just has that thing about him that says he's the one you have to give a side eye too. So if it's him it wouldn't be a surprise.
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Good Evening to all!!
I agree, I think the blind item is MJB and Salt's respective hubby's.
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Lit, check your email.
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Good Evening first guess sounds like Mary and Kendu, the other one "could be Salt". Even when a man got a ring on his finger he still can't sit his behind down, and dam behave himeself.
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Blind guesses: Kendu or Toni Braxton's husband; for rapper, either a member of TLC or Salt and Pepper
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Don't think it's TLC. One can't keep a man and is shamelessly looking for him in a variety/reality show and the other is selling all her funky clothes sans Febreeze.
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You're right Lilly. After I guessed, I was thinking that TLC wasn't really a rap trio anyway, but I think one of them did perform raps on occasion or something like that. Anyway, I wonder if T Boz is still married to that Mac Truck guy. T Boz is selling her clothes (and who would want them?)! What's going on with her?
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Chili is (key word) "claiming" that she is not doing a show looking for her love or a partner for long term relationships sans interview she did. Now as far as T-Boz, she is no longer married to Mac 10 who was abusing her and had made a series of threats on her life and her daughter, Chase's life should she even bother to leave. Anyhoo, she has divorced him and went on about her life although moved from the place last residing during their separation in fear that he would take out his threat. To my understanding, she is still dating Takeo Spikes. I gather for roughly 4 years or so.
Speaking of separation, who was Chili fooling when she was out with that very married CNN anchor? She even thought she had Ray Lewis in her corner pocket or as her ace in the hole at the time.
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I think Mary put out her best work when she was drunk and high.
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Hi Anon, happy Friday to you!
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My friend is reading this with me and said,"huh?". I said, you wouldn't understand. LOL It makes sense to me Teina.LOL
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I knew Kendu wasn't shit when he gave Mary a Rolls Royce for her birthday paid out of her money. Him and his kids hit the lotto with Mary.
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Girl remember when Emmitt was bragging about Pat giving him that Lambo after he broke the NFL record for rushing yards... I was dating an athlete at the time and he was like babe you gonna go buy me a lambo ... I was like sure.... give me 250 k... I mean is it really a gift if you bought it with my money ???? I don't think so
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Good Evening PR Fam,
I had to come out of lurk mode for this one...I definetly think this is Kendu (I was thinking he would be caught in a "male" strip club...), and the husband that was makin' it rain is either Salt's husband (forgot his name) or Treach (don't know if they're still married though). I don't remember any other female rappers that are/were married. I was going to say Lauren Hill, but I may be reaching with that one.
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Speaking of Lauren Hill. I was thinking about a lyric she had in a song of hers over a decade ago in which she said something along the lines of "not only do I have the kids but I have the their father" and yet STILL no ring. I understand that her "man" is the son of the great Bob Marley but I see him as no better than Kendu or any other fungi that front as men growing on women.
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sin7, saw your message to me in the other thread. I've been working late this week so I can't get online until late in the evenings. Y'all keep it full of laughter without me though. What's new, girl?
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I don't think Salt's man has enough of her money to cheat big like Kendu. She can't have that much and Pepa still looking like an out of shape lineman. Loves thugs who beat down like Monica and Lauryn.
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Not that I know the answer, but depending on the type of club they were in, Gavin could have gotten into the VIP room without dropping as much cash as Kendu did. Plus doesn't Salt make money speaking and doing things through her church? I think of the two Pepa is the only one looking for ways to make money.
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salt supposedly has investments in real estate. did she not get 10 million out of that lawsuit with her manager?
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Well according to their Behind The Music special, Salt and Pepa split $11 million that they got for signing their new record deal (this is back in either 96 or 97) while Spinderella signed a seperate deal for much less. Salt is also responsible for writing/producing some of the groups hits like "Shoop", "Expressions", "Whatta Man",etc. so im sure she's getting some kind of royalties.
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ok the first one is Kendu but I don't know the second part
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This is Kendu, heard he was bored and he's spending chunks of Mary's money. When he was married, he was on the lookout for a woman in the industry for a come up and he found weak vulnerable Mary. His game was on point, he was her AA sponsor and drug counselor all the while plotting to get at her money, hope he signed a tight prenup.
Myra, can't wait for Ballin 8. Damn, you take us into worlds no one knows about. Before I got in this crazy industry, I was going a chef in the making institute, never knew abou the truoffles demand.
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SMH @ Kendu. And women are always the ones classified as gold diggers. Sounds like Kendu pulled something similar to what Pilar (or whatever her name is) did with Deion Sanders.
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Paging Celeb Panachigan Ms. Deanna...
Please tell me the juice on Pilar's game...Pretty please?
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If I remember right, PR-Insiders said that she heard that Deion Sanders was turning religious so she studied Bible verses to the point where she could quote them at will. She learned most everything he was into and used that to get close to him so she could catch him.
I compared her to Kendu because looks like Kendu used the fact that Mary was getting clean and sober to get close to her.
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Good memory, Pilar studied the bible like a college exit exam to land Deion.
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Question for you about Pilar Biggars...did she EVER get her modeling agency off the ground?
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Wow I never knew that!!!! I thought Deion chased her . Let the truth be told .....You have to give her credit. Girls train all their life to land a baller and can never close the deal . Maybe Ms Sanders should start trainiing classes on the side ...
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@NewBagnCoupe:
Another poster (forgot who) posted on another thread, that Pilar was Deion's mistress when he was married to his first wife, Carolyn. Don't know how true this is, but if it IS true, she needs to watch out. If a man will cheat WITH you, he'll cheat ON you.
Also, someone had said they were having 'marital problems' a few years ago and divorce talk was being thrown around.
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I know that he's not a licensed counselor or anything, but it seems pretty unethical for an AA sponsor to get romantically involved with his "sponsee". Unfortunately, if he was that much of a help to spurring her recovery on, she probably did not want it enough for herself. It'll be very difficult to maintain her sobriety for any length of time if she believes, in her heart, that she could not have cleaned up her life without him.
I do believe that you set the tone for a relationship by the way you begin it (how you allow yourself to be treated, whether you were willing to cheat w/him and HELP him to break up his family by giving a better option, etc.) It seems that MJB is already getting retribution for past indescretions and Kendu's due, if you will, is just around the corner.
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Well, we already know it's not Steve (Eve) or King Latifah
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Rolling with the Mary J. Blige/Kendu and Salt/Gavin guesses.
Don't they all stay in the same area?
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Believe so. Jersey area.
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G'Night famz. Will be back later.
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I knew Eve was sponsored out of the country. Not much coming in but she rolling in a Maserati. Now Kelly R. is trying to get put on out of the country. Stacy Dash is big in this scene in Europe.
Thanks Myra for the Ballin 8 shout out.
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Congrats BP!
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Thank you
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Congrats to Sin, Chi, and all other fab posters that made balling 8 and the front page!
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I second this emotion...Go "Ballin' 8 Panachigans"!!! Congrats, you guys!
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Yes Congrats are in order!!! It's so nice to be acknowledged in that way
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definitely mary j and salt's hubby...so sad
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Wow I was out in left field with this one. I thought of Monique (the comedienne) but I was on point that it was Salt and her husband Gavin.
So sad. These stories are a dime a dozen.
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Monique's man doesn't even like her near him or to touch him in public. Saw them on some show, she went to kiss him he moved backwards and he pays rent at the swinger clubs. He took her once, nobody was checking for her or wanted to sleep with her so he flies solo and is not faithful.
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I think GS has helped us solve a previous BI.
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Hey Teina,
I caught that too
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I caught that earlier, but I wasn't a 100% sure.
Now, if someone would just spill on the whole Babyface/Tracey thing I'll be one happy lil' lady
(yes, Ms. Sable, I'm still waiting)
Enjoy your weekend, everyone
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Miss Sable will say this, Babyface pays a fortune to keep his secrets hidden that's why they never leak out. When stuff blew up on Eddie and the Mrs.(Johnny) what was the first thing they did???
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If only he could have/would have offered that to his brother Keavon..
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What happened to Kevon? I loved him
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Keavon was riding that "girl, do you know who I am" wave and don't handle rejection or no to his sexual advances to well. In culmination, probable deadbeat father should a woman dare get pregnant "on him" in belief that pending nuptials or a monthly, hefty check will be on the way. Now, for some reason, people speculated that this was the same woman when in actuality it was two different women/interns/instances at two different times.
First incident involved sexual harrassment and harrassing phone calls and threatening job loss if she did not adhere to his advances or sexual demands. The second one which involved babyface aka matureface because he had gotten involved by giving her an ultimatum of job loss or abortion to secure job with orders to severe ties with Keavon.
In either case, one would think that smart,saavy businessman and talented protege' would have sense not to leave disparaging remarks on voice mail as it could be used as evidence against them especially in regards to possibility of defamation of character in addition to the aforementioned. In both instances, large payouts.
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Yep, I remember that BI and a couple of us had guessed Monique. But, now we KNOW thanks Gorgeous
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GS, thanks for that scandalous tidbit! Always on it with the 411.
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What's goodie PR?? Thank goodness the weekend is here....and its my birthday weekend too. But before I go to sleep after smoking.....
Myra did her thing with this BI...I loves this BI. Lemme find out this is Kendu.....its about to be on and poppin....hell hath no fury when a woman scorned....karma may bite him in the ass.
Salt, your husband been tricking too? It is what it is....did Spinderella ever get married? kids or anything?
Shoutouts to: JustBNMe, MicahsMum, my favorite e-feline, OKat-hope you feel better girlie, Eye-Deuce, etc...im mad sleepy now, but I'm off to bed....gotta work tomorrow and leave for Baltimore.
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Spin has two kids out here in L.A. and doesn't get child support for the first kid with Kenny dead beat Anderson. There has always been tension between Spin and the other two. Spin invested in a spa on the east coast, think it was called she things, went belly up.
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Her buddy, Chris, the darker of the two from kid and play invested in a beauty salon and leather shop, both closed down. Heard he's broke as hell and has nothing to do with his son with Shari Headley. No xmas or birthday cards, no phone calls.
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I remember when Salt n Pepa were selling and Salt was riding around in a convertible beamer. Arrogant and rude to fans. Heard that car was taken by the repo man a few months later. They rebounded with some type of deal but I heard all that money is gone to.
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The clothing boutique Salt (I think it was Salt...I didn't care to know who was who.) had in Atlanta went belly up. It was located in the Lenox Mall area and the clothes were cheap and overpriced and the sales people were rude. They were in the same vicinity as a music store (Towers, I think) and I would go buy music and my friends would go look around her store. It didn't last long.
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I don't know about what's up with Chris's family situation, but I know that he lives in Durham, NC. He has a website that focuses on helping the youth down here that mostly end up in gangs. He may not have the money that he once had, but I do commend him for the positive work that he does for the community.
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Hmmm, according to Spin, she only has one child. She did an interview, and the interviewer asked her about supporting her son's rap career, and she looked all crazy like "I don't have a son, I have a daughter". Never heard of a second child.
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Have a great birthday. Tell Nalu I miss her posting on the board.
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Hey Chrissy!
Have a great B-Day Weekend Lady!
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1. Mary J Blige
2. Salt's husband
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Myra/Paris, Could you please post some info on how to do a background check on people?
Poor Mary. Blinded by love. I hope she signed a prenup. I wouldn't marry again without one. I tried to talk someone I know into getting their future husband to sign a prenup. She looked at me like I was crazy. This dude has been fired from his job for allegedly "messing with kids". He is on unemployment and she is the primary bread winner and is paying for everything for the future nuptials. It's even speculated that she paid for her ring. Her ring looks like my ring had a baby.
Learn from McCain. Have these men/women vetted BEFORE you try to marry them. Or it will be too late.
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Got that right. Poor deluded "and I can't sleep without chu babyee" Mary! Capricorn women can be: blinded by love and : your worse nightmare. MJB is from the hood when this reaches her she's gotta get all potted meat crackers and switchblade on his azz!
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Don't put that on Capricorn women. Not all of us are bubbleheads.
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Hay BB... Caps aren't bubble heads I should know I'm one; what I'm saying is sometimes we're gullible then vindictive
as Mary was and will be. Watch.
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True. People tend to clear out of the way when I am on a "I shall be avenged" rampage. We can be very creative. LOL This should be interesting to watch. It should provide some entertainment.
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I have never been able to understand the "I gotta have a man syndrome. I'd rather have a warm bed with a broke down man that can sling ding ding than have a cold bed"? WHAT? Are you serious. I am bedazzled at the folks that are so caught up in the wedding planning than the actual marriage. If folks would put as much effort in finding suitable companionship than they do the wedding plan maybe the divorce rate wouldn't be where it is now. How silly to be still paying for a wedding while making layaway payments on the divorce lawyer.
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I never understood that type of thinking either. Buy an electric blanket and a good book. You'll be warm, entertained, and get to keep your money.
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I told her to get premarital counseling, too. She didn't want to. Her mom had to make her do it. It seems to be an epidemic with women not wanting to be lonely. I just hate to see these no good men being put on pedestals.
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It is good that your friend's mom is persistent. Perhaps if you all keep on her, as far as having her best interest at heart, she will eventually see whomever this man is for his true colors or atleast be well prepared in advance should she decide to forward with the nuptials.
However, I agree with the poster, above about how women put dead weight on a pedestal but to each woman, a set of learning experiences.
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anyone else hear something about Cindy "gimme another pill" McCain getting caught with another man? I forget where I saw it, but there were pictures of some non-descript blond kissing a dude. Not sure how you'd identify it as Cindy from the picture, but maybe all that blurry in her head is now showing up in her pictures.
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"waves"..Hi everyone, my guesses for this BI are Mary j, and Salt...Unfortunately. I initially thought of Toni Braxton, and her husband Keri Lewis, but as a Mint Condition fan, I know he has some serious talent as a producer, and that he still works..not as much as his former band members though...Goodnight all!!
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Hey Headalettuce!! Waving jumpin up and down. I too am a serious Mint fan.
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I heard that he wasn't to keen on touring, and that he was beginning to forget that ALL members of Mint, Stokley, Rick, Jeff, Odell, and Lawrence, write AND produce as well. At least this is the impression I got from an interview given by Ricky Kinchen. Also, some people say that he thought that a marriage to Toni would give him more exposure as a songwriter/producer.
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Hi everyone!!!! My guesses for this BI are Mary J, and Salt..unfortunately. I initially thought about Toni B and Keri Lewis, but as serious Mint Condition fan, I know he writes and produces..Not as much as his former bandmates though.. goodnight.
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that Must Be MJB
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i bet mary j's sister reads this site/blog.
i predict a divorce by spring 09.
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Good Morning Cousins
Toni Braxton is also a BIG contender(Love Toni ♥). However,Insiders have said that Kerri's trifling azz wanted a nanny to watch THEIR kids, and he doesn't even work. In addition, to that he's supposed to be a producer... Will SOMEBODY please tell me what him and Kendu has produced ??? Kendu is also supposed to be a "producer"... These dudes ain't doing nothing but producing debt & bills for their wives. God Bless 'em, because I would come home and clean house!!! First of all, I wouldn't be taking care of him, and all of his mental faculties are in tact, and he's not handicapped...Hmmpp!! Producer my azz,LMAO!!!
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I am also a producer, LOL! I produce bills and debt along with the income to pay them. SheKnows, I was raised with partner Parents, meaning my Dad often worked 2 jobs while my Mom was finishing college and taking care of the household. When my Dad came home from working 16 hours, he had a hot dinner ready but after he ate he would tell my Mom, "do your homework and I will wash the dishes and put the kids down"
Bottom line both my Parents gave 100% in different ways at different times in their marriage and I was taught that anyone who truly loves you is a help to you not a DEPENDANT. You have to be dependable as well.
Why women or men would settle for less is beyond me, Mary and Toni, WAKEUP!
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Dramatical, Much love to your parents! That's the way it's supposed to be. It's so nice, that your parents were such a good example to you. I was Blessed with the same kind of parents. They were truly a team...I now have a loving husband, who really goes out of his way to make me happy, and he has always been a good provider. I always made sure that his dinner was ready, and whatever else needed to be done...For 3 years, I didn't work or anything...He bought me my first car, and gave me an allowance every 2 weeks. We both agreed that I would stay home, and take care of the kids when they were younger. I didn't trust daycares, and both our parents were still working themselves. Even when we were dating, he wouldn't allow me to want for anything. He spolied me
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Don't forget, Faith Evans man is also suppose to be a producer. Their only joint production was that fairy tale book to pay off drug debts and to have some money left over to cop more drugs.
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LMAO @ Gorgeous !! Fairy tale book is right,a nd it's funny that she waited until both Biggie and Tupac were gone to write it D)
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Good Morning SheKnows, Dramatical, & GS..*waving*
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Morning!
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I just googled Kendu's picture, hell naw, she can do much better than that. She's a beautiful woman.
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Hey Chebella, Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder, because I have NEVER thought she was beautiful ? I would say attractive, she's not gruesomely ugly but not beautiful either,LOL.....However, I respect your opinion.
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Hey MsColeman
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I know everyone is saying Poor Mary but, didn't some insiders drop 2 bombs on Mary:
1st. Kendu was still married when she started seeing him.
2nd. Mary slept with her Sister's husband.
A married man who is "dating"/"pursuing" other women ain't NOTHING but a Dog and if Mary laid down with that mangy mutt, I guess it is time for her to wonder how her DOG got out the fence AGAIN, LOL!
If Mary did sleep with her sisters husband than it is time for that Karma to return to that household and knock Mary right on upside that head.
If Salt's husband is the married Rapper then I do feel for Salt, but a lot of women get all holy after a life of raising hell and think that their religion is going to change everyone around them. It was obvious to me that Salt's husband was not into the church like she was and being unequally yoked means you are easily unyoked.
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Thank you, and didn't K-Ci keep her in the clinic and didn't she have numerous abortions??? Isn't that why she hasn't had kids. Just like Big Kev and Darius, Kendu is a ugly kept man with nothing to offer. Oh, forgot to mention Toni's overweight good for nothing man.
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Dramatical and Gorgeous I agree with both of you. There's always two sides to a story, and as much as I love MJB (the entertainer), "she ain't no angel".
Good morning everyone. Happy Friday!
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Another BI solved??
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Hey GS,
You did not just write Big kev....LMAFO too funny!
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Dramatical, you make a very good point. My first reaction really is to go, aww, poor baby, but when look at the total picture, this really may be a case of you reap what you sow. Still a shame...no wonder she's back to popping pills.
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Wow--didn't know about Mary sleeping with her sister's hubby. Did her sister and the husband divorce or are they still together? Are Mary and her sister on speaking terms again? I heard a while back that they weren't, but never got the details--was this the reason why?
Also: earlier Gorgeous Sable mentioned Monique--I definitely sense something dark about her, and a slow train wreck waiting to happen with Sydney. They sound ridiculous on her show, and they need to bring Sonny Andre back, but I suspect he won't be back. I swear that show has gradually gotten dumber since he suddenly disappeared (still don't know the story behind that).
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"It was obvious to me that Salt's husband was not into the church like she was and being unequally yoked means you are easily unyoked."
When the bible refers to being unequally yoked, it means that if you are saved before you get married, then you should marry someone on the same spiritual level.
If Salt became saved after she married dude, then she is to remain in that marriage unless her husband chooses to leave.
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I may have to repeat myself:
If a man and a woman DO NOT SHARE ANYTHING in common and everything the man or wife enjoys causes the other party to be: Mad, Sad, Lonely or uninterested then they are unequally yoked and will be in an UNHAPPY MARRIAGE.
People love to add their interpretation to the bible, bottom line the GOD I serve does not want people who are not really suited for each other to be married.
What page, chapter and verse can I find anything in any interpretation of the Bible that says once you get SAVED you must continue to ENDURE foolishness??
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My point is that Salt probably got saved after she married this guy. Not sure, just my speculation. I wasn't trying to refute your views or turn this into a biblical interpretation war.
I also was offering a general meaning to how the bible defines being unequally yoked. In other words, dont throw the baby out with the bathwater, simply because one got saved during the marriage and the other didn't. Oftentimes the saved spouse eventually brings the unsaved spouse to Christ.
I know that God hates divorce, but I agree in that he wouldn't want anyone to remain in a marriage damaged by infidelity, physical abuse, verbal abuse, etc.
There's only one God, so I'm sure we serve the same one.
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Nina, I respect your religious views but I object to using the bible to enforce staying married when it is apparent that the two were a good match from the get go and that it will end up in a bad way very soon.
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should read "were not a good match, from the get go"
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Wow, I take a break, come back and find out women are doormats.
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I'm in the Mary Blige and Salt band wagon.
Deanna, you killed me with that Pillar Sanders cramming the Bible to get Deon. SMH!!
Well, he did say he loved his women with "long good hair"
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Deion absolutely slays me when he says "don't my wife looks good for having 5 kids? She had 5 kids for me!"
Now we know that is an exaggeration considering that the oldest 2 are from his previous marriage. Then he goes on to allude to the fact that his Pilar is surgically enhanced for maintenance (aside from working out...that is).
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That's beyond exaggeration. I'm slayed and I don't even watch the show.
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1st. Kendu Issacs and MJB
2nd Gavin Wray and Cheryl "SALT" James Wray. Pepa probably told him where to go!
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Did Anyone here read Pepa's book?
Its my understanding that she set her up with him.
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Darling, I just read the excerpt where this abusive man she kept going back to beat her ass at Omar Epps house and hit her so hard in the eye, she has cornea damage but she kept going back to him. He was a hood guy and she used to be a celebrity, what's up with that? These stupid women who love thugs pay for it.
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Oh Gorgeous one!...THAT was TREACH! That beat down occured at Omar Epps house when Treach was attempting to reconcile with her and she refused. Right before this episode,Treach brutally raped Pepa causing her to have her cervix damaged by her IUD according to the book. .....I guess treach is REALLY HUNG....But it didnt look THAT big because he showed IT in that corny movie Love and a Bullet
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Maybe he's a "grower"
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LOL!!!
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He must be one hell of a grower because he was in some broke down to the ground porn flick and had nothing. He was trying to get at that 3LW girl, she was underage and hooked up with LeBron for a minute, Treach was old enough to be her daddy. He rolled around NY for years in his pimped out ancient benz from the superfly days.
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LOL and he did so repetitively when he had his stint as a porn actor. Including the filmed recording studio session with the singer, Pink.
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Yep, and I must've been living under a rock, because I had no clue that she dated Gary Sheffield and Derrick Coleman. She also dated Prince Markie D from The Fat Boys. Now she claims that she never messed with Andre Rison; don't know if I believe her. But the mess she allowed Treach to put her through, clawd have mercy. After he raped her, she still allowed him to get in her bed to "cuddle", talking bout he wanted to save the marriage. Then he beats her behind in Omar Epps' house and almost throws her down the stairs.
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'roid rage?
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She claims she never messed around with Andre Rison?! awwww whatever! She was kicking it with him right around the time the was with RiCoCo.
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Truly, I hope this is not Mary's husband she been sooo happy, I was happy listening to her tell Oprah how happy she is. But what the hell does he do? sure been doing it a long time. that would be horrible as much as he has "managed her career" it would most likely be cheaper to keep him. I am routing for them. Al, ah, kendu may not do much but he is a major step up from cracky she used to go with.These leach men kill me you'd think they were grateful by the way what does Mel B husband do ? Now, he gives me the creeps not sure if it's the water head, the eyes, not sure but for sure he quit his day job pretending to be Harry Belafontes son to marry and tag along with Mel
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ROFLMAO @ waterhead, tee hee, funny!
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Hey everyone!!! Thank goodness it's Friday!!!
Hey Karamelbella...thanks for the article regarding Ward Connerly!!!
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Hey B-Awesome~
Your welcome
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Congratulations to all the posters mentioned in the upcoming Ballin.
Litigating, sounds like it's about to get interesting with Cartier and Lauryn, can't wait to read it!!!
This sounds like Mary J., Kendu comes between her and fam and now she doesn't have fam to talk to about his cheating and spending her money. I always thought he was a manipulator. Always laying up under her at the studio and at parties, she was so psychologically damaged, he moved right in on it and he has custody of the kids, or Mary would be giving him money to pay child support like Whitney did Bobby until she got fed up.
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Good Morning Jinx
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Good morning, how are you? I read somewhere that Andre Rison was with Pepa the night left eye burned down his home and Pepa called left eye and said he was on his way home. I heard Pepa is really messy, shady and broke.
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I'm doing well this morning. TGIF! I thought I read that on the PR boards. Pepa strikes me as a real ghetto girl to the core. She's dressing and acting like she's still a 20 year old. Get some class...please! Not a good look for a woman in her 40s with almost grown children. I don't expect her to be frumpy but she needs to tone it down.
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Morning ms coleman **waving** I'm thinking we might have to get Pepa & Mariah together for a, "How to dress like a GROWN WOMAN with some type of class and gumption about yourself" lessons.
Poor thang
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I agree TAFKA. Throw those Friday pom poms up a little higher!
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Good morning PR! Happy TGIF **waving my TGIF POM-POM'S**Hope everyone is having a blessed start to their day!
@Jinx, hello, **waving** I just wanted to co-sign on what you said regarding Pepa and Andre Rison. I was watching some program that she stated that indeed their where together on the night that LeftEye R.I.P burned down Andre's House. I believe she stated that LeftEye even confronted her, and she told her that nothing happened between them. He was just at one of their S&P shows. IMO Pepa is very damaged goods as well, a little sneaky too. If you get my drift.........
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You know what bullrida I'm so tired of you and these home made pompoms! You came to my 4th of july celebration waving them pompoms-I still cant get that synthetic string material out the carpet! Them things is shedding like a feral cat. Buy some new ones cheap ass.lol...Hows everything? MIL ok?
Finally a BI I know the answer to Woohooo.lol. Some alleged stripper chick was running around the net telling this story earlier this week. Yes she was saying it was Kendu and Salts hubby. However her account seemed suspect to me. She got to talking about how her friend who is saved (her words) *presumably 1 of the other strippers* was saying that's why I don't date church men they all cheat. Or something to that effect. Ok so Salts hubby is a bad guy for being all up in the strip club when he's supposed to be saved, yet you all up in the VIP giving hand jobs and you yourself are supposed to be saved. People who live in glass houses. I'm just saying.
Aint nothing wrong with skrip clubs, lap dances and what not imo. Aint nothing wrong with a lil dry humping here n there. Shoot I'm almost an expert at that, been doing it since the age of 10. Learned it from my golden retriever Skipper.lol...Anyway I like Mary J. I really wish her well. Hopefully these stripper chicks are lying for some reason. Bitter perhaps. Telling half truths, puttin extras on it,,,Maybe someone wanted to be Kendus side piece and he wouldn't take it further than throwing a few 20's at them. I'm just guessing. Otherwise why put the story out there? If he was making it rain by the thousands, putting him on blast is just gone cut into your income.
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inyo what's happenin? You know I had to trade in my POM-POM'S, I got these new one's straight from the cheerleader shop at the local 5 and dime, these here are professional baby!
MIL is doing better day by day. She's able to hold a conversation, sometimes she just gets a little frustrated, when the words don't come out right. But, each day is better and better, thanks.
Yeah, this BI I think is pretty much closed. breezy posted the link below from the stripper, with the friend whom is saved......yeah, stones falling out all over the place! Before my hubby and I got married, we used to go to the strip clubs together, so I definitely don't frown on it, but, damn! you can't be throwing my lil change around. Heck no, that can't be happening. Show some spect about yourself also, don't do it behind my back, at least ask me if I wanna go too, chump!
Anywho, how's things with you? I've missed Grandma, I saw she was on here the other day, but the man has had me on lock down for the last week or so.
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Before my hubby and I got married, we used to go to the strip clubs together
^^^See lil revelations like this here is the reason why I e-stalk you.lol. I love it. As far as grandma goes we are presently estranged. I'm so upset with her! She sent me a text message 2 Sundays ago talking about come to my house immediately, I have a great career opportunity for you. Now with the economy being like it is, and me being broke like I am, I jumped on it! Walked inside her house to be greeted by a bunch of idiots grinning from ear to ear talking about how excited they were. I'm excited, I'm so excited. Excited about what I kept wondering? Turns out they're all representatives of this new invention that supposedly rids your scalp of psoriasis, inflammation and irritation, and not to mention head chips (dandruff). The presenter started screaming and shouting saying it would change the world of scalps across the nation,,,All I needed to do was write a check for 199.00,,,I was like hold up!!! Is this one of these dang pyramids??? You mean to tell me I missed my Sunday afternoon football for a dag on pyramid scheme???
I'm so mad at grandma right now! She knows I can't afford tivo, and even though I have a vcr to record the games finding a blank vhs tape at the stores nowadays is dang near impossible! They're extinct! Yeah bullie so that's what happened! I'm not talking to grandma2x till she reimburses me for my gas, apologizes for making me miss 2 games on Sunday, and also apologizes for that nasty ass potato salad she was serving at the pyramid meeting! YUCK! I've heard of using a lil bacon grease to spruce the tato salad up, but fish grease??? I had the runs for 3 days there after.
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Yea, well you know you got to keep the spice in the life!
Fish grease in the tater salad, ummm my stomach just dropped.
You all need to just kiss and make up, but no more pole dances. We can't have Grandma in traction again
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Hey 2blessed good morning.
Yeah rida I think it was those impromptu pole dances that got grandma acting all loopy. Bumped her head once too many times much? She's good at riding up the pole, but she needs to work on her landings while sliding back down the pole upside down. She'd been hearing how beneficial fish oil is to the human body. However no 1 had the heart to tell her fish oil and fish grease are 2 completely different entities. Boy I tell ya...One things for sure that tater salad cleansed out my colon better than any probiotic ever could.
Whelp rida you n your fam stay strong alright. PR folks yall njoi the weekend I'm out...
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U too, catch ya later
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LMAO, inyoguts you and Bullrida have me cracking up so hard my co-workers are peeking into my office wondering what the hell is going on!!Thanks for the morning humor!!
Now where is SouthinDiva?? Anybody heard from her? I hope you are alright sista!!
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Hey there 2blessed **waving** inyo's a mess, especially when he hasn't taken his meds
I have been asking the same ? regarding SD, I miss her, and hopefully everything is ok.
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I heard from her yesterday. She's doing okay. I'll let her know she's being missed
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Oh! okay, I was really starting to worry about her. I had asked a couple of times about where she's been. I was getting ready to send out the search team. Good to hear that she's doing okay. Hopefully she can come back soon
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Thanks Ms. C yes let her know she needs to hurry on back!!
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OMG!!! That was too funny!!!!
I can just see your grandmother "come on baby, I got something that's gone make us a lot money!!" LOL!!!
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And the award for almost getting me fired for laughing outloud at my desk go to..**Drumroll**.... INYOGUTS...**applause**
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I don't like the way they messed over Spin and I liked SnP so very much.They did her really dirty!
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Until I watched Salt and Pepa Show I didn't know how they did Spin.
But not really surprised,people tend to get so wrapped up in doing they're own thing they sometimes forget to be grateful and kind to others.
Then you have people like a salt and pepa who eyes and pockets are so opened wide with money and fame it causes them to be greedy,rude and selfish they truly are not gonna stop to worry about how they treat others.
Now that they're older and not performing anymore now they have to deal with what went on in the past and answer a lot of questions.
The upside is Salt grew up and while Pepa still has a wild side that she's not ready to let go of anytime soon. I said it they have the right names Salt is now salt of the earth, Pepa is hot and ready and willing to keep playing, Spin, is spinning around wanting to know why did yall treat me like ya did, why wasn't I just as important?
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Hey, HiDoll!Yes, I totally agree with you but "you are going to meet the same people on your way down",so it pays to treat people the way you would like to be treated.Hmmm...I thought everybody knew that basic fact!
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Hey Lavender, how you doing?
True that true that,those very people you treat wrong are the ones you may need to help you out of tight spots.
Salt and Pepa and anyone else in the music and show business should know nothing last forever. There are so many former performers,actors, actress, producer, managers, etc who has gone from rich to rags in the blink of an eye.
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Well, if she's not communicating with her family because of him, then she is truly on a road that will have a dead end. Mary has family here in Georgia (Savannah to be exact) some of which I have met. My BFF is actually friends with Mary's mom first cousin, and they have all hung out together. From my understanding, Mary's grandmother, is very ill and isn't expected to be around much longer. I told my friend, "I wonder if Mary will come see her grandmother before it's too late". After reading some of the stuff on this site, I doubt it, which is sad considering this is her mother's mom. Not some third or fourth cousin or somthing.
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Yeah, I know of Mary's folks in Savannah..They use to practically live in Two Guys. Mary would come down during her "what's the 411" days as did Method Man who has alluded to possibly be suffering from HIV whilst his wife is endeavouring cancer related illness.
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@MsToson:
Method Man may have the House in Virginia (HIV)? Not surprising < according to Stoopidhead (Karrine) he was Papa from her first book and I believe (don't quote me, never read the book) she had more than a few abortions for him. *** And since Karrine has been with ALMOST everyone in Black Hollywood - including DL dudes, this is just devastating. I hope it's not true about Method. Any man that has dealt with Karrine should R-U-N to the nearest clinic ASAP.
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Now, Meth did say possibly so I hope that upon getting his results that he is fine/in good health. In addition, I hope that his wife comes through because she looks to be in a lot of pain of both emotional and physical and I believe that she hasn't gotten pass the fact that Meth had dealings with Karrine but as you said, those who have had dealings with this woman needs to run to the nearest clinic.
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Ms. Toson, you 'seem' to know everyone, everything, about everyone.
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I "seem" to know everyone, everthing, about everyone...hmmm, well you make it 'seem' as if I have omnipresence...
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LMAO @ House In Virginia
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I've been trying to infer what the "House in Virgina" meant for some time. Thanks for spelling it out. I was afraid to ask because I didn't want to sound asinine. This is my second post. I've been lurking forever. I discovered this site by accident. I read an article in vibe magazine about Karrine Stephanies and I did a google search to see what all of the hype was about. Long story short, I've been here ever since.
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Hey PR Family!
I sure hope Mary is reading the boards today. We are not hating on your relationship Mary, we love you okay.
JESUS BE A PRENUP!!
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I can vouch for this blind item, I work at the club, Kendu is a regular when Mary is out of town. The club is in New York. We make good money off him.
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Wow...SMH
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Thanks for answering Part 1!
Now I just need to be sure that you are not getting paid while "Just Fine" is playing LOL.....I could not help myself! Why can't he be man enough to go to the strip club whenever Mary is in town, that right there makes it plain he is sneaky.
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We also make good money after Latifah in the club and out of the club. She rents girls out to be around her when she goes to celebrity things, the mack daddy appearance. Snoop from the wire pays up and so does Missy. Missy has a habit of falling asleep because of the drugs when we give he lap dances.
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Wow, Stripper, thanks for confirming what other insiders have said about all these ladies. Latifah is "renting" girls out...wow.
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Good Morning Peaches! Congrats on your Ballin 8 shoutout
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Good Morning Peaches and PR fam. Congrats on Baallin 8!
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Morning ItIs & Ms. Coleman. Thanks!
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Does Latifah pefer white over black? Snoop from the Wire still has money?
Missy sounds like she is on Heroin if she is nodding off and that is the WORST drug to get off of
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Latifah likes the white girls more than the black girls, tips yt girls more than us, but just so long if it's a girl is really what only matters. Was in archives and Latifah sounds like the rap girl who rented out the girls in that Kwame Kilpatrick blind item. Miss tore down and all snoop's wire money went into the stripper trade.
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So I guess her significant other doesn't mind this behavior? I thought she was about to get married to this woman, her trainer? Then again, she may be scared to question her, Latifah definitely fit the definition of lesbain woman that beats her women, i forget the name in the book....
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Latifah is a regular at the hot strip spots up and down the east coast. T-Boz was a regular in the Atlanta spots but she having money problems right now.
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He is kind of RECKLESS I would think! NY is Mary's stomping ground.....
I guess we can look forward to all hell to breaking lose when she finds out and My life part 2
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Hi PJsMommy!
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Hi pjsmommy +1. Hope you and the kids are doing well!
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Before you read this, I know for a fight that Keith Sweat beat the hell out of his ex wife. The one on the atl housewive show.
*TMZ.com cameras caught up with "Real Housewives of Atlanta" cast member Kim Zolciak outside of her home recently to discuss the threats left on her voicemail from fellow housewife Lisa Wu Hartwell.
The two ladies got into a heated argument on the set of their recent reunion show. According to TMZ, Lisa has been upset with Kim since she heard Zolciak was talking behind her back about her and her three children – two sons from singer Keith Sweat, one infant son from NFL hubby Ed Hartwell.
In a recent interview with Essence.com, Lisa said of her behavior toward Kim on the reunion show: “When you come after my integrity or my family, then you’re going to see a different person.”
On Kim's voicemail, Lisa can be heard saying: "I am not the one -- you need to call me. I might just be coming to your house."
Lisa Wu Hartwell
Kim, who says she is 30, has consulted a lawyer and is considering taking legal action. A rep from Bravo tells TMZ this situation is a personal matter and they don't get involved in personal matters.
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early in the morning, I should have said, I know for a "fact"
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is it true kieth sweat has custody of thier children >?
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yes, he has custody of their children and will not allow them on the tv show--much to her chagrin.
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I read somewhere that the two of them (Kim and Lisa) actually fought! So that may be the reason why Kim was contacting her lawyer!! She will probably try to get Lisa blackballed in ATL as well... (If Big Poppa has that much clout!) lol Lisa has some guns on her though so, if that's really true, wonder who won?
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Supposedly, Big Poppa and Kim are no longer together.
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I saw that clip and that lawyer looked really suspect, as in: I was given a shower, a suit, sunglasses, hair gel, and was told to meet this chick and read from this paper. I was going to say he looks like a slimy used car salesman but I did not want to insult them.
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"I know for a fact that Keith Sweat beat the hell out of his ex wife"....
and for some reason a slew of women are still trying to hollar at this fool!
I tell you some women need to get a clue.
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Myra, I'm loving that Dubai black card and the 5 million gift card is awesome. The secret service needs to be arresting Floyd since he loves to make it rain with counterfeit and pays his employees with counterfeit.
He's so loud and garish. Always out to prove himself, really insecure, everyone has to know he's Floyd and carries ten grand at all times and drives Ferrari's and Lambo's.
Chili from TLC must feel stupid because he's still after Kim and has been sleeping with Chili up until last week. Would love to see her expression after she reads the front page.
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AfterDark - Floyd may have said this more than once, but I heard him say it for myself while he was on the radio in ATL in May. He & Vivica were going to be hosting a party that night. I don't know if he & Chili were sleeping together @ that time.
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Appears the answer to this BI 'is in front of us':
BALLER STYLE:
This black celebrity has always felt overlooked, to compensate, he makes outrageous purchases to bring attention to himself and he struts around with swagger and arrogance. Despite his success, he's recognized but he's never among the names of his fellow heavyweights.
When he hits a dry spell, he goes into financial despair. He unloads his expensive toys but when his career jump starts, he purchases newer luxury toys.
People who work for him are not a priority. If it comes down to him purchasing a new Rolls Royce or making payroll, he's purchasing the new RR. He treats staff with disdain and has the attitude that he's better than them.
Instead of treating staff fairly, he'd rather blow money at gentlemen clubs. He's often seen in the company of a rapper who loves strip clubs. These two are main fixtures despite having women at home.
On their latest strip club outing, they threw a combined $100,000 away, making it rain on the strippers. They also paid for lap dances in the private VIP room and ordered up thousands of dollars worth of Dom Perignon.
Who are they?
Hint: Ludacris is neither man
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Good job Trinity! He did mention on the radio that he would be "making it rain"
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OK, now i'm confused.
Who is the blind item?
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Floyd
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HAHA....thats definitely on point...also him an vivica hosting an event...he's good friends with 50, but I guess that has nothing to do with his business matters, assuming his gig with viv is business, I think the rapper the BI refers to that hangs with him is 50 As well....
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I guess "heavyweights" was a boxing clue.
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ya think....lol
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Me thinks, lol!
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LOL again
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OK, I’m confused, didn’t someone on here say that Floyd promised Kim a Ferrari, than pumped and dumped her, without giving her the vehicle?
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Yes, that was what was said. If I remember correct, Floyd saw Reggie & Kim out together. She flirted with Floyd, he ran game on her by mentioning a Ferrari (or some expensive car). She went home with Floyd that night. He hit it and bounced. Then allegedly said she was lousy in bed.
Now he's saying he'll fight Reggie over Kim. I honestly think this is more about something Floyd may have against Reggie than it has to do with Kim. She's just a pawn in the game, if I'm reading between the lines right.
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Good Morning All,
TGIF I feel good about this one I will go with Kendu and Salts Husband.
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CSI Crew on it, as usual!
SUP PR MASSIVE!
Wasn't Kendu some sort of Spirtual Guide for Mary as well? Or am I confusing him with that nutball that had Lauryn Hill under his sway?
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Happy Friday Drunken1!
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Same to you ms coleman! Been waiting for this day all week!
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@ Drunken1 Morning fellow BUCKEYE**waving**
H-E-L-P did I do something wrong? I am only allowed to comment once per minute.
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Morning Rida!
I'm still hype off The Cavs Come from behind MOLLY WOPPING of the Nuggets yesterday! Mo Williams and Delante West and LeBron was getting it in yesterday!
You ready for this snow we suppoda get Sunday?
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Yea, that was a good game, how do you think our season gonna end? Dare I say it?????Championshi.....
Please, don't mention the "S" word to me. I am so in denial, that somehow it's gonna totally miss us one year. That freaking ice storm last year was ridiculous!
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*waving pom-poms frantically*GO BENGALS!
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Hmm I'ma go with Wendy Williams and her nasty husband (he's been known to "stray", remember that "sex tape"),and there really was only one rap trio of females, and only one is married, so unfortunately I'ma go with Salt's husband, sad though, cuz I really respect Salt, and I would've never guessed this about their relationship. SMH
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Wendy is a friend to the site. There won't be any BIs about her. Happy Friday
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yeah I forgot wendy is cool with the site, she's read BI's on her site before and talks about how much she loves PR...DUH.... when then I'm officially jumping on the Kendu bandwagon....I personally think MJB can do better...I never found Kendu very attractive...
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hi p dyse ,
how are you ? any news pertaining to Mia?
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no not yet, all the information I get is from my husband and his sister, I've never met her, but as far as what i can gather, there isnt any new news, it's horrible, like she vanished. I don't believe her bf has been found either, I believe he's on the run? and the police would like to question him so that looks suspicious of course. I just continuously pray for her safety, but thanks for asking.
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Hey PR!
I cosign for the BI - Mary/Kendu, and Salt's husband.
Can someone fill me in on Mia??
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Hello Good morning. It looks like the BI is solid! lol No "nots." And I dont know of any other female rap trios than Salt, Pepa and Spindy. And men want to call women goldiggers like it can only go one way. Its a shame some men dont have no hustle in their bones and would rather sit at home on their butts and sponge off of successful women. That cant make you feel too manly. SMH. I'll never understand it.
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Hi BMR. Happy Friday to you!
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@ Teina,
Hey lady! ***waving*** Im sorry I didnt reply earlier, I had to go and pick the lil misses up from school. Happy Friday to you to ma!
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Thank you, and have a great weekend!
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How can you be a "kept" man or woman and have the nerve to cheat? You are being paid for your companionship and devotion! That's the one simple job you have and you can't even do it correctly? Whoever it is, he needs to be cut from that star's life as if he never existed.
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Good morning everyone
After Dark Crew, thanks for that info. I thought that Floyd was dating keyshia cole? He talked all of that mess about kim being the worst lay he's ever had and he's still after her SMH.
Anon2, I had a feeling that keith was abusive toward lisa. In a sister 2 sister article she said that he got custody of the kids because they felt that her job being an up and coming actress was not stable enough for the boys. Kim needs to shut the hell up because it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that big poppa is married and her azz can't sing to save her life so who is she to talk about any damn body. I hope that she's saving some of this money that she's getting from him.
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Morning prettyp **waving my morning TGIF POM-POM'S** hope your day is going great so far!
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I head the same thing! When you see her guns(arm muscles) It kinda makes sense!! She's so small, she has to have some kind of self defense skill!!!! And her husband now is WAAY bigger than Keith, but it looks as if she has HIM whipped... Looks like he has an alter ego though...who knows!!!
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...and her husband is FINE. You should have seen him those Rondu calendars. LORD have mercy. She may have him whipped as you say but I feel that to some degree, Lisa may have upgraded. The only thing negative about him that I have heard of thus far is his minor run in with the Atlanta Police Dept for driving offenses including the one where he had accosted an officer for pulling him over.
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Mary J Blige & Kendu Issacs
Salt from Salt N. Pepa's husband Gavin
Here's the link:
http://www.crunktastical.net/2008/11/12/kci/
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She was pissed because me and the other girls got our cash quick but she felt Kendu stiffed her, I think he ran out for the night and wasn't no ATM around for him to reup.
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So she wouldn't be spilling the dirt if she'd have gotten her money, huh? Oh well, this just confirms everyone's guess. Thanks for the link, Breezy!
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Well damn! that link basically confirms this BI. I feel bad for Mary, loves her dearly, but, that man looked shady to me from the word GO! I hope she doesn't go back to her old ways, once she figures out what the real deal is, if she doesn't already know. Galvin seemed sneaky to me also, especially on that reality show they did. He was too freaking quiet. Man speak up!
I would be mad as hell, if my hubby was up in the strip club tossin my hard working dollars around all willie nillie and thangs!
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i am 1000% sure this is mary j's hubby and salt's hubby. I always believed mary's man would take a left. he looked the part.and anytime you marry "a good church man", Look out.
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@ ADC,
Is Floyd mentally ill for actually paying his employees with counterfeit money? Did he not think it would trace back to him? Stupid for real. And it figures he would be after Kim. When both of you are bad lays, neither one of you can complain.
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I've never been around someone like Floyd before, has to let everyone know 24/7 he is top dog, he has the most money, he has the flashiest cars and he's cheating on Keyshia with Chili, this may cause a wild out in the ATL.
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But, why oh why would he want to fight anyone for KK? Just for bragging rights?
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Floyd walks around at 145lbs and is 5'7". Reggie's WAY bigger than that (6' & 200lbs). Floyd's got boxing skills and would probably get some hits in, but Reggie would whoop that a**; he's way too big for lil' Floyd. Floyd must think that Reggie's a Grade-A punk if he's threatening to whoop his a** over Kim K.
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That's very old news regarding Floyd and Kim as well as the fake money
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This "old news" regarding Floyd and Kim is on the front page, thus the reason it's one of the topics of discussion.
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I am a long time lurker. And I think that this was talked about the other day. IMO it's Kendu and Salt's husband. Yea!!! It feels good to have a comment on the board.
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Welcome.
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LOL @ Black Mai Rose!!! Do you know something that we don't or is it known that him and ray-j have more in common than just banging kim? I'm sure that floyd is not a porno star himself to be talking about someone else.
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Hey Prettyprincess ma!
Girl, I heard from a friend of a friend that slept with him and she says he is not so good in bed. He's kinda kinky when it comes to pleasing him because he likes to receive and is really bad in reciprocating...be it a good ride, oral, or 3 mins instead of 2. Guess he feels like his fame speaks for itself and any woman should be thrilled just to have him in the bed. Wrong lil daddy! He would get the cold shoulder for real. If he want to roll over and play dead, I can do the same. I could get right on his level, he want to play! lol
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Good Morning All,
TGIF I feel good about this one I will go with Kendu and Salts Husband.
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Mary and Kendu
Salt
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I have been a lurker I know for at least a year and I'm truly addicted to this site! You guys have me crying because of all the funny comments! Thanks for the entertainment!
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Kendu/Mary J. Blige or
Nick Cannon/Mariah Carey.
Salt-N-Pepa/If Salt was still married to Treach, I would say him because he was a trip and an abuser-- Not sure if Spin is married or not/Pepa Husband in the church, but that don't mean a thing! (peeping the reality show on VH1)
Plus, I don't see Run/Joseph stepping out on Justine and if so, he need to get rid of his collar!
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This bi definetely sounds like Scary Spice's husband to me. He is so shady looking and gross. Looks like he would live in strip clubs.Don't know why cuz she has a bangin body.
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Good Morning everyone! My first thought after reading this was Kendu, W.Willams' husband Kevin, and Gavin- Salt's husband. Does anyone know what really happened to her show? I know that the assistant and WW were kinda "close"... is this a case of a woman scorned? Or a threesome gone awfully wrong?
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WW and Charlemagne have a video up with them together after he was "let go" and they both basically confirm it was due to Budget Cuts, and was definitely not Wendy's choice, and that he will be making geust appearances on her TV show, which she says is a seperate entity from her radio show.
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I thought the firings were a direct fallout from the settlement! Does anyone know how much WBLS had to pay? If they settled, is that some sort of admission of SOME kind of guilt? It's sad how Charlemagne Was Charlemagne involved some way? He always seemed a lil corny, but Idk... Why fire Trav and Taryn? Would WBLS rather risk losing loyal listeners in order to make conditions so unbearable for her that she would just leave? That seems to be what WBLS is doing...
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Hi Friend...i still don't believe that WW is telling the whole story about why Charlemagne and TrevH were fired.Don't hold me to this but WW and Kev bullied BLS into taking on C and the suits never wanted C there in the first place.On the air they talked and made jokes about how mgmt ignored C for almost a year until they found a "creative" way to get rid of him.I liked TrevH and i'm sure that his newlywed wife is less than thrilled that he's unemployed.
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Hey my fave cyber kitty! *waving* I hardly ever catch WW b/c I'm either at work or in transit when she's on, but I never could figure out why Charlemagne was brought on. He was okay, but he didn't add anything significant to the show. Usually, sidekicks have an "opposite" persona that the host can play off of, but I didn't see that with WW & C. He wasn't bad, but he didn't make much of a difference when I heard him.
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These blind items will drive u crazy.. it could be SO many people...
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@Micahsmum
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Thanks so much for the input I will take ur advice because books are expensive I will try and buy Kimberla Roby last book see how that goes. I guess she couldn't come up with the same ghost writer oh well thanks a bunch and have a great weekend
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No problem! If you come across a good novel holla...
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After thinking about this BI for a moment, I have to say that a good therapist seems to be just as important as a good fixer to a celebrity's health and well being. A good fixer can protect one's reputation and bank account, but he or she cannot repair the emotional damage inflicted by a celebrity's poor choices. And seeing a therapist on a regular basis can provide a celebrity with the stability and emotional support that he or she might not be able to get from shady relatives and faithless partners. And because there are so many crackpot "healers" out there, it'd probably be a good idea for a celebrity to go to someone who is licensed and has a Ph.D.
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I totally agree digital femme. This is soo necessary. These women are so lonely and come from such dysfunctional environments, just to have a man come home every day is winning to them. Faith aint no better than Mary, IMO. Her hubby USED to be an A&R at BIV 10 but that was umpteen years ago. WHAT has he done lately?? I guess Mary should write a book, maybe that would be therapy for her. Sadly in MJB's case both her family and Caint du are toxic people. So sad for her.
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If they all had therapists celeb blogs would be out of business and we'd all have to get back to work. LOL
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Mary J. Blige/ Kendu & Salt of Salt & Pepper's hubby....
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Mary J. Blige/ Kendu & Salt of Salt & Pepper's hubby....
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mary j and salt should watch the show CHEATERS.i'll bet that would be a barrel of laughs.
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Does anyone remember a poster saying that when Mary got with Mr. Lucky Kendon't that she paid for his divorce and paid the exwife a hefty settlement?
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I do remember rumblings surrounding that.
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Hello everybody, long, long, long time lurker, but I beleive i got this one right; Mary J's husband and Salt's husband
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Did anyone hear that KWeezy got arrested in London this morning? He must really have some unresolved anger management issues....It's sad to see him acting like that....
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Hi Panachigans: Without a doubt,this BI is Kendu and Salt's husband,Gavin.I am not surprised....Kendu always struck me as being kinda shady and i have a problem with your hubby also acting as manager...ask WendyW!
Back to lurking!
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Meow OrangeKat, hope everything is everything with you!
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Waving my paw...feeling good today and its good to hear about your MIL.You've been on a roll...that pompom thing...lol
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**Waving my POM-POM'S for you**, glad to hear your feeling good today!
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Happy Friday Kitten! ♥
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Hey Okat!
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Hey OrangeK- glad you are feeling better. Sounds like you are in much better spirits. Have an awesome day!
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*waves @ Eye*
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Waving right back at you- have a fantastic weekend doll!
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Good Morning P-Dyse,
Will cont to pray for you and your family hope something good will happen for you this weekend
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mornin all....I'm going w/ Kendu and Mary
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Yall are so funny
I thought of Mary J. Blige for the female, Kendu for the cheating man and Salt (Female rapper trio)
her husband as the other cheating man.
Plus I can't think of another rapping trio. Do yall remember when Pepa came to stay with Salt for a few days or whateva until her place was finished being painted/renovated? Well she had that big picture of her naked and her husband kept looking at it?! I was like what the heck are u doing? stop it. Salt didn't say anything to him. He kept taking the cover off and looking at it. Not sure if any of them have been notted but those are who I thought of first.
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Zackly, wasn't that the episode where Pepa and Galvin, and the boys was playing cards late into the morning, and Salt came down salty
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Hello everyone!
Yes I am not feeling sorry for Mary at all. It's bascially a case of "you get what you pay for".
I still would not wish this on my worst enemy though, it's not fair to do this to anyone.
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Its sad to me about Mary
its like she keeps attracting these same type of men to her. I wish her the best and someone who will treat her like a queen.
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Hello Anon
By any chance you know why Kim and Lisa aren't getting along? How many episods before we get to the reunion. Last one I seen was NeNe paternity test
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Not Anon but I've been reading that Kim has been saying things about Lisa regarding the fact that she was a drug addict and that's the reason she did not get her kids from Mr. Sweat. Don't know if its true but that's what some blogs are showing.
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Thanks I appreciate it drug addict huh I couldn't set up the adobe so I couldn't hear it, I thought maybe she couldn't provide for them financially, emotionally unstable or maybe just trifling
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Wasn't Lisa the one who ran to tell Kim that Nene was talking about her? Why did she think that Kim would not turn on her as well?
Kim needs to be banned from Real Housewives ATL...she is the token that can not act right.
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Lisa told Sheree & Sheree told Kim
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Thanks I appreciate it drug addict huh I couldn't set up the adobe so I couldn't hear it, I thought maybe she couldn't provide for them financially, emotionally unstable I have no clue find it strange she didn't have them. Keith Sweat woman beater huh thats crazy was in love with his voice and I love that new song with him and Keyshia Shame on him
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when i watched salt-n-pepa's show...always looked to me like salt's husband would much rather be with a chick like pep.
her hubby was the first to come to mind...although myra...salt-n-pepa (if this is right) are not a trio...spin is the dj...and they said as much...LOL sorry, just had to point that one out.
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[EDITED Nov. 13, 2008 11:17 AM]
A couple of loyal readers hit me up about this show yesterday. “Brothers to Brutha” premiered on BET Tuesday night. The show follows the career of five biological brothers who formed a singing group mentored by Jermaine Dupri.
Shakir Stewart, who signed the brothers to Def Jam, filmed his scenes in the show while he was still lucid. It’s interesting to note that Brutha attended Stewart’s private Memorial in Atlanta last week while his longtime boss and mentor, L.A. Reid, did not attend.
Apparently, top tier celebrities had to pitch in to help pay Stewart’s funeral expenses because Reid refused to even take calls from the family. There’s a special place in hell reserved for people like Reid who put money and self over a lifetime of dedication and loyalty.
I promised I was going to reveal more details about Shakir Stewart’s untimely death and the turn of events that led up to it. But in order to do that I would have to reveal a certain aspect of his life that is of a sensitive nature and can’t be written without casting Stewart in a negative light.
Out of respect for the family, I will leave that alone.
I’ve heard crazy allegations that Stewart was running from a certain rapper and armed gang bangers. But it’s a rare man who takes his own life because another man is gunning for him.
Men usually take their lives over money, lost pride or lost love — not because they fear another man. According to Stewart’s close friends, he was a man’s man with a strong sense of pride. And he remained that way until the day he died.
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I'd like to hear more about this story. I know there is more than meets the eye. SO you say that LA Reid wouldn't chip in to pay for the funeral but didn't Shakir have his own money? He was wealthy right... I'm confused as to why other people had to pay for the service.
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I saw on another site, that's known 4 not being truthful,thatKim and Big Poppa are kaput.She say's he was in the process of a divorce and that he's not black.Also wondering how Michael Knight's collection is going since appearing on Project Runway.I still think he got robbed by giving the title to Mr Thick Neck Jeffery,boy did I hate him and his designs
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I agree. They used the "too young" excuse too many times on project runway. But I did see Micheal named the best jewelry designer for men last year in Black Enterprise.
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Hello Everyone!
I need to understand Reggie Bush's fascination with wifing a woman of such ill-repute.
I mean if it's a white girl with dark features that he wanted, he couldn't get something better that used goods whored-out ass????
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LMAO!! i think there is a certain lack of self-esteem for this man. Used goods is putting that very nicely. the fact that you would even consider wifing an industry whore makes me wonder where the heck his family is??? where is mom dukes???? if he was my brother we would be having a family intervention!! we are not welcoming bottomfeeding skanks!!
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Thank You!!!
I mean right out the gate, he lands the biggest whore of the land!!!
Talk about having your priorities ass-backward.
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Its funny, but I met his mom and Step dad when he won the Heisman in 2005. They seemed to very grounded and down to earth(they still worked at the post office)and Reggie seemed to be a bit quiet. At that time he had his girlfiend with him who was cool and down to earth as well...not sure what happened. Maybe the money and the fame went to his head...idk
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My guess is that Reggie has been ovecome by Kim's good looks. As promiscuous as she has been, she's still a very beautfiful woman.
And I wouldn't doubt for one second that she probably caters to his every need which is doing WONDERS for his ego.
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well if so, she must have improved a great deal from that ray-j video, because she was BORING at that time in her life... every man I know that seen it was like all that A** and don't know how to use it...so either she's improved, or he's not sexually experienced to know the difference between good sex and lackluster sex....
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I don't think that Mr. Bush is not sexually experienced to know the difference...but that is just my assessment from considering him as a young man who appears to not be able to "throw it" yet.
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How do you know what Kim looks like?
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I shall beg to differ here!!! Kim is not beautiful with a faceful of her ever-present pancake makeup. She is make-up pretty...NOT beautiful.
so i would bet she's not even ok without it...and thats based on the amount she wears. she's not rocking in little lip gloss...its full on face in every pic you see of her.
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I Found this info on sandrarose.com
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Toni Braxton and Salt
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Toni Braxton and Salt
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Would this be L.A. Reid that wouldn't help in the expense of Mr.Stewart's death.I thought he was an okay dude
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I heard he spent 1.3 million on that low self esteemed fat son of his for his sweet 16 on MTV and the original Goldigger, Pebbles Aka sister Perri. Karma comes round midnight becuz she got dug out by ole' Otis the crackhead baseball player with the million dollar bod and the low rent face. His will come soon as well I am sure of it. I hear that troubled man worked very hard for LA Reid. His family, can come up with something, I hope.
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I heard he spent 1.3 million on that low self esteemed fat son of his for his sweet 16 on MTV and the original Goldigger, Pebbles Aka sister Perri. Karma comes round midnight becuz she got dug out by ole' Otis the crackhead baseball player with the million dollar bod and the low rent face. His will come soon as well I am sure of it. I hear that troubled man worked very hard for LA Reid. His family, can come up with something, I hope.
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Bullrida how have you been doin? And thank you for agreeing with me I love me some Mary just like every other women in the world! HELL i thought she was singing about my life when she sung some of her songs!! haha I was like mary you must have one of my girls on speed dial because I swear you are singing about my sitation. Lawchick if you go up top you will see that the bi is mary and salts husbands on the dancers wrote to Nicole B and told her all the details of the two men. Bull whats up with a Cleveland party?
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Hey BLACK DIVA, I'm good, just got back in from lunch and got that sleepitis thing going on now. I do love me some Mary, I'm like you, she's had to have been on the red phone a few times, writing songs about me for me
IDK what's going on with a Cleveland party, it would be fun if this came about though!
How's things with you?
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Poor Mary. She has very low self esteem, and it may contribute to her bad choices in men. Plus, Mary J mentioned on a show that she can not read, which makes me wonder if she's that knowledgable about her contract dealing. For all we know, money can be slipping under her nose and she may not even know. She seems to have a lot of enablers around her and that's probably why she's always on tour trying to pay the bills.
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Wow, Mary can't read? I guess that helps explain why she doesn't write any of her songs (I think I read on here that she doesn't write any of her lyrics.) She better do like Arruh, and have someone write her lyrics/poetry down for her. Or better yet, do like Beyonce, just insist that she receive some writing credits.
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Yeap this sounds like MJB,Kendu & Salt.
As for the front page. It seems like when exotic cars and luxury gifts and major dollars are exchanged you are being "pursued" and "dating." But I am sorry, still sounds like being "purchased" and "fruckin" to me.
Oh fo sho, if given the choice, who wouldnt rather be a plaything on a yacht in the South of France as opposed to some crappy street corner in Detroit, but at the end of the day, it's all prostitution and I can't help but think you walk away feeling the same way no matter the dollars involved. Okay, not quite the same because you are gettin paid WAY more money. LOL But spiritually I would imagine you are about in the same place.
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@ I luv Michelle
Yes I think that was the episode
how are you?
@ Mean one I feel you on that one. I've been thinking about other groups since I read your posts.
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I'm fine Africagem, and you? Just waiting for 5:00, cause it's Friday, and I don't have to work tomorrow, so I can actually get some rest
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I'm also sad for Salt
she deserves better
my favorite you're my favorite
that whole post in itself is intelligence at its best. you are really teling the truth. Its sad that men and women are both doing things like that just to be used. They think its different because supposedly its not anything sexually but you're getting paid for what reason? Why do you need that to validate who you are? Money is the root. Blinded by the dollar bill which is all a lie of webs the majority of us are caught in.
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Shoutout to everyone who made it into Ballin 8!!!!
I think my views on this type of thing have changed over the years. I think that every relationship involves some form of exchange whether implicit or explicit. No one gets absolutely nothing from it (well, maybe Mary and Salt). Example: Naomi and Billionaire boyfriend. Naomi exchanges the experience and privilege of being with one of the greatest supermodels EVER. Boyfriend exchanges experience of being with man who can provide financial security and companionship etc. Sounds like a win-win situation to me. I don't see it as being used because there seems to be a clear understanding of what is going on. These women are going to "date" one way or the other. I would rather see these women getting something out of the situation than end up like Mary, Faith, Vivica, Kim Porter, Lil Kim, Foxy, and everyone else in the BI archives-- damaged goods who will have to scrap the bottom of the barrel for a man due to their reputations. Real men would feel honored to shower a woman of interest with tokens of affection. A woman should have her own but there is nothing wrong with a man showing his admiration for a woman's beauty, intelligence, femininity etc.-- it's no different than being sent flowers from an admirer except these gifts cost a hell of a lot more. What's even more pleasing is that these gifts are no-strings attached! Men should show that they appreciate women with tangible and intangible things
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I hear ya gurl, but I still think all these women are on the stroll, their price tag is just higher. I mean the objective is still the same, keeping their lights on. These women just live in better neighborhoods and have bigger expenses. However, I am not including the relationship Naomi is currently in because this seems to be a longterm deal. It doesn't appear to be an arrangement, I didnt think those type of arrangements were as lengthy as their relationship appears to be but maybe one of the pros can school me on that. However, I do believe when you are in a relationship, no matter what your man's income level, he should splurge on you within his means. So I am in no way suggesting to you that gifts should not be a part of courtship. And I am aware, especially as you get older, sometimes relationships are moreso pragmatic tradeoffs more than anything. But this isnt what those chicks are doing over in Europe. Those chicks are just slangin it for more dough. If they could get away with doing it here on the low for the same amount of money - and most importantly DISCRETION - so they wouldnt harm their reputations or careers, they would. Because if they were so proud of doing it in the first place they wouldnt be creepin to Europe to do it. I mean to each his or her own, and I am no saint to judge, but let's be real. I mean yeah you have lemon used car dealers and luxury car dealers, but at the end of the day they are all in auto sales. Now having said all that, if given the limited options, OF COURSE I would prefer to be a luxury car dealer and a high end call girl/escort over the other choices, but I would hope I could be honest with myself as to what I was really doing. I hope. LOL
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Okay, I see where you are coming from and you have a valid point. Mariah and Naomi are the only ones who didn't need the money. Mariah wrote darn near every song of hers and she makes bank of of the royalties and I am sure she got a nice divorce settlement from Tommy. Naomi was making like $10,000 ( I won't get of bed for less than $10,000 90's super model) per day modeling and she has always surrounded herself with rich folk. In fact, I don't even think she grew up poor. especially if her mother left to go on tour and left her with a full-time nanny. As for Eve, she was hooking oversees according to some insiders but it seems like she has elevated to where people are just sending her stuff no strings attached. I have to give her credit, not many women go from a hoodrat stripper to being in the circle of wealthy and powerful men. Kelly should have a lot of Destiny's Child money so I find it VERY strange that she is going over to Europe to entertain. I do believe she is hooking but she really has no excuse -- should have invested the pennies she was given. I think in today's society, there is a very fine line between dating and prostituting. Naomi and Mariah dated. Eve and Kelly are prostituting.
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Mariah and Naomi should read "were dating" Eve should read was prostituting. Kelly should read "is prostituting"
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Hey Philly(waving) see now, if the BI was about her, before Miriah was "dating" she was "prostituting" and married one of her famous clients. And every time I see her in one of her outfits, all I can say is hmmm.
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I couldn't said it better myself. Please pass this around to those who think because you aint out on the track you aint hoeing.
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It is an market for appearance fees disguised as dates with rich men with no sex. Eve and Kelly are not in this category, the other two are but Naomi is sidelined because she has the billionaire and Mariah has Nick.
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Thanks ADC.
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Thanks for clearing that up for me philly girl.
LOL rich.
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It's so many overseas sex markets, lets see, forced with overseas white slavery, willing like a lot of former blonde playmates do, go over there and be call girls and then you have a niche market with the guys paying the girls to be out in public with them, minus sex.
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Hi BP - Now I have read in Cosmo how the Sultan and Saudi Royals hire playmates and former beauty queens under contract. How they prep the "chosen" ones for sex. Quite interesting to say the least. LOL
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I hate when you guys have this conversation b/c I'm always left questioning if I'm a non-prostitute prostitute.
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Can't breathe! Laughing too hard
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Don't laugh at me too hard Eye.
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This is definetely a conversation for cocktails, girl your personality really shows in your posts! Will have to use that phrase in further discussions "economies of dating & marriage"!Still laughing- in the words of Blessed woman...thank you for being you family!
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LOL!!!!
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@ tryvelgyrl'stwin
I didn't like Jeffrey either
I thought Michael was going to win I wanted him to win anyway. Some of Uli's clothes were nice but jeffrey? come on his stuff was not cute.
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No one black has never won
not playing the card being real
this season Korto was the best and out of the four the other girl won?
come on
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Yup, Korto was the best but they gave it to Leanne with her petal loving self.
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Hey hey hey!
How is everyone today?
Mary? Humph! You are too old not to know better. You better bash Mr's head in and think about heaven later.
-Welcome Stripper! Please feel free to stay and join us at every BI party
-I saw Jazzy Pha at Cafe Intermezzo last night. That dude is round.
-OT: Was listening to the radio this morning and Neyo is on...he's asked about his "significant other"...Im going to assume that he and Lloyd are an item 1) He kept saying "im not married" but he never denied he was in a relationship
2) his "other" kept being referred to as "they" and you know what that means.
-Come on!!!! Neyo--you and Prissy are playing with our emotions. Come out already--it would be kind of neat to me...*shugs*
-Congrats to the PR posters who are now celebs and will be featured in Ballin' 8.
-Roy Jones: So did he sleep with Kim or not--you guys think he's just being country a** Roy or what?
-Khloe?
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Hey Atlp,
I saw Lloyd aka Prissy recently as I was on my way to pick up my son from school on Atlanta road. I think he lives in one of the townhomes there. He was driving a white Mclaren benz with the top down and had an older man who looked like his father in the passenger seat next to him. We were at a light and he asked me my name and was basically flirting with me. I didn't catch any down low or gay vibe from him. Are we sure Prissy isn't Omarion before he cut his hair off?
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hey! Yes we are certain that Prissy is Lloyd. Lit confirmed it and dropped that bombshell.
*untangling ribbons*
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I know I read it too but....but....he was flirting with me....ok....maybe he wanted to know where I got my hair done at or give me tips on how to get my hair as bouncy and shiny as his....lol. Dang, I should've given him my # just to see if we'd become shopping buddies or something....ha....kinda like Nene and Dwight.
He's a cutie, such a darn shame that he's....uhmmmm....you know...Prissy.
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lol..Dwight is the new it girl. I hate his hair though. He's funny however.
-as for Prissy's Hair...three letters: C-H-I
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Wait, are you calling Chicago out as being country? If you are, that would be correct! LOL
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Hey Teina Baby! You are so killing me this weekend. CHI= brand of hair care products not Chicago is contry- ROFLMBAO!I so heart you!
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Go to Atlantic Station sometimes, you may catch him walking through Dilliard's...
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Oh my goodness ATLPrincess - Jazzy Pha looks like a HUGE human M&M. Just round everywhere - face, body. I get out of breath just watching him walk.
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You can find Fatty Pha almost anywhere in Atlanta, you can's miss his round no neck having self in this city. He's always rolling everywhere....lol.
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Good Gravy!!!
Not a human M&M???
stick a fork in me....
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lol..girl he squeezed into a bentley coupe..*slaps my own hand*. Jazzy is a talented though..
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"squeezed into a bently coupe" - corner for you young lady!!!
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*walking*...*wondering who helped push him out*
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Hi girly whirly! Wishing you a great weekend! OK, you saw Jazzy AT the Cafe, but please clarify, was he outside the Cafe, or inside, meaning he fit through the door? Are you saying that Roy Jones is another of KKK's suitors? I only want one thing for Christmas and that's a box of fancy smelling salts. And of course, lol @ "-Khloe?" Pretty soon you'll be able to type "-?" and all the PR regulars will know what you mean!
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Good Afternoon Panache Family, longtime reader but never post. I feel for Mary to see the light. I work in music, young 20s man. I used to deal with her when it was convient for her and she is a really cool lady. When she hooked up with Kendu I was crushed, not out of jealously but because I felt he had a devilish vibe, like he was seasoned not original. On top of that I knew for a fact they didn't have much fun together, being that I was told my age was an issue it seems he is the childish one now.
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welcome!
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Hi GentlemanFirst! Can I say that the tone of your post certainly lives up to your moniker. You speak about an ex, but the first thing you say is you feel for her and still call her a really cool lady. And your issue with Kendu isn't that you're not in his position, but rather that he was just off. I like your attitude. Like ATLPrincess said, welcome and come out and play more often.
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Korte's clothes were nice.I never really thought about it but there hasn't ever been a minner that was Black.But I have to admit the little gay guy that won season before last was hilarious,didn't really watch that season because I was boycotting the Michael thing.
Was wondering if anyone heard when Monique was doing a show and she mentioned that she was the saver and her husband was the spender.She was laughing (or playing it off ) when she mentioned this.Saying how Sydney got jealous hen she bought herself an outfit and had to lie about when she bought it.Why would you have to lie when it's money that you made?
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I guess BET is still only hiring latinas to host its shows. I read somewhere that Angie Martinez is hosting her own show on there now. I like Angie Martinez okay enuf, but damn, what does a sistah have to do to get a gig on that network these days? I mean if the trade off is Angie and Wacksi gets the boot, I'm cool. But both? That's just too much. Shame on BET.
BET execs really do hate African American women. Sad. At a time when the world is embracing America's first black president and first lady, BET is still doin that 80s color struck ish. smdh.
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Yeah..thats crazy...esp since their CEO is a black woman....smh... I have much respect for the accomplishments of Miss. Debra Lee... but I dont see how she can be okay with this....I guess green is the most important color....
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I gather the same notion. Not to jump off the subject,in addition to Ms. Lee, I am also proud of the accomplishments of the another black woman (her name evades me right now) in the automotive design industry. She is now Director/Head of General Motors.
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Coming out of lurkmode.........as someone formerly from around the way, it was common knowledge that Gavin cheated on Salt from the beginning of the relationship until now........He supposedly had women in their home when she was away. A friend and I were talking on the phone when the reality show was on and we were both more than surprised that they were still together because there is no way Salt could not have heard stories all these years. Guess it's the same way I will be surprised if 10 years from now Kendu & Mary were still together.
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This is definitely Mary, Kendu, and Salt's husband. I'm just not understanding why men can't control their lustful desires outside of their wives. Just because you're grown and of consenting age doesn't mean you should indulge. Respect your vows. Unless of course Mary is aware of her husband's activities and they have an understanding. Same thing for Salt's husband
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aw man, I had no clue for the BI, but Salt and Mary J. are two ladies in the industry that I was so happy to hear that they finally found 'the one'. This is disheartening. I feel that neither deserve this, if true.
man...
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Hello all...coming our of lurkmode for just one minute.
I will join the crew in the BI answers and say Kendu (shame,shame) and Gavin.
A few years ago, my girlfriend and I were at a club in Manhattan and ran into Salt's husband Gavin. My girlfriend knew Gavin for several years when S & P owned a pool hall/club back in the late 80's - early 90's.
We hung with Gavin and his friends in a VIP section in the club drinking champagne, he was having a good time, nothing like what you see on t.v. Towards the end of the night he whispers in my friends ear asking her if she wanted to go to the hotel with him. She politely declined - and we left.
She said Salt was always a bit of an uptight "B" and that Pepa was always the down to earth approachable one. Because Salt is slightly older than her husband my friend felt as if Salt got with him because she could control him, plus he wasn't in the industry and didn't know all of her "dirt", almost like he was a little starstuck.
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Well H-E-L-L-O stranger**waving** I kinda figured that Salt was older than Gavin. She should have known, better IMO.
Hope all is well for you!
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HEELLLOOOO
All is good - How are you my dear?
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That's good to hear. Everything is good with me, just watching this clock for the next 2 1/2 hrs. It's been a long week. I am running away from here @ 5.
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I feel ya, this was a long week for me - even though I was off on Tuesday.
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*waving to BrookLynn*
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Hi Brook. *waving* We've missed you.
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@Tenia & Ms. Coleman...
Hello ladies
***hugs to you both***
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Wasn't it mentioned somewhere that Mary J Blige was a friend to this site?
If this is true than I am going with the Toni Braxton guess.
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HEY! HELLO TO ALL THE NEW PEEPS. I AM MOSTLY A LURKER BUT POST FROM TIME TO TME WHEN I HAVE SOMETHING OF SUBSTANCE TO ADD. WE KEEP IT GROWN AND SEXY AND SOME INSIDERS HAVE SOME REAL LOW LOW.
I SEE SALT AS A SELF RIGHTEOUS UMM FEMALE TOO. I WAS REALLY SHOCKED AT HER BEHAVIOR ON THE SHOW. I ALWAYS THOUGHT SHE WAS THE COOL ONE. SANDI IS A BIT TOO CHILDISH, BUT SHE SEEMS COOL AND JUST WANTS TO HAVE FUN. SHE MEANS NO HARM BUT NEEDS TO GROW UP IMO.
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I AM NOT SURE IF MJB IS A FRIEND. SHE HAS NOT BEEN NOTTED AND THAT IS THE MAJORITY'S GUESS. PLUS IT ALSO APPEARED ON ANOTHER SITE.
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Hello everyone I've also been lurking now for a few months and I just want to say that you guys rock! I love this site and its very uplifting to find a site with so many positive people that sticks together. I know that this does not have anything to do with the blind item, but I am sorry because I had to let you guys know that you are awesome. Maybe sometime in the future I might try to help solve on of the blind items but for now I'm back to lurking.
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Welcome, and come out of lurk mode more often!
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Toni and MJB, wake up and let a man mutually support you. To the poster up top who said women accepting gifts from European men sounds like prostitution, I think a line in the article read, no strings attached. PR did an article on a black woman I later found out was Vivica who was paid 20 grand to accompany a rich man to dinner so he could close a deal by his star struck business associates with no sex involved. It happens darling.
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Yes GS, I heard of the African woman in NY who books famous women like Vivica for these non sex dates, PR did a story on her.
It's a lot of back end deals, I know Halle gets paid 1 million a year for appearing at the Wal Mart shareholders meeting, an appearance fee, business deal, no sex involved.
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I sure hope there's no sex involved, Walmart has a lot of shareholders. If that was the case, the share price would go through the roof. Just kidding Halle! LOL!
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A shareholders meeting, the minutes are available, photographs are taken, it's an "appearance fee." Not all situations involve sex. Celebrities get paid to appear at clubs, Tiger Woods gets pad a million dollar fee to play in certain golf tournaments, is he having sex with the golf sponsors?
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Hey PR Fam! TGIF!
Can a sista get an application for this sponsorship program? LOL. I personally never thought E-V-E was in the league of Naomi or Stacey Dash, but hey someone is willing to pay, right? Where do I turn my app in?
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Hey PR Fam! TGIF!
Can a sista get an application for this sponsorship program? LOL. I personally never thought E-V-E was in the league of Naomi or Stacey Dash, but hey someone is willing to pay, right? Where do I turn my app in?
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Hi Gorgeous - That was me up top who said that. Like I said I am not judging anyone's lifestyle but I believe in calling a spade a spade too. I am sure all of this is on a case by case basis. Vivica's instance was different. And I don't deny that occasionally happens. But I am not buying that all these wealthy men are paying top dollar in every instance just for dinner. LOL But it would be helpful to us sex industry virgins if ya'll in the know clarify who is sexin for dough and those who aren't. Because I know I am not the only one who was lookin sideways at Eve and Kelly R after the recent chatter posted here about their alleged European exploits. Or maybe I was. LOL Maybe I over assumed. If so, sign me up for the arm candy, no strings attached, $20,000 for dinner only circuit. Dayum, I knew I shoulda stayed tryin to rap. LOL
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GS, I know it's hard for some women to believe these men are shelling money and gifts yet no sex is involved. But they have realize this is a different breed of man. Those guys are loaded and they don't even miss what it takes to buy a Maserati. I think women here are just too used to men who take them to Sonic and expect a night of passion in return.
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Quagmire, I didnt settle for Sonic when I was a teen and would never dare as a professional adult with two degrees. So I am going to excuse your slight, especially when I really meant no ill will to anyone.
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Quagmire is right, a different breed of men, PR did an expose on this. You are right myfavorite, some of the encounters include sex but just as many don't. The higher the name status for the woman the less likely she has to put out. In the corporate world, men like to impress with beautiful and famous women on their arm to close a deal by their star struck business partners, the woman is paid off for her presence, end of story. It happens, with a different breed of billionaire men who can have sex with beautiful women at the drop of a dime, they don't pursue as hard for sex as other men.
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You got that right ADC, I said the same thing, play on their star struck sensibilities.
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Myfavorite, I apologize if I came off as slighting you - I was responding GS's comment about the point of view that sex is automatically a part of the gift-giving. I agree with her that that's just not always the case.
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Hey My favorite, Panache will expose you to things that you didn't know existed. Like Fixers, from the ballin 8 teaser, gourmet food so damn exclusive, you have to have an auction to bid on it and now star women who attend business dates to cap a deal without sex. It's true, was shocked when I read about it on here but I talked to the owner, this is very big business.
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This european "sponsor" underworld with famous (black and white) women and very rich men will be exposed a little further in Ballin 8. The black Lamborghini driving supermodel in the story has this type of arrangement in Rome, Italy. Ballin 8 will take you behind the velvet rope.
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I remember reading a United Kingdom magazine. The Sultan of Brunei's son discussed gifting jewelry to famous people, like Mariah Carey.
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Key word like on the front page is "pursuit." If a wealthy man asks to buy a famous chick a yacht, private jet or expensive jewels, doesn't mean she's sleeping with him because he's trying to lavish. Prince Harry has photos of Halle Berry plastered all over his room. Stacy Dash got a taste of a millionaire and is in Europe all the time.
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thanks for clarifying these arrangements. i, in no way, believe that eve, naomi or halle are putting out.
when someone is a multi-millionaire or billionaire, six figures for a car or jewelry is nothing.
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I need to make a stop to Europe for real..LOL!!!! And with no strings attached, who needs this economy when you have European millionaires.
Shout out to Salma Hayek. She obviously got the memo.
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Sorry if my comment sounded as if I was castigating anyone. It was only meant as an example of a wealthy royal giving a person he admires a gift.
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To the men here please, please don't take that as a generalization of all men here. I didn't mean it like that at all. But there are some men who are like that.
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Agreed. I was thinking the same thing, but couldn't think of how to put it eloquently. Nicely done.
In the words of ??? "know your worth".
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Really LOL @ "I think women here are just too used to men who take them to Sonic and expect a night of passion in return." I get your point. I think it's pretty sad to exchange dinner for sex, but if you're going to do it at least insist that the restaurant be elBulli.
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NE NE AND HUSBAND EVICTED FROM HOME: According to court records, a few weeks ago a man by the name of "Greg Leakes" was evicted from the home in Sugarloaf, Georgia.
NeNe's husband is named Greg Leakes and they lived in Sugarloaf, Georgia during the taping of Real Housewives Of Atlanta.
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I just saw that Anon2!
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ANON I read that also but it just made me go huuum. I would definatly need Myra to say that this was him he was the only man to seem to have a job on the show. Bull is it as beautiful in my city as it is in Pgh?
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I just had the opportunity to read the front page, and just wanted to gave a shout-out and congrats to; Peaches, Sinni sin sin, Chi-Town R, Deanna, BP and ADC for making the Ballin 8 series. I aim to be just like you all when I grow up
**pulls out the How To Be Mentioned for the not so bright manual**ah, lets see
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Thanks Lady! I'm sure your pompoms will show up soon enough.
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Yes We Can! Just keeping hope alive
WOO-HOO
**shake shake of the POM-POM's of course**
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FRIDAY AFTERNOON LAUGH!!!
Enjoy:
The FBI had an opening for an assassin. After all the background checks, interviews and testing were done, there were 3 finalists; two men and a
woman. For the final test, the FBI agents took one of the men to a large metal door and handed him a gun. 'We must know that you will follow your instructions no matter what the circumstances.'
Inside the room you will find your wife sitting in a chair . . . Kill her!!' The man said, 'You can't be serious. I could never shoot my wife.' The agent said, 'Then you're not the right man for this job. Take your wife and go home.'
The second man was given the same instructions. He took the gun and went into the room. All was quiet for about 5 minutes. The man came out with tears in his eyes, 'I tried, but I can't kill my wife.' The agent said, 'You don't have what it takes. Take your wife home.'
Finally, it was the woman's turn. She was given the same instructions, to kill her husband. She took the gun and went into the room. Shots were
heard, one after another. They heard screaming, crashing, banging on the walls. After a few minutes, all was quiet. The door opened slowly and there stood the woman, wiping the sweat from her brow. 'This gun is loaded with blanks' she said. 'I had to beat him to death with the chair.'
MORAL: Women are crazy. Don't mess with them
Now get back to work J
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Zphi, thanks for that laugh ROFLMAO, but ain't it the truth!
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This story reminds me of an AKA who recounted a college experience in which three pledges (I think that's the correct term) were individually taken to the roof of a 3-story building and told to jump off of the building. Two of the pledges braced themselves and jumped off the building to the ground, one suffering a broken arm, the other suffering a broken leg. Well, the third pledge jumped-up once in place (technically jumping "off" the roof), not over the edge of the roof.
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Hey PR Fam...
I've been lurking and wanted to drop in for a minute and say Happy Friday and wish everyone a Blessed & Safe Weekend.
**Waving to Everyone**
Shout outs to: Myra, Georgous Sable, GEPS, Sin7, TAFKA, Malibusteeler, Hidoll, Soul Train, Motown, Lit,Ms Coleman, BOOBOO, Peaches, Nola Bella, Spymaster, Paris & Amber
As for the BI, I always wondered about Kendu, I gave him the benefit of the doubt because Mary gives him alot of credit for getting her life together. I hope Mary and Salt do the Christie Brinkley thing and get rid of them.
Just another reminder that there are men gold diggers too....
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Hey TNJ **waving my TGIF POM-POM'S**hope you have a safe and BLESSED weekend also.
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Hi, TNJ! I can see MJB crediting Kendu with helping her get her life together b/c I suppose having a special someone in her life was good motivation in her mind to change. But the problem is once she got past "good, I have someone in my life," what else did she get from him? What did he bring to the table besides an extra mouth to feed and child support payments for kids she didn't have the pleasure of creating? I'm glad Mary cleaned her life up, but her "motivation" is now motivating her to go back down that destructive path. Shame...
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I agree....
I just hope she did a prenup before they got married.
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Hey TNJ! Happy Friday to you!!
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Enjoy:
The FBI had an opening for an assassin. After all the background checks, interviews and testing were done, there were 3 finalists; two men and a
woman. For the final test, the FBI agents took one of the men to a large metal door and handed him a gun. 'We must know that you will follow your instructions no matter what the circumstances.'
Inside the room you will find your wife sitting in a chair . . . Kill her!!' The man said, 'You can't be serious. I could never shoot my wife.' The agent said, 'Then you're not the right man for this job. Take your wife and go home.'
The second man was given the same instructions. He took the gun and went into the room. All was quiet for about 5 minutes. The man came out with tears in his eyes, 'I tried, but I can't kill my wife.' The agent said, 'You don't have what it takes. Take your wife home.'
Finally, it was the woman's turn. She was given the same instructions, to kill her husband. She took the gun and went into the room. Shots were
heard, one after another. They heard screaming, crashing, banging on the walls. After a few minutes, all was quiet. The door opened slowly and there stood the woman, wiping the sweat from her brow. 'This gun is loaded with blanks' she said. 'I had to beat him to death with the chair.'
MORAL: Women are crazy. Don't mess with them
Now get back to work J
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LOL..sounds to me that the woman had it in for her husband to begin with. Can you imagine the notion that she had a moment of reflection to think of all the things he put her through and had a plausible reason to go beserk? meaning a job offer with the FBI...LOL
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I think Jennifer will be all right career-wise now. She's got Donald Trump, Oprah and Obama in her corner.
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Donald Trumpp too?
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Yep, heard he said she can stay at his Trump suites as long as she likes and will help her in any way he can. He's a big fan.
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It's good that Sean wants to change the perception of black males but he really shouldn't have put himself in the Obama category. They are both successful black men but Obama has class, Diddy doesn't. Obama has never been rumored to beat women, impregnant different women and be an absentee father and party to you drop at 40 years old. Here is what Diddy said.
Diddy is looking to change the perception of black males:
With the launch of his newest men’s fragrance on the horizon, Sean “Diddy” Combs is utilizing president-elect Barack Obama to promote the scent, in an effort to redefine the perception of African Americans.
The Wall Street Journal reports the rap mogul will appear in a black-and-white ad for the new I am King fragrance. The ad will be featured in magazines and on billboards across the country in December.
Dressed as a black James Bond, Combs wears a white dinner jacket as he is seen on jet skis, in casinos and aboard a yacht on the French Riviera.
Although the ads could come across with being out of touch with the current economy, Combs maintains that the promotion is reflective of what he labeled as an “affordable indulgence.”
“Everything on the market isn’t going to be attached to the bad economy,” he said. With Obama’s historic victory over Republican rival John McCain, Combs believes the time is now for marketers to shift their perception of the urban black male from the stereotypical person with lots of “bling,” to one of successful black men such as himself and Obama.
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P diddy must hang out with Janet Jackson
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I wish Piddy (on purpose) would stop with the foolishness.
Hey PR Fam!
Shouts to Nola, Teina, Chi-baby, TG, All of the Chitown Ladies), Pretty, Poet, Chrissy, Nubian and the rest of the crew, and of course Myra,Paris & Spy!
Have a great weekend everyone!
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U 2!
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Wassup JUSTBNME? Be Back the Weekend.
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Same to you Just!
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I guess he will never go away?
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You're right, he's like luggage.
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Nor has Obama openly and voluntarily talked about using body oils, his (delusional) bedroom skills, moisturizing, wanting to settle down, not wanting to settle down, or his desire to live out child-like dreams like being a race car driver, astraunaut, or fireman. Nor has Obama slept with and kept men on payroll like Jim Jones, Shine, or Fonsworth Bentley.
And Obama obtained success with integrity and walking a straight path. He didn't obtain success by not paying his people or stringing people along or slapping women on reality TV or making people walk miles upon miles for one damn slice of cheesecake.
So it's safe to say that Puff-Slobber was oh-so wrong for putting himself and President-Elect Obama in the same sentence.
PS: Didn't Puffy say that his "I Am King" ads were in tribute to the Rat Pack??? But because Obama was elected president, he's now saying it's to change to perception of black males? I'm not buying it, not even for a dollar.
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@Deanna- I don't think you like Puffy/Diddy/Poofy Combs?
LOL! Yes I remember he claimed he was channeling the rat pack and even had the sinatra song in the background!
Gosh I wish he would go away.
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I just wish he could make a move in his life WITHOUT a press conference or a YouTube vlog. That would be lovely.
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Deanna, diddy has simply told reality to take a hike.
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I think he hit the nail on the head.
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Why is Pshitty on Bill Maher? Why did Bill Maher ask him if Obama asked him for a spot in his administration? Obama better not think of asking his baby making, not commital, woman beating azz for a spot in his administration.
Bill Maher asked if we could stop with the bragging and the negative rap music. All Puffy could say was we MAY stop with the negative rap. Whateva! He sucks.
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I am watching it now and kind of feeling sorry for him because he looks nervous without all the things he hides behind like his SLANG and shades and bling. It's a mess.
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Hi PR Family, I just had to come out of lurk mode on this one. Sean Combs, P-Diddy, Puff Daddy or whatever he calls himself this week should NEVER not only put himself in the category of our esteemed PE Obama but he should NEVER put himself in the category of king. When I heard the name of his new fragrance I nearly gagged. There is one Living King that I know of and His Name is Jesus.......Let the church say AMEN! (smile)
Here's wishing everyone a safe, blessed and wonderful weekend.
*back to lurking*
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Hi Bjoyful. You always stay in lurk mode too long, come out to play more often!
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Hi Teina, I will definitely come out and play a little more often. Hope you are having a wonderfully blessed weekend.
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I hate to say it but Kendu and Salts husband is the answer to this BI. Sad....
Going back to bed to get rid of this cold!!! Have a great weekend all!!!
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Get well soon.
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Thank you Tiena!! I am feeling better
I am just here catching up as I just skimmed before (thanks thera-flu) but congrats to all in Ballin 8..I cant wait for this one to come out I absolutely HEART the Ballin series!!!
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Diddy is a fool
Have a good evening everyone
Be blessed
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Alright fam, it's the end of my day, I hope everyone has a safe and BLESSED weekend.
ttyl
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Too easy...someone gave it away the other night! Mary and Salt.
The other night, someone came in and mentioned they saw Mary's husband all hugged up on this stripper who was giving him a lap dance at a club in Vegas. Isn't this the situation the blind item is referring too? Should the blind item come out first before someone mention the celebrity and situation? lol Just thought it was weird.
love the site...carry on...now back to lurking :o)
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Hi Sharon, We discuss everything here on PR. So, it's a possibility ? Also, when people are discussing things they have no way of knowing that it's going to be in a BI...We can't control another poster posts about. I'm sure it's pure coincidence. I'm just trying to help you understand how things go on PR...
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He's getting around because the club I work at is in NY and Kendu is a regular.
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Also, How is someone going to know what BI is coming out?
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Im confuse if Keith Sweat was a abuser then why would he still get custody? Why couldn't Lisa find someone else take custody of the children. Why is Lisa only mention the 2 children only 1 time during the whole season. I would fought for my kids. Family should come first then the career.
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She's a horrible mother who doesn't want responsiblity, chasing stardom, I heard Keith puts the smack down, hard.
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Thank you for answering because I was wondering why Lisa did not get those kids
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SMH.
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You are not kidding. I know back in 1998, Keith was dating a collegue of mine. They had got into a verbal squabble and when we thought that he was going to walk away, he turned around and hit her in her mouth knocking out her incissors. To avoid having this in the press, he gave her a large amount of money and fronted medical cost/surgery.
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I believe he is the subject of a past BI
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If he did all of those horrible things to your friend, you know Lisa's butt got beat on the regular for know reason.Wow,I am wondering how will those two little boys turn out, since dad breaks his foot off in any random woman's @$$...he's a freaking psycho!These guys are monsters with severe emotional problems.
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At this time, I was so caught up in the safety and fact that my collegue was one of those types to try to change a man because she tolerated much abuse from this man prior to her teeth being handed to her for a wake up call that I did not think about the possibility of this man even being married at the time.
However, as I had said in an earlier post, there are still women trying to hollar at this fool til this day and some of them know what he is about via the circuit. Leave it to some women to have that "I can change a man" attitude.
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What ?...His nanny-goat,singing azz...Hmmpp!! If I were Lisa or the other woman, he would have some new lyrics to sing about...Trust me he would have all new material to sing, if he put his hands on me...
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Really? WTH? She comes across so straight laced!!! It's alleged that she was abusing drugs, so maybe that was the issue? She does have an "air" to her that's hard to place, I get a conniving vibe off her- Like she works hard, but she seems as is she has hella skeletons in her closet! I get a bisexual vibe off her, idk like she's an undercover freak!
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Happy Friday to all! I am going to jump on the BI band wagon too! God Bless!
ps. congrats! To all that was in Ballin 8! Myra thats one of the reasons I started reading PR! I have learned soooooo much from this site and from everybody's input! again thanks for the sight!
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Boris is so fine on the front page. Him and Elan made a striking couple, he was her last bf before she got married and she was his last gf before he married Nicole.
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Yes Boris is SOOO Fine..Me oh my ♥ Elan and Boris were probably like the Black Ken & Barbie. Two good-looking people!! I like to see charming & good-looking couples...It balances out,LOL.
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LITIGATING.....Where you at baby? GS said your fixer training with M&J wouldn't last long today!!! Where you at baby? For your birthday, I got a bad ass Italian suit, ain't I fine!!!
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Usually speak on politics but it's time for my favorite female singer MJB to cut her losses, get rid of that dead weight. He will lead you to the poor house. Another K-Ci wrapped in a better package.
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Agreed. Mary needs to follow that old cliche, the one that goes "I can do bad all by myself".
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WELL PUT LOBBYIST!!
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Good evening Panachigans: Congrats to all the SuperFriends mentioned in Ballin8!!
ShoutOut and much luv: MsColeman,Peaches,eyeonu2,Itiswhatitis
BrookLynn....good hearing from u!
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OKat! You have made my day! I know you are improving day by day! Keep On Keepin' On!!
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Okat - thanks...
Always good to see you on.
take care of yourself girly...
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Hey Brooklynn!
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Hi Bronw Beauty!
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PART 1: TONI BRAXTON'S FORMER MGR TALKS ILL ABOUT HER TRIFE HUSBAND KERRY: With regard to Kerry Lewis, Toni Braxton's husband of the past six years, with whom she has two sons, Barry Hankerson said that he had told his friend Toni that, from what he saw as Keri's personality, and what he knew of Toni's, he really liked the two of them together as a couple. Braxton's biggest concern just prior to accepting Lewis' proposal in marriage was the fact that he didn't have a job.
"His contract had dropped with Mint Condition. He didn't have a job and I said, 'you know what, I'll offer him a job to work at the label ... That's how much I cared about her; and cared about her making it; and having a husband that had a job. I said to her, '...do a press release when you announce your wedding that he works for Blackground in A&R. Do whatever you need to do so I can help you keep your face out there the best way you can."
Hankerson admits that he doesn't know if Braxton ever put out such a release; but did, however, know that if she wanted to, she could have.
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PART II: Toni's mgr goes on to say that Kerry interfered with her career and made all the decisions about her career and it became difficult to deal with her because of Kerry. "I really honestly believe they love each other and I think they are together in a way that it's them against the world. I don't think Toni will ever blame Keri for the demise of her record career. I don't think she'll do that. I think Toni and Keri are really people that need to be together. That's why I wish that she would have never put him in her career as choosing records because she would never even [have] had to think about it. But I don't think she'll ever blame ... I don't think you should ever blame your mate. I think he did the best he could do."
I would have never chosen Keri to work with her in any capacity creatively; he would never have been my choice. No one else has made him a choice. You know he worked with Mint Condition. They no longer have a record deal. So he's not a guy that you would choose to go to work with in the studio. He may be the kind of guy you choose to work with in some administrative capacity; keep track of the bills or something; but not to be creative. He doesn't have it like that."
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MInt condition has their own label Caged Bird records. This way they can record rock/jazz/soul...anything their minds permit, and Keri Lewis left the group to produce independently, thinking he caught a big "fish" with Toni
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PART III: Hankerson states he and Braxton's relationship began to sour during her last record with Blackground, the "Libra" album.
"...we had a very, very difficult time working with her because the first record she turned in to us was majorly done by her and her husband -- about 7 or 8 songs. We turned it in to Universal and they ... told us they wouldn't even put it out. We sent it to our international partners and they called her themselves and said they '...couldn't put that record out.' They heard no records on it. So we had a hard time. Her husband was very desperately trying to be on the record and do a lot of work on the record... That was the only time Toni and I started to have any problems in the relationship."
"I think she blamed me because there was really no one else to blame. When you look at the albums ... Toni had made a decision in her life to include her husband in the production of her music. And if you read the back of her latest album, he was very involved. He was ... involved in the three prior albums until the "Libra" album that she did with us. Keri is a nice guy; a very nice guy; but not a record guy."
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does anyone have any info on jill scott?
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OFF TOPIC:
Does anyone know anything more regarding the suicide of the Paula Abdul fan?
**scoots closer to insiders and listens real hard**
My co-worker was hinting at me that maybe the woman was more than just an obsessed fan, like their was a friendship/relationship there. I dunno. I've never heard rumors of PA being bi/gay. Just curious.
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Now, I don't know about Paula Abdul being gay but I do know that she gave Corey a run for his money when it came to his landing a career in the music industry. Yes, she was parading him around as if he was the latest in couture fashion along Rodeo drive. Yes, she was giving him an allowance. Yes, she was having him lodging in one of her homes as a cutty buddy for a singing career. Yes, she knew the rules about having personal relationships with contestants but she wanted to see if she could push the envelop by passing herself off as his "mentor" (for the sake of having a personal relationship with him) until it was brought to her attention as an ultimatum in which she saved face by having his past brought to light to spare her career/image and further tarnish his. Although her career/image was in check, it cost her another fiance'....STRAIGHT UP!
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Very interesting, never looked at it that way... smh
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Ruh-Roh
Dame is broke
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A bank wants his Tribeca condos, the city is seizing his SUV and his lawyer dropped him for not paying his legal bills.
It's not easy being Damon Dash, has-been hip-hop mogul.
The co-founder of Roc-A-Fella Records and Rocawear - who in 2005 sold his share in the clothing empire to Jay-Z for $20 million - is under assault in Manhattan Supreme Court from lawyers, lenders and landlords fed up with not getting paid.
The fall has been a dizzying one for Dash, who has gone from owning Keds, a vodka company and 1,300 pairs of shoes to dodging bills and accusing a former accountant of ripping him off for millions of dollars.
"I've worked with musicians, artists and entertainers that in the eyes of the media are very wealthy," said lawyer Jason Gabbard, who represented a fashion firm that settled a suit against Dash and his wife over $148,505 in unpaid fees. "But to borrow a phrase from my Kentucky homeland, they haven't got a pot to p--- in - they're broke."
A Manhattan judge this week ordered the city to seize Dash's Chevrolet Tahoe, since he wasn't making the $714.99 monthly payment on the leased SUV.
That October suit came on the heels of one in August, when Eastern Savings Bank foreclosed on the $7.3 million mortgage for two trendy Tribeca condos where the monthly $78,504.26 bill went unpaid for months.
Dash faces an outstanding $2.1 million tab with the New York State Department of Taxation and Finance, a $4,500 bill from the state for not paying workers' comp and a suit that says he stiffed the law firm that handled his child-custody case.
Dash even got dumped by another firm representing him in a $3.5 million suit against accountant-to-the-stars Barry Klarberg, who is accused of bungling his tax returns, costing him millions.
"The suit is meritorious and we wish him well with it," said Harry Lipman of Rottenberg Lipman Rich.
Dash's descent into an MC Hammer-like financial abyss is a far cry from 2006, when he boasted about his butler and chef in New York magazine and said he was worth "about $50 million."
Dash, 37, did not respond to interview requests. Spokeswoman Amanda Silverman said in e-mails Dash "won all of his lawsuits."
The record proves otherwise.
Court records show Dash settled two suits accusing him of not paying rent on two Manhattan offices, as well as suits charging he owed big bucks to fashion designer Charlotte Ronson, the fashion firm Showroom Seven and a security company that guards celebs.
"Quite simply, he got behind on his payments and it was necessary to go after him legally," said Mike Zimet, whose Bronx security firm sued Dash in 2005 over an $86,547 tab. "If you do the work, you want to get paid for it."
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Well ... it looks like Hilary Clinton is finally going to become Secretary of State. I commend Obama for putting together an all star cabinet all working for his vision. I think that Obama should also consider putting McCain to work in some way.
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If HRC gets the spot, this is how politics is played on the hill. Politics are a dirty business not to be taken personally. Hope you were joking about McCain. HRC and Mc are not in the same category and Mc is a Republican.
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morning friend. Obama is a very smart man. He's already recruited most of the Clinton's financial team not to mention Vernon...why would he not give her an appointment....not dirty politics smart politics
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Exactly friend. Vernon and Warren B. are the truth and so is HRC.
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Any word on possible candidtaes for Sec of Defense?
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I respectly disagree, HRC is a good strategic move, but in my humble opinion, not to be trusted. She was a sore loser and never really rallied behind Obama once she lost.
If giving her the post keeps her off of the 2012 ticket from running against Obama, I agree that making HRC the Secretary of State is a smart move.
But, I believe she woud be a potentially loose cannon as SOS who would go off message and try to do her own thing, as is she were really president. HRC was running things or trying to when Bill was president. As Obama's Secretary of State, she would try and run things then as well.
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No, I was not joking. I had made that suggestion to my husband right after the election. I think that it would do something, getting everyone that opposed him to align and work with him, in as high a profile as possible. That will do two things; first, it will solidify the independent and centralists who would like balance, and governing from the middle. Second, it will make it more difficult for the Republicans to oppose him in 2012. Based on polls Democrates and Independents think that Obama will handle all of the issues facing the President Elect well, the only voter block that does not think the Obama will handle the presidential issues well are Republicans, specifically extreme right wing Palin types. If PE Obama keeps those numbers it will make it very difficult for the Republicans to challenge him.
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Hi i1da- just reading the local paper, PE Obama is already moving forward with discussions to work with McCain to continue to further a partnership on Sentate ligislation they both advocated in the past, non partisan style.
Here's a link to read more. http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=obama+mccain+meeting+chicago&aq=f&oq=
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Isn't this what the government did to The Black Panthers and other similar organizations? Divide and conquer. PE Obama needs to divide the Repub party. Actually, the Repub party is already divided; all he has to do is capitalize on it.
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I had time to surf the net today and since I was curious about poss Sec of Defense choices from PE Obama, I read a few articles. Some of the articles are saying Republican Chuck Hagel, who is a friend of Joe Biden,is one of the leading choices. There's also talks about Colin Powell, not sure if he's interested. But, one of the stories is saying go across party lines not to divide and conquer but to be a uniter. Lot of theories out there so we may have to wait a bit longer on this one.
Good chatting with you! catch you later.
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Yes, but by uniting you also conquer. If I have two opponents who are allies and I am able to make one of my opponents my ally we have united and found common ground, but also my remaining opponent is much weaker ... or divided.
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I see where you're at with your thought, I just saw it as two realizing the things they wanted to accomplish could better be done through unification especially since there is a shift in power. You get what you need done regardless of party affliation becomes a win-win for me.
Do you have any thoughts re: Sec of Defense selections?
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Now adding the Clinton staff is a good move. However, McCain would not be one. Besides, McCain is assisting, the South's, Saxby Chambliss for his run for the senate office which means that he is all for what Bush was pushing all the while and would be totally against what Obama is for. Now, McCain had talked with Obama about reconciling political differences recently for a position with the staff but I gather that was a no go with Obama because of the aforementioned move that he has done to team with Chambliss moreso than Martin who is pro-Obama.
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Good evening!
I hope everyone had a good week.
Female celebrity and her cheating
husband: Mary J Blige and Kendu
Female rapper: ????
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No sympathy for Dame after he was dissing Kevin Lyles on that rap documentary I saw. You reap what you sow.
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Hello All!!! I've been busy w/a new job. So now I'm runnin' the biz and working with at-risk youth...I love it. I'm going to side with the majority.....But, what if Mary doesn't have a problem with it?????? I also agree with everyone on the latter. Salt's husband has always looked like he lives a double life. His aura speaks volumes... Anywhoo, please be easy and try not to get any on ya!!!Peace.
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Whatttt...Dame Dash is broke...I heard there were problems...but not broke...Well get ready world for one helluva tell all book...he bout to put all Jigga's business on blast...so that he can recoup his paper...he bout to tell some shyt that will make Supahead look like a fool...that's what people do nowadays...they get on some tell all shyt when they money is funny...Jigga betta cut that ole boy a loan fast...keep his mouth shut...and what's this shyt bout NeNe Leakes being evicted...Whatttttttttttt ? and renting the house for the show...I hate fake ballin...I hate that shyt worse than Jesus hate sin...when muhfukkas sit up and brag about shyt they got, they don't have it...because true ballers to the game will never let you know what they got for fear you'll ask them for some...real talk...
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"for fear you'll ask them for some...real talk..."... true ....or fear that you'll try to rob them for it... I don't have a lot, but I have more then a lot of people I know...even with a family...but I don't flaunt it because you put yourself at risk, I give to those in need... but that's about it...but yeah Jay betta watch out...and if he dont help Dame, Bey betta is she dont want to be embarrased....
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you and the above poster are so rigth. People,including family, upon either knowing or believing that you have accumulated some degree of success/wealth will try to ride you if you let them...and you know that since Beyonce' is with Jay, she will be obligated to stand in if he doesn't to save face.
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I can see it now, Damom Dash's Truth on JayZ, Aaliyah, (maybe even throw soon to be ex-wife Rachel under the bus as well, why not?) etc. I think it would be a tacky, last resort financial decision for Dash, but has the potential to make a very interesting (and lucrative) tell-all! I wouldn't be surprised if Dash were paid handsomely not to write such a book. But would he be paid enough to address his current financial situation? Who knows?
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I am with you;however, I really don't believe that for the most people will be inerested in his financial demise/turmoil as they would be interested in what he knows about certain celebrities especially the ones you mentioned. Tacky yes, lucrative, you bet. To keep him quiet about it...priceless.
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Dame is gonna keep his mouth shut if he has any sense. I remember when he was moving out of the Rocafella offices..this fool took the sinks and doorknobs from the office. What kind of tragic ig'nant ish is that? Mad because he had no choice but to sell to Jay. He was blowing all the company money on personal items/projects, signing low level "talent" to the label ( I know people will disagree, but the Pink Panther Dipset Crew was straight garbage to me), and the good talent he signed he didn't know what the hell to do with them (Kanye). He was loud, unprofessional and boorish. He's been having money issues for a looooong while. All that flossing he was doing for the past few years was on other peoples $$ including Rachel's. At least he was resourceful enough to marry a smart woman with a career, though he cheats on her like crazy and every time you see them together he looks like he wants to be anywhere else.
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ill co-sign... its really sad when you have to fake and put on the show for people you dont even know. i know people in my own circle like this and its sickening.
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Damon Dash got a home foreclosed in Europe that didn't receive much ink over here. Start the clocks ticking, Rachel won't be staying around too much longer because I know she wasn't just staying around for the sex since Dame is impotent most of the time and he goes in uncontrolled rages, he likes beating women with his fists and objects.
This is so true, the illusion of wealth and the fronting and flossing in the hip hop industry is crazy: I've worked with musicians, artists and entertainers that in the eyes of the media are very wealthy," said lawyer Jason Gabbard, who represented a fashion firm that settled a suit against Dash and his wife over $148,505 in unpaid fees. "But to borrow a phrase from my Kentucky homeland, they haven't got a pot to p--- in - they're broke."
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Rachel will be gone for long. Any word on what went on with him in regards to his son, Dash Jr.? Wonder how the mother is taking all this..assuming that she did not get incarcerated.
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Dame used to pistol whip the mother of Dash, Jr. but he got custody which was amazing. He was taking boogie, the boy's nickname to clubs and the boy did a show and tell in front of his classmates with a bag of marijuana he stole from his dad's stash. Kidada set Aalyiah up with Dash before she died.
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Wel J or B better start paying up b/c word on the street is that J has the "gift", by virtue of his rel w/LJ. It's rumored that Bey has it also... Now, that is only some of the disturbing facts that may be uncovered... What about the child that Free denies is his, and the child that is his splitting image? That story disappeared QUICK, wonder how much will Dame charge to Keep quiet? Did J really try to take AAliyah from Dame?
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Now if J has the "gift" that keeps on giving by way of Larry then I wouldn't doubt if Beyonce' has it. I didn't know that Free actually had the child and as far as his son with the West Indian/Carribean woman, I thought that was interesting how that was no longer discussed. I must admit that the child does resemble him although an attractive version. Now, it appeared via cuddle/canoodling photos that Aaliyah had something going on with Jay prior to getting involved with Dame. I found it interesting that Kedada even introduced the two as AfterDark had pointed considering Dame's volatile behaviour. I mean, pistol whipping your eldest child's mother?! I wouldn't doubt that he was somewhat abusive towards Aaliyah during their courtship as Mr. Kelly was in his "she got that vibe" days. My cousin, who was a neighbor of his prior to the money really starting pouring in from the public announcement era said that, and I do believe a poster commented on it once before as far as confirmation, that Mr. Kelly use to yell/curse at Aaliyah over things that were just simply human to err. I gather that she was a victim of abuse. Maybe she was literally telling on Dame in a song that she had out called "I refuse" as well as another song in which she had a lyric that went something along the lines of "when you twist back my arm, that was the straw that broke the back". Just saying. Perhaps, I'm reading too much into it but it does makes me go hmmmm. Your thoughts..
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The other song to the lyrics that I stated, was to "Never No More"..just came to me.
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I Remember at one point people calling in WW"s show to say that J was up at the hospital, that Free had jus given birth to a boy and that it was J's... Then a story came out that it was TyTy's baby and not Free.. I do believe that J and Aaliyah were involved, and I hear from very credible sources that Bey is J's "beard".. Why would J get upset at LJ for appearing in Fanny's video? IDK, but I think a lot of #$#^% is about to hit the fan....
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I remember Free getting really big and pregnant looking, and it was denied. Then all of a sudden she was thin. I thought that she didn't have the baby--I suspected a late term abortion. And that when Beyonce came on BET she was very cold to Free backstage. So she did have the baby? ANd were the rumors about Jay and Rhianna true? So much dirt...
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BET BACKSTAGE, where are you? We know you know. Was Free really pregnant?
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I was thinking the same exact thing about Rachel, she'll be gone sooner rather than later, unless she sticks around to gather more details for her own future tell-all. SMH I'm writing a tell-all too, The Prostitute that Wasn't.
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Rachel and Dame recently signed a 4 billion joint deal with Jones NY. Where they'd be profiting by at least 25%. I guess they weren't profiting. I think Rachel is talented and though I don't care too for her personal style some of her pieces are adorable yet overpriced.Not to mention its sold in all the high end department stores and the NY socialites and "regular girls" Love it!! Rachel is nice and Dame has a good understanding of the fashion business its a pitty they're going through this. SMH!
Wasn't Dame part owner of the Club Dirty Disco?? That too closed down earlier this year!!!
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Was it a $4B deal???? Scratch that, the working title of my future tell-all is The Designer Who Wasn't.
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I apologized for the above mis info. Jones NY is worth about 4 billion. A deal was signed sometime this year btwn Rachel and Jones where Jones would get 50% of the profit leaving Rachel, Dame and there other investors/partners to split the remaining 50.
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Thought I remembered an article about this and Jones of NY stated that was very far from the truth; regarding the $4bill with Lame Dame.
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OT: watching the news this morning. I knew the current administration was lacking on the intellect but man - I really believe they have no ideal the impact of the big 3 going under. They must think that this will just effect Detroit...will someone please tap Bush & let him know what effect this would have on the world, oh snap I forgot he don't have anybody around to let him know....whew! January can't come any faster
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Morning cousin!Very mixed emotions re:this very situation. One of my parents retired from 1 of the big 3. I know in the past there haven't been many incentives for them to do better/more with fuel reduction or alternative fuel usage but they have got to do something more to be more competitive and they have to build better products. This is a mess girlfriend, a real mess.
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hey eye, morning - this situation amazes me. I can understand everyday people not understanding the gravity of this like mr clueless writer in San Fran who wrote that article "Detroit must Die" but when the most powerful man on earth does not have a clue....smh
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I think 1 of 2 things...1) either someone will pull his coattails or 2) He's on his way out and will leave the biggest messes for PE Obama to resolve. A lot of people from service and suppliers & sales are tied to those 3 employers. Very serious implications and huge impacts!
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Eye, I totally agree with you. I'm torn about whether the auto industry should be saved b/c in the end it's always The Average Taxpayer who pays. However, on the flip side, you either pay now, or you pay later. So if the industry isn't saved, there still will be ruinous consequences for lots of folk working in the industry and a trickle down to impact many non-industry innocents. It's a mess, but when will the dominoes effect end? Who are they going to bail out next, rap moguls gone wrong? I didn't think so. It's not a secret, the auto industry has been on a very fast downward spiral for at least the past 20 years while the auto industry execs made out like fat cats, and still do. Who gets huge bonuses for continued sales declines, poor quality, and lack of creativity and competitive spirit? Sadly, too many. Sometimes you just have to watch the train wreck and deal with the aftermath. Maybe some dire "consequences" around here will cause other industries to get it together to avoid faiure. A no-more-bailouts stance might be sobering and effective. I don't know, it's a tough call.
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DEATH THREATS AGAINST OBAMA INCREASE:
WASHINGTON (Nov. 14) - Threats against a new president historically spike right after an election, but from Maine to Idaho law enforcement officials are seeing more against Barack Obama than ever before.
The Secret Service would not comment or provide the number of cases they are investigating. But since the Nov. 4 election, law enforcement officials have seen more potentially threatening writings, Internet postings and other activity directed at Obama than has been seen with any past president-elect, said officials aware of the situation who spoke on condition of anonymity because the issue of a president's security is so sensitive.
Protecting the Next President
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Authorities have seen more potentially threatening writings, Internet postings and other activity against Barack Obama than any other previous president-elect, officials aware of the situation said. Here, Obama is accompanied by Secret Service agents as he heads to his vehicle in Chicago, Nov. 7.
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Earlier this week, the Secret Service looked into the case of a sign posted on a tree in Vay, Idaho, with Obama's name and the offer of a "free public hanging." In North Carolina, civil rights officials complained of threatening racist graffiti targeting Obama found in a tunnel near the North Carolina State University campus.
And in a Maine convenience store, an Associated Press reporter saw a sign inviting customers to join a betting pool on when Obama might fall victim to an assassin. The sign solicited $1 entries into "The Osama Obama Shotgun Pool," saying the money would go to the person picking the date closest to when Obama was attacked. "Let's hope we have a winner," said the sign, since taken down.
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Now that is outright sickening. I don't know which is the worst...a hate hate crime in the works or one with executed. Recent report that a young African man was attacked by a small group of caucasians who were purportedly screaming "Obama" during the assault in New York.
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Good morning Eye, ADC, Trinity, Sekci, Lobbyist, and the rest of the PR fam!
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morning....
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Found this video on youtube and it's real disturbing. The video is titled:
Obama Gets Shot
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8J95eDYWUA
I'm bothered with the fact that these are kids (white kids) shooting at the Obama cardboard with BB guns. I don't consider this to be child's play and obvious this goes to show what their parents are saying in their household. Even more disturbing are the poster comments egging them on. I have already flagged the video as a complaint to youtube as a display of hate and violence. This video can be very influential to kids and adults a like who may only need a visual to make them feel more encouraged to make an act like this a reality.
Please go over there to report this video and have it pulled off of youtube.
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Morning Kay. I hope this mess gets taken down ASAP!
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Morning ItIsWhatItIs!
This video is one of many on youtube, but I found this one was discussed heavily on white sepremacist forums. This trend has now become a typical mob mentality, in which people who maybe unlikely to act out in such manner are carrying out or encouraging these acts. It just seems like this post election time is beginning to bring out the ugly side of whites in America. Even the ones considering themselves the most liberal and racially concious of the bunch.
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I just flagged it too...damn little white devils!
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Since there is a spike in threats and hate against Prez Elect Obama, then I feel it is our opportunity and responsibility to our new elected and to our nation to keep our eyes and ears open and report any kind of threat to him and his family. It's our duty to do so and put the activity out there that this is happening and we should target it. Put a shame on the people who are doing this. So far I haven't encountered anyone here in Chicago who is against Obama (this is Obama's headquarter) but best believe I will report to officials in a heart beat if I hear any kind of threat against him and his family.
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LOS ANGELES – The Los Angeles city attorney has charged Don Cornelius, former host of "Soul Train," in connection with two domestic incidents involving his wife last month.
Cornelius was charged with spousal battery, assault with a deadly weapon and dissuading a witness from making a police report, all misdemeanors, city attorney spokesman Frank Mateljan said Friday.
The married 72-year-old producer was taken to jail last month after police were called to his Hollywood Hills home following a report of domestic dispute.
Cornelius was released on $50,000 bail. He could face up to one year in prison for each of the five misdemeanor charges.
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Good Afternoon PR Family
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Hey SheKnows! Don't feel bad. You should see my book with all the holes from erasing too much.
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Hey Itis
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Hi! I am a long time lurker and reading this board is a guilty pleasure.
In regards Obama, I truely think that some of these conservative talk shows need to be reported. I live in Pittsburgh, Allegheny county, Western Pennsylvania the area that Obama said "they cling to there bibles and guns". You would not believe some of the trash that comes through our airwaves.
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I'm reading that this character Katt Williams is losing it. Pimpin aint EZ.
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Pimpin,pimpin,PAMPAN!!!! I was hoping this was not true, but after his alleged behavior at the BET awards, it might have been an indication that he may be on something!! At BET someone called the "union" on him-and he allegedly claimed his family (or something to that effect) called the "FEDS"on him or the "FEDS" are watching him!... IDK I hope all turns well, because he IS funny...
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Good Evening everyone!!! All the regulars, and the newbies!!!(such as me!)
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Honestly, I never really cared for "his" brand of humor and cooning anyways
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I agree 100% Sheknows 100%
If you remember I have said on here many times that a black man being a pimp is just like the white slave owners masters was back in the slavery days. And it sickens me because to have women out there working is like the slaves out there in the fields working. And they would think nothing of beating or killing those women as they put it get out of line or try to leave "escape"
Pimps calling they're women "B*i*t*c*h is like the slaves being called a gal,boy or the n-word. She calling him "daddy" is like when slaves had to say master
I will never understand how and why the black men who do embrace or glorify this pimp culture either.
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errrythang ok SheKnows? I think I got bail money but we may need to posse up if you keep talking bout running people over....lol
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Hey Trinity
Trinity, I seen my boy friend Marvin Sapp in Ebony magazine, with his family. He has a beautiful house, and I finally got to see his wife. They seem really happy and compliment each other...It's a beautiful thing♥
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ok sweetie, I love to see black love - was not trying to find anything negative
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Trinity I'm confused...What are you talking about,LOL ??? Please, help me out ?
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anything negative about mr sapp - don't know of him really
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Oh okay Trinity
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OFF TOPIC:
Katt Williams checked into a mental hospital? Didn't I say a few threads ago something was OFF about him? I think he has MORE than just the 'little man syndrome' jumping off.
**scoots real close to insiders and listens real hard**
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Maybe he decided to check in a mental hospital to avoid catching a case. Didn't Lindsey Lohan and Nicole Richie check into rehab to avoid being charged with drug possession? Katt Williams know what he's doing.
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She Knows:
I usually lurk but I agree with about DL Hughley's brand of humor. Have you caught his new show on CNN? Well as a blackperson who has been given a chance to reach out to a massive audience, he has done nothing but contnue perpetrating foolishness and this is more painful in light of PE Obamas win. Man, I watched the firt show and almost kungfu-chopped my usually delightful TV set!
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DL is a coon, plain and simple and a proud coon.
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there you go.....LMAO...'a proud coon'...I peeped that bout dude awhile ago...there is another one, worst than him - use to be on BET comic - can't think of his name....lol
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I cannot stand him. I saw the commercial for the show when he has Dr. Drew on and the doctor says the word cantankerous. DL responds by saying he only has a GED and doesn't know what that means. You almost expected him to say, "oh massa you knows ise not smart, youse gone hafta use small words."
Did I mention I can't stand him?
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All money isn't good money. I don't care what a network is paying, you should have some standards. They are paying him to be a buffoon, and someone mentioned that there's nothing but white writers for the show...Now, what does that tell you?
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lol @ proud coon; I just had a vision of DL looking like a medium-sized racoon attempting to cross a country road in traffic, varmint head held high and proud, staring the oncoming cars down defiantly and haughtily like, I dare you to run me over. Roadkill.
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remember the comic view days when he was actually funny? SMDH
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Hello mama of 1
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I'm so sorry for the typos...Lately, I have been mispelling words left & right. I have got to slow down
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OFF TOPIC:
Maybe it's just me, but I think that Busta Rhymes is slowly creeping his way out the closet. First he's in a video with Freeky Zeekey, acting like they lovers or something, now he's on video kissing Q-Tip on stage. Now for someone who is supposed to be homophobic, he seems to be really comfortable in the company of another man, and doesn't mind showing affection, even when the cameras are rolling. Either this is the way he is with his male friends or he's using these videos to let us know that he's knocking on that closet door and wants to come out.
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Checking in and singing, "I'm single again back on the prowl...." That's right my perfect boyfriend failed to tell me that he had gotten someone else pregnant. She was pregnant before we met. He claims that he didn't find out about it until a month after we met but he didn't tell me because he was scared that he was going to lose me. Bull $hit. One of his waitress told me while she was taking my order. The Ghetto in me was about to clown but I just kept calm. Thank God for PR..the stress reliever. Back to singing....I'm single again....
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Single ladies clap your hands...I'm living the single, single,single ...life. Love that song.
Keep your head up, sorry that you had to find out in the manner that you did, seems so callous to just give someones girlfriend that kind of info while taking their order. Lying by ommission is no less painful than lying by commission.Hope he does right by the child.
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Thanks Eyeonu2
I couldn't believe it when she told me. I had a friend with me and she had to kick me so that I wouldn't act a fool. When I talked to him about it he didn't see what he had done wrong. Blank Stare. This is a grown a$$ man that felt like him not telling me was ok. Huh??? So, I guess I was suppose to find out when she decides to take him to court for child support. Um No. Although the girl was wrong for telling me I left her a very generous tip.
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Like Eye said, keep your head up girly!
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Her job won't be in jeopardy will it?
Is the woman about to deliver soon?
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Thanks Teina
Eyeonu2-yes, her job is in jeopardy. The lady is set to deliever any day now. My ex (sounds funny) told me that he will get a DNA test but he is pretty sure the child is his.
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Hi Priscean Princess. Sometimes things are revealed to us at an inopportune time but imagine how long it may have took the boyfriend to finally tell you. Personally, my father got my mother and another woman pregnant at the same time. He married the other woman but never told her about the other woman or baby. Fast forward 15 years later. My father takes me to his home to finally meet his family, wife, and my half-siblings. He never even had the guts to forewarn his wife. BAM! He introduces his long lost daughter who is 1 month older than the daughter he has with his wife. The look on the wife's face! I will never forget that look. I felt so sorry for her. She was in shock and looked like she was about to cry.
I guess that I'm trying to say that at least you found out. God Bless......
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Oh my goodness- that had to be rough for you at 15 to be present for that! Hopefully you were able to have a peaceful relationship with your siblings.
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Oddly, I felt more sorry for the wife. I will tell you however - that one experience really stayed with me. I dealt with relationships and judged men (maybe sometimes unfairly) based on the sins of the father.
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It's true that some life experiences will shape us more so than others. I can imagine that you do use that and it probably has steered you toward a lower tolerance for BS. You sound like you were able to deal with it so good for you
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Thank you, eyeonu2! It was really pleasant talking with you.
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Ditto dear ditto!Sometimes a cyber ear works wonder. Thanks for sharing your story! GFS really needed to hear that one...Bet there are other lurkers who can relate as well. We ALL have stories to tell.
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Wow..thanks for sharing. I couldn't imagine how I would have felt. Are they still together?
I was glad that the waitress told me. She knew that I was his girlfriend and I think she asked to be my waitress. I'm sure that she was very happy with her tip.
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As far as I know, they were still together. I lost contact with that side of the family about a year after that. I guess my presence (or existence) may have been a strain on the marriage, LOL.
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@GFS Piscean Princess
As someone else pointed out, everyone has a story to tell and I feel for you. I hate deceit and I always ask someone to just not lie to me. He should have told you the whole situation because who knows, you may have understood? Having to find out from someone else is the worst and I would not wish that kind of heartache on anyone.
"This too shall pass..."
I always found music, a good cry and my friends as good healing, hopefully you have all that at your disposal.
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Teina? No no no..lol I meant Chi as in the greatest flat iron ever made. I know Prissy uses one..lol
-GFS: Now put your hands up! Glad that you kept your dignity. He is not deserving of you anyways. There is a guy out there that will respect you.
-First time watching the show on BET...those guys can really sing. I pray they dont get "caught up."...lol. Shakir was such a great mentor from what I saw on the show and Ive even heard from people who worked with him (before Def Jam) that he's a good guy...wonder what happened? He wasn't intimidating at all like Puff --all the extra sh*t Puff does is for HIM and for a show. Not to make a group better. I mean Danity Kane? I wasn't impressed AT ALL. Day 26...the jury is still out on that one. It just appears Puff is not into his artists anymore. He needs to hand it over to someone that gives a da*n.
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Thanks, I know that I'm doing the right thing but its really hard.
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Then that's probably a good sign. Usually hardest to do the right thing! Are you still looking for new employment?
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Yes, I am still looking. I know what I want to do and I refuse to settle for a position that isn't going to help me reach my goal. I want to eventually get a Ph D; so, I hope that I can find a position that cuts down on my travel.
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trust me-i know break ups are hard-especially when it's something so abrupt like this.it's best that you decided to walk away from it now than contemplate it and 3 years later you are in the same situation.
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My fellow Piscean, we are very INTUITIVE, and sensitive- sometimes we have these "feelings" and due to their potential outcome, we may ignore them- then BAM! I was in a 2 yr relationship, we had a minor (in my mind) argument, and "stopped" speaking. 2 wks later, he moved a chic into his crib!(unbeknownst to me) Now, my Piscean intuition told me something was wrong, but I ignored it for 6 months..He HAD to be dating her while he was dating me, thus I was thinking it (the problem) was me (and I do hold some share of blame), but he was involved mentally with her and checked out on me... long story short- I finally started to realize, went to his crib thinking I did something wrong- to try to work it out.. and BAM he's laid up sleep with this chick bucked necked! And it was raining that day! Like Alicia Keys says "Yes, I was burned, but I call it a Lesson Learned!" It's a year later, and I still have flashbacks that bring lil revelations and I'm like wth was I thinking? The good news is after we parted, I graduated with honors from a very good university, I'm about to take my LSAT. At 29, things are FINALLY looking up for me. I could've done better earlier, BUT I IGNORED the intuition... But I know the feeling! Thank God you had someone to tell you, and you are TOO GOOD....
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@GFS:My fellow Piscean, we are very INTUITIVE, and sensitive- sometimes we have these "feelings" and due to their potential outcome, we may ignore them- then BAM! I was in a 2 yr relationship, we had a minor (in my mind) argument, and "stopped" speaking. 2 wks later, he moved a chic into his crib!(unbeknownst to me) Now, my Piscean intuition told me something was wrong, but I ignored it for 6 months..He HAD to be dating her while he was dating me, thus I was thinking it (the problem) was me (and I do hold some share of blame), but he was involved mentally with her and checked out on me... long story short- I finally started to realize, went to his crib thinking I did something wrong- to try to work it out.. and BAM he's laid up sleep with this chick bucked necked! And it was raining that day! Like Alicia Keys says "Yes, I was burned, but I call it a Lesson Learned!" It's a year later, and I still have flashbacks that bring lil revelations and I'm like wth was I thinking? The good news is after we parted, I graduated with honors from a very good university, I'm about to take my LSAT. At 29, things are FINALLY looking up for me. I could've done better earlier, BUT I IGNORED the intuition... But I know the feeling! Thank God you had someone to tell you, and you are TOO GOOD....
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You are so right! I kept having a dream that I was pregnant with a boy. Everytime I woke up I would be confused as hell because we hadn't slept together. Needless to say, I was extra careful when we were together. One day I asked him if he wanted a boy and he quickly said "NO, end of discussion." Red flags immediately went off. What man doesn't want a son?
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O/T Nebraska law re: leaving any aged child at a hospital- aka legalized abanondment. Folks have left children as old as 18 years old. Being a parent isn't easy but what does this say for society and the willingness to put in the extra work needed to rear children. One lady drove from Indiana and dropped her 8 year old son off at a Nebraska hosipatl because she didn't trust the Indiana child welfare system. Guess where he was returned to? Sad state of the world- really trying times.
I thank God my parents never abandoned me.
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Agreed. However, being a mother to a 16 year old hormonal son, I can't lie. The thought did cross my mind. I KID, I KID!!! LOL!
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I have a handful plus away at school. I have been through the terrible twos and the trysome teens and thought I would be jailed- LOL but I had some praying parents who thankfully retired at the right time and we able to be oh so helpful so that I could maintain employment AND sanity! It's still a challenge we just have a few states seperating us-LOL
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I hear you. I have another son at Lincoln Univ in PA. Went through some of the same teen stuff. Stayed on his butt HARD. Never dropped his tail off at the hospital but plenty of times, felt the urge. Prayer, perseverance and tears will get you through the challenge. Hell, nobody said it would be easy.
And I will also mention that the eldest son always thanks me for doing all those things he never understood then but appreciates now.
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Everynow and then I see a glimpse of seeing something I said or did paying off. Having just one is a different challenge and makes me think how many times people said have another because only children will drive you up a wall. Oh well we'll never know now
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Any parent who would do this needs to take a hard look in the mirror at the role they played in bringing that child to where they would not want the child ny longer.
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Ok AtlP, I thought you were talking about these peculiar hairstyles I've seen on Chicago men where they grow long hair and keep it in ponytails or braids, and then wear it down on "special" occasions like weddings or out stepping. Well, Chicago is still country.
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haha...girl thats everywhere. you know its down here ...lol...
*whispers..heard our boy is really sad about Shakir's death**
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whispering too...hey APrincess. Who? Pshiddy?
What good book are you reading these days?
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hey..I just cracked the book open..it's called "A Hope In the Unseen"...it chronicles a young man's journey from the rough streets of DC to his freshman year at college at Brown.....
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Just googled it- sounds like a good read!
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yes..good reading choice.
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You're right,its down there too but that is the south! I'm 1 of those people who happen to like my south in the south, you know. Lol OK, they are in the same industry, but if he's that upset is it bc they are with the same label or were they like really good friends or something? I know you're on it girl!
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Jeezy?
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Teina...it's some things in the south that Im glad some people DONT see. Just today I saw this girl with finger waves in the front and a flip in the back--like my sister says "party in the front-business in the back" SMH.
-hey eye! Yes Jeezy- Shakir was responsible for getting him that solo deal with Def Jam...you know before Def Jam.. he was signed w/ Bad Boy South (Boys In The Hood)--recorded one album and left. He had a plan anyways--he wasn't going to be a part of that group for long....glad the jumped the ship cause Diddy would have had him shelved...now Teina I was just at my friend's condo the other day--before we pulled up to the valet, Im looking all around for the Lambo....lol...guess Mr. Jenkins is not in town right now..lol
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I do literally laugh out loud when you guys clown "her" about Jeezy. I hadn't heard that rumor til I read it here. I just hope he said no thanks I'll pass
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eye: I am TRULY hoping it's just a rumor. when it was told to me I just laughed--but you know when you laugh and then get that serious look like "did he?"..im REALLY hoping not but I keep wondering why she wont answer in the midst of her rants...lol..all of my friends think Im nuts but I like that guy Jeezy. Not the normal stature, occupation, ect that I prefer in a man but *shrugs*..something about his swag...they crack up when they get in my car and I have his music blasting..lol
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Hey eye, I thought atlp was referring to jeezy, I may be wrong, so I'll let her answer.
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GFS, hugs from a Leo to a Pisces.
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Thanks.
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I hate to say it...but I think it is MJB.
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Girly, i just spit out my coffee @ what your sis said! I'm on the darn floor. She's on point describing some of these busy hairstyles. If your sis isn't already commenting here, you should invite her to.
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lol...ive tried to get her to post but she just lurks..lurks..lurks
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I didn't know people still rocked fingerwaves- really.I am humbled by that disclosure.
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YES me too. Im baffled when I see people walking around with finger waves and french rolls. WTF?
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I work with a sister that refuses to release the roll/bun. I am just confuddled but she's comfortable with the low maintenance involved. And she is in upper management and only early 40's. CANT.LET.IT.GO.
I can't imagine being a hairdresser adnd having to produce these styles. I'd be afraid that my clientbase would be damaged-LOL
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LMAO!!! Girl, I saw a chick recently who looed to be about my age with a Gerri Curl
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You are kidding me,a curl?She probably thought her hair was fierce!I didn't understand then and I damn sure wouldn't understand now.
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I kid you not,LOL...It was in a bushy Gerri curl. Now, I can see an older person...When I go down south, a lot of older people still wear curls, and I've seen a few of them here. I never had a curl,LOL. All my siblings had one except me. I hated them,LOL...I must have my hair, lashes, and nails done to perfection. I don't get the lashes all the time, because my own lashes are real long. People often ask me are they mine ?
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When I get my nails done...I just get a regular set of tips with a nice light color; lilac, frosty gold, or fuschia. I don't get any nail art.
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Eye & atlp, don't you guys get me started on these hairstyles. What about these folks wearing these way-to-much-hair straw curl wigs/weaves? Looking like a chia pet @ the head.
*paging atlp's sis* post.post.post!
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I politely call them squirels. I have a relative who never gets it quite right. I just say she has a squirel on her head. Pray for me.
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This is Mary all day, every day. Mary is reaping what she sows. She was having sex with Carl Thomas when they did a tour and she knew he was married for years, she was also with Nas, Diddy and her Cuban brother-in-law, the guy married to her sister, that's why they don't speak anymore.
OT:
Allen Iverson has 3 kids with his wife and five with women (5) outside of his marriage. His wife looks the other way.
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wow- 5 outside of the marriage, suppose he's not fond of contraceptives. Sad as hell.
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She should be ashamed of herself for sleeping with those married guys and her sister's husband at that?Hmmmm... wow,that's down right disgraceful!! I don't care if she was abused a million times that still don't give her the right to act a fool with her own sister's spouse.IMO, she is reaping what she has sown. Man, that is so messed up and Kendu is fixing to make a come up off of Mary's stupidity, insecurity or whatever you call it.SMH
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I remember she tried to swear up and down that she wasn't sleeping with Carl Thomas. Now im starting to wonder if the rumors were true that she was once pregnant by D'Angelo. Also, you can add Treach, Charles Oakley, Case, the producer Malik Pendelton and possibly Method Man and Jay-Z to that list.
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AI has 5 kids with his wife. don't know about any others
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Wow AI, real nice. You guys were joking that he goes to the ghetto mall bc he likes hood girls, but I think he goes there bc after child support payments that's all he can afford. Somebody send his a wife a memo that she's missing out on the money and the honey.
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*praying* (this is for you to AI, but I know god helps those who help themselves, so wrap it up dude)
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Nite all.
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Good night eye
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Well I'm sleepy, so I'm out. Good night Trinity & Teina
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Good morning everyone
GFS, girl believe me when I tell you that this was a blessing in disguise for you. When me and my ex broke up earlier this year I felt that he was cheating on me and I was right and I also found out that some girl that he was so-called dating before me was pregnant as well. I was very hurt when found out and it took a while for me to get over it but I refuse to be with anyone that does not respect me ane he showed that. He as well as acting like dumb ass and that it was not a big deal and I can't have that and I bounced. Since we have mutual friends I ran into him about 2 months ago and he looks like s***. He's not happy and now he's about to be a father and he's realized that the grass is not always greener on the other side. He's not my problem anymore. You don't need the drama and you deserve better. Someone good will come along and treat you the way that you are supposed to be treated
Sorry if this is a double post.
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Good morning guys! I agree.. (see my post above) Although we don't need the stress or the heartache it still HURTS to get over... Why does it seem as if "the grass is greener on the other side syndrome" is so common nowadays? He (my ex) has attempted several times to initiate dialogue through email, txt, calling from pvt numbers, attempting to have mutual friends contact me with info on him thinking I would call, sending flowers, etc. but HE did me a FAVOR! Now that he's with her all the way, he is trying to get me, to help him OUT of the situation HE made! He claims he left his 80% for a 20% ! Whatever that is... But again, I will just say it was" a lesson learned", and I'm still kinda traumatized. I still LOVE men, however I'm so cautious, I probably push away "good" guys...
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Can someone explain the Tyler Perry 80%/20% logic to me? I was in the midst of a bad breakup, and I chose NOT to watch Why did I get Married? A mutual friend relayed this logic to me as she was attempting to "cop"a plea for my ex. Now I know I'm not sexually prude, but there were just some things I was NOT willing to do (at least with him/for him). But if anyone can explain the logic of that 80%-20% rationale it would greatly be appreciated!!! Thanks in advance!!!
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GFS,I think to some degree we have all been in similiar circumstances.It's best to walk away.I was in a relationship few years ago with someone (the second time around with this idiot)and found out he was seeing someone else also.I found out by happenstance when she called my house.This went on for quite awhile with her saying how he talked against me and so forth.When I approached him with the situation he said he was with her for money(she's a widow)and other stupid sh**.I knew I had enough when she called talking her usual stuff(saying she was trying to be my friend,how his family never liked me so on and so forth) and I called another RUTHLESS ex of mine.I laid the story out to him and he said I;ll call you back if you still want me to handle it at that time I will.I did some mean praying after that call.When he did call back I told him to forget about it,it wasn't worth it.My cousin and her husband ran into them at the casino and said she looked like Pitiful Pearl,I wished they had called me so I could see for myself.Years later when I saw him he looked like hot hell,I think they have broken up.He was trying to plead his case saying that it was all a misunderstanding and that his family(mostly his mom (the so called psychic)never said those things.His grandmother(whom I actually adore and truly miss) kept smiling at me. I wondered what in the hell did I every see in him.So the tears do dry up.I think at that time I played the hell out of Chante Moore's post breakup CD and Janet Jacksonwith Carly Simon song.My younger cousin is also going through a bad breakup,but the difference is she alienated herself from friends.When she gets a man she dumps everybody for him.She was making wedding plans after the second date(did I fell to mention he's a friend of the family recently divorced and a notorious liar)So now that it's over she considering doing a travel assignment in search for a man
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BTW- I NEVER knew Wanda Sykes was gay. I swear I have zero "gaydar". I know her earlier stand up made mention of a husband?
I watch the "L" word and I know lesbians have issues too but why do they seem so much happier without a man? I am jealous.
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boo boo, if you didn't know Wanda was gay your gaydar is not zero - it's minus 10....LOL!
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I know I know...sad.
I like her more now that I know she has always been honest, I just never listened.
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now you know i had to mess with you on that one....
go lions! I know we can do it - 0 & 16
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Trinity, I knew that I liked you for a reason famz. Go Bears!
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The lions messing up right now - we're winning....lol...they going to blow that o & 16 man
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Wanda Sykes is funny as hell. When her show Wanda At Large was on and in a couple episodes she had a boyfriend it looked weird because it was like she was trying hard to pull of being a girly.
She's on a new show now and she was kissing a guy and I swear it just didn't come off like it was real she's just a little too tom boyish. But she's is funny as hell to me
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Shoshanna, Imma get you some Energizer batteries for your gaydar for Xmas.
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LOL@ ItIsWhatItIS
Thanks but it still won't work.
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Facepainter, you around?
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Hi Trinity, What's up?
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Hey you, still in Germany?
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Yes In Munich.
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I'll be there in Jan
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Will you be on vacation or working?
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working
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Well we could meet up if you like?Do you know anyone here?
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No I don't - Paris can send you my contact - if she doesn't mind...
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Cool!
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I will be in Holland for Xmas and then Istanbul for the first 2 weeks of Jan. But I return no later than the 15th.
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is there anyone here who has been on a tom joyner fantastic voyage OR knows someone who has? would you mind giving me any insight? i'm interested in the overall atmosphere and the general age groups present.
just researching vacation ideas for the upcoming year.
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no..but i need a fantastic voyage!!! this funky ride i've been on is the pits!!!
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Hey Nubian~
With both CNN and MSNBC running specials on Jonestown I was curious to see what you thought of the specials.If you happened to catch one or both of them.
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@Karamelba
i saw the the Jonestown special on CNN with Soledad O'Brien it was pretty good. it is a firsthand tale as told by eight survivors of the tragedy. It's really gripping and makes you you look at some preachers out there very closely.
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sorry misspelled your handle, my bad, typed too quickly
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